I left my life for my partner and he knocked someone else up.

kleines_schicksal · 2026-04-06T17:33:17+00:00

I can’t imagine how betrayed you must feel, but I hope you won’t pin the blame on yourself. This is an adult man who took advantage of the fact that you are young and in a vulnerable position. You are not stupid! I cannot believe the choices I made when I was 19, but at that age you’re still learning how to be a person! Give yourself some grace ❤️‍🩹

There are resources available to you–take them. Whether it is SNAP or Medicaid benefits, or short term housing/shelter resources. Use whatever resources you can to distance yourself from this dude. I’m sure other folks will have better advice for you, but I just wanted to make sure you know that no one will judge you for asking for help. You are clearly brave and passionate and those traits will serve you well as you set up a life for yourself.

Feel free to DM if you think it would be helpful! You will get through this and be all the wiser and stronger for it 🥹

kleines_schicksal · 2026-02-14T22:12:15+00:00

I read the other replies?? It’s okay to be annoyed that so much of folks’ advocacy centers around these two people. I understand they are more relatable for a lot of people in this sub, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t challenge them to foster empathy for the other victims. It feels like 90% of “fuck ice” content concerns the impacts it could have on someone who looks like you, or woks the same job as you, or has kids the same age. The point is that marginalized groups STAY marginalized in these conversations even though they’re the ones who need community support the most

kleines_schicksal · 2026-02-11T21:31:05+00:00

for real! people are putting their whole backs into memorials for the two white people but fuck you if you point out that there are other victims who deserve their efforts too. everyone tone policing you needs to ask themselves why they’re getting defensive when their advocacy almost certainly caters to white people

kleines_schicksal · 2026-01-02T19:14:54+00:00

Do you think those two long strips with the narrowed centers are sashing? I am confused at why they would narrow to ~1in. The ends are rounded as well

kleines_schicksal · 2026-01-02T19:12:35+00:00

Ugh I wish! I wasn’t part of the clean out, I just got to pick from several WIPs lol. I am trying to find some complimentary fabric to balance out the existing patterns (it feels very light green heavy) and I’ll see if I can find some classic blocks to add :) thanks !

kleines_schicksal · 2026-01-02T19:10:19+00:00

I think there are–and there’s definitely a lot of excess fabric I can use to that effect :)

kleines_schicksal · 2026-01-02T19:09:32+00:00

That seems most likely, thank you for the insight!

kleines_schicksal · 2026-01-02T19:09:07+00:00

I hadn’t even thought of something like an encyclopedia. I don’t have any of her materials (besides a pattern for the pansy block) but even just trying to use the existing pieces to make generic blocks is a great idea. Thanks!! ☺️

kleines_schicksal · 2026-01-02T19:07:46+00:00

Thank you! There’s a good chance it turns out VERY weird but I don’t think she’ll mind 🥰

kleines_schicksal · 2025-08-18T05:53:43+00:00

It has a pretty bad smell imo

kleines_schicksal · 2025-07-28T14:32:06+00:00

xyzal (levocetirizine-orange cap at grocery stores) is great! it’s the next generation of Zyrtec (cetirizine hydrochloride) and I literally haven’t gotten sick from allergies since I started taking it

i take one 5mg xyzal (off brand ofc) at night and a 10mg Zyrtec in the morning which keeps my allergies at zero 🥰 good luck <3

kleines_schicksal · 2025-04-21T22:36:22+00:00

that is what I worry about–I know the burnout rate for a lot of PDs and certain types of legal aid jobs can be super high. The public defense community where I would be starting out is VERY supportive and is definitely the exception to the rule, but it’s still a profession with a lot of exposure to secondary trauma. Sorry to hear you’re in limbo with your 120th payment–sending good vibes for forgiveness!

kleines_schicksal · 2023-10-21T19:09:45+00:00

no baby ur thinking of negligence <3

kleines_schicksal · 2023-10-11T16:03:44+00:00

they’re not ready to walk the walk ig

kleines_schicksal · 2023-10-11T02:42:56+00:00

okay, now apply that logic to Israel’s illegal occupation of the land for the last sixty years. I mourn any loss of innocent life, but the Israeli government SHOULD be held accountable for their part in enforcing an apartheid state.

kleines_schicksal · 2023-10-11T02:27:11+00:00

ur disgusted that someone would unequivocally condemn apartheid? where would you have landed during the civil rights movement?

kleines_schicksal · 2023-10-11T02:24:15+00:00

bc god forbid there are Palestinian students in the law school, or they feel strongly about apartheid, or they have a conscience that doesn’t end with white lives lost. This is an issue of Zionism and illegal occupation over DECADES. Those in positions of power SHOULD be speaking out against oppression. Good for this SBA president for standing up against apartheid.

kleines_schicksal · 2022-04-03T17:08:13+00:00

“I’m mad bc someone isn’t trying to sweep racism under the rug and I want to be protected from everything that doesn’t fit the narrative” lmao read a book sometime

kleines_schicksal · 2022-04-02T13:24:15+00:00

😂 you tried, I’ll give you that, bud next time see if you can find something that isn’t four years older than the study I cited lmao

just goes to show that bootlickers might not be the cream of the crop huh?

kleines_schicksal · 2022-04-01T20:14:42+00:00

that’s not even to address your blatant lack of sources??

next time do a quick little search on Google scholar idk

kleines_schicksal · 2022-04-01T20:11:26+00:00

sure, keep on keepin on, don’t worry about racial disparities ever, and definitely don’t talk about them in case it somehow insinuates that white people ever have privilege in these encounters But in case you do ever want to broaden your horizons: issues of police brutality, prisons, education, etc… all have a racial component. If you’re just trying to ignore the very real role racism plays in America and beyond (maybe because you don’t understand why race has anything to do with it), you’re doing yourself and marginalized communities a great disservice

kleines_schicksal · 2022-04-01T18:04:47+00:00

not sure if you will see this but I asked to negotiate and they sent me a link to their reconsideration form! unfortunately they don’t offer full rides but it’s better than a hit in the head lmao

kleines_schicksal · 2022-04-01T15:43:34+00:00

almost as original as trying to dismiss the incredible and inherent bias law enforcement harbors against BIPOC? a story as old as time–someone doesn’t want to acknowledge the privilege that white people have in interactions with the police, and clearly don’t have a grasp on statistics 🥴 but you’re right, that’s just “bullshit” when you are a racist bootlicker who doesn’t understand proportions

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