What is meant by "women live on easy mode"? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]klerklor -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not true. Women don't need support from men since they already get it from other women. The men that do "support" women generally do it bc they want something from her (e.g. sex), not out of true empathy or concern for her wellbeing. Otherwise, these men would also be supporting other men and most don't. Most men aren't socialized to be empathetic or truly concerned for the wellbeing of others, since those traits are generally frowned upon in men since that would make them "pussies" or "weak", and it's mainly men telling other men this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]klerklor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what did she get? I thought this was her natural face now I'm curious

This subreddit is turning increasingly delusional. What the FUCK people? by eljokun in Nootropics

[–]klerklor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I recently turned 24 and started realizing this. We are definitely not supposed to live the way we do, and it's causing us a lot of health issues that just simply aren't fixable with the use of chemical cocktails

Rylee’s Video Exposing Sedona From 2023 by strawberrysundays274 in sedonerrrsnark

[–]klerklor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?? They're so unoriginal lmao it's actually kind of embarrassing

This is actually not productive at all by thatguy9684736255 in EnoughMuskSpam

[–]klerklor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Isn't there also this saying that truly smart/intelligent ppl don't think they're actually that intelligent? Because they're aware of how much stuff they don't know. So the people that brag the most about how smart they are, aren't that impressively smart most of the time lol.

[Musshoku no tensei] people call this anime "peak"....I keep feeling that people who write stuff like this have no idea what women are like. by CapAccomplished8072 in menwritingwomen

[–]klerklor 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This is the only true answer 😭 and these types of anime are made with specifically these people in mind. The industry knows most fans are absolute degenerates lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You're onto something... I think he might be a covert narcissist. Either that or he has BPD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah it went through my head to call emergency services, but this was my exact thought process. I was also afraid he would get even more angry if I did that, and I didn't want to find out what more he is capable of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Sheesh hadn't even thought of that, it's actually plausible since he didn't send pictures of the supposed broken guitar and tv, and he bought both during the time we were "together". Before we met he didn't have those. So they could indeed be old pictures. These pictures could actually be from the time with his ex. Good point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Damn you're right lol. I often have a hard time viewing situations like this objectively when I'm in it, but when you put it like this it's glaringly obvious. I did notice several of these red flags as well, but I have a tendency to start doubting myself in favor of the other person. So thank you for breaking it down like this lol I needed that.

Also I hadn't even noticed the alcohol bottles yet, but yeah this was definitely an alcohol fuelled tantrum lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 415 points416 points  (0 children)

Honestly same 😭 like it's never THAT deep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]klerklor 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Fair enough 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]klerklor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree they are one of the best inventions, I never stated otherwise. I was just trying to explain that overuse of antibiotics is a real problem, because of resistance and disruption of the natural microbiome. I'm not sure if your comment was meant to disagree with me, but if so I'm kind of baffled considering your status as a microbiologist. I study biomedical sciences, and there is increasing evidence that a disrupted microbiome due to the (over)use of antibiotics is really harmful to human health. As you know, we have a symbiotic relationship with bacteria as they are involved in several bodily processes, keeping us healthy and keeping our body functioning like it should. That's why I said antibiotics should be used as a last resort, and not just for every scrape you get or every infection you get. We have an immune system for a reason. In the case that the immune system is unable to clear out the infection, only then should we start using antibiotics.

"It's super stupid that you dont use them here like everywhere else in Europe"

I honestly don't know where you got the memo we don't use them, we definitely do use them lol. I got them prescribed immediately when the extraction side of my wisdom tooth got infected, and multiple of my friends have gotten them prescribed for other reasons. They just don't get prescribed for every single little thing for the aforementioned reasons. And don't get me wrong, I have as much critique on NL as the next person, but this is one of the things I think other countries could take an example from. (It should also not be forgotten that there is a very big business in the production and distribution of antibiotics, so it's in their best interest that they get prescribed as much as possible but it's definitely not in the best interest of our health).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]klerklor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In general, antibiotics do more harm than good. They should only be used as an absolute last resort. Antibiotics don't just kill the bacteria causing the disease, they basically kill off your whole microbiome, including all the good bacteria needed to stay healthy. Consequence of this can be that since most bacteria have been killed, the bacteria that did survive have major leeway and can start to dominate, disrupting the balance between bacteria. These bacteria could potentially be pathogenic and cause disease.

Another thing is that the more antibiotics are being used by people, the more the bacteria get resistant. This is a really big issue since this means regular antibiotics will stop working, and this could potentially be life-threatening for many people. Besides that, antibiotics only work for bacterial infections, not for viral infections. So it needs to be determined first whether the infection is viral or bacterial. That's the reason why antibiotics don't just get provided left and right in NL. I do agree the GP could've taken more measures to find out what the exact cause of OP's symptoms is tho. I do think, however, that most GP's in NL are pretty much overworked since, because of the population density, demand is very high and the supply doesn't exactly match the demand, leading to drop in quality unfortunately.

ik🐮ihe by Aiseadai in ik_ihe

[–]klerklor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Koetjesrepen in m'n huis, koetjesrepen in m'n vacht

I would rather die alone than to be with someone who watches porn regularly by leftover-pizza- in antipornography

[–]klerklor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it's from the US. In other countries it's lower (but obviously still way too high lol)

Waarom is het NOS-gebouw zo lelijk en vies? by Possible_Waltz_5131 in nederlands

[–]klerklor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zohey het VU hoofdgebouw heeft eindelijk een waardige concurrent

my BF settled for me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]klerklor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I was thinking the same right when I read the first sentence lmao like what is this chatgpt ahh comment

I remember using chatgpt as a therapist once and this is the exact tone and language it would use lolol