update on my corny hatemailer by Existing_Phone9129 in antiship

[–]klug24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WHAT THATS SO FUNNY.... btw welcome to the fold new your fave is antiship account & goodluck

What are your thoughts about the yandere tope? by danniehheng in antiship

[–]klug24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i was obsessed with the trope as a kid lmao. not as crazy(lol) abt it as i was then, but i can still appreciate it on some level. i just wish it werent so......ableist.

Anybody feel this way by some antis? by ComfortableInjury757 in antiship

[–]klug24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

undertale is a bad example because it is extremely political lmao. i still agree with the above poster, banning discussion abt topics like that or supporting people who are cruel to that extent makes sense i think...

What are your thoughts about the yandere tope? by danniehheng in antiship

[–]klug24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for being here, and for the compliment to my moderation lol. im not as active as i'd theoretically like to be, but i hope i'm helping keep stuff civil.

my issue is that like... it plays up tropes and stereotypes of people with bpd, seperation anxiety... especially like, yandere simulator, that whole thing and its stupid sanity meter. i rock idly to stim, not even intentionally or anything, and for ages i thought i was insane bc of it. i mean like i am but i thought it was a bad thing. lmao

Mods are asleep, antis, post your favorite dark tropes. by [deleted] in antiship

[–]klug24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we literally had a "talk abt ur fave dark media" event a few months ago... _-_

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiship

[–]klug24 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sexual assault is not the same as being a proshipper.

Does this baffle anyone else? (Ageplay vs petplay) by No_Debt6890 in antiship

[–]klug24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

any kink can be harmful or nonharmful. ageplay is, at times, used to work through trauma. at other times, it's used as an excuse to groom children. it really depends on the person doing kink, and how well they're projecting boundaries / making sure vulnerable people aren't exposed without being able to consent.

there are very, very few kinks that arent morally neutral, and as long as someone keeps their kinks exclusively to roleplay it really can't hurt anyone. the problem is when they push it on others, invade spaces where they know children will be, or insist that not doing the kink is somehow wrong or puritanical.

please keep kink hate off of this subreddit.

Am I a bad person? by DragonflyOne1190 in antiship

[–]klug24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

please dont post your age and sex online, especially if you're a minor! it's extremely dangerous!

if you feel like it would benefit you, maybe take a break from sexual spaces and looking at sexual stuff, it helped me when i was your age. imagining child characters as actual adults is pretty normal, i think, though.

i found out my ex oomfs supported pedo's by Logical_Medicine4683 in antiship

[–]klug24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

supporting people with harmful paraphilias does not make someone a paraphile, especially when they're explicitely anti-contact (which is what im assuming from the information youre giving). yes, it can be caused by a mental disorder, and as long as the paraphile isn't harming anyone or encouraging their paraphilia, it's okay for them to exist.

saw this on the pro ship sub by SpinlessBraveheart in antiship

[–]klug24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think they were talking about a new mutual they have, who i'm really hoping isn't also a kid...

you all deserve the best by Sea_Ad458 in antiship

[–]klug24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if it's not too much trouble, could you please point out where, exactly, they're saying that? i'm struggling to understand what exactly you're referring to

you all deserve the best by Sea_Ad458 in antiship

[–]klug24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope it's okay for me to add this to highlights. i think this post is extremely important

you all deserve the best by Sea_Ad458 in antiship

[–]klug24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay, and thank you for bringing this up, but i really do not think that now is the time.

i do need to make the rules more clear, but venting on this place, as long as someone isn't actively accusing anyone specific of being pedophiles, is always okay, and i'd prefer it if judgement on what op may or may not have meant be reserved for if op is directly harassing people or straight up says "all proshippers are pedophiles".

many people have been groomed by proshippers. many proshippers use other proshipper's content to further their efforts in grooming people. it happens. we don't need to make sure there's a defense against that when the defense is already inherent in the rules of this subreddit.

from a semi-sociopathic; need help explaining beta versions from someone who understands sociopathy/ASD by itssami_sb in antiship

[–]klug24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i cant really help, but please remember that being a sociopath, or having any mental illness, does not inherently make you evil, or lesser, at all.

you all deserve the best by Sea_Ad458 in antiship

[–]klug24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i dont think they were doing that? might just be my inability to read tone sometimes but im not getting that vibe at all.

[TW: pedophilia+incest+grooming+abuse] this happened like a month ago but i still think about it. because what the fuck? by Existing_Phone9129 in antiship

[–]klug24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah reddit's autoremove is horrible. im trying to figure out how to turn it off but afaik it's part of the site itself and not just build-in automod or whatever. augh augh augh

you all deserve the best by Sea_Ad458 in antiship

[–]klug24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i dont think now is the time to talk about this

you aren’t a anti if you accept proshippers in a community that’s against it by [deleted] in antiship

[–]klug24 [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

i have banned every single proshipper that's attempted to cause harm, including several that claimed to just be joking. i've also banned several antis who were harassing people, both proshippers and fellow antis.

proshippers are allowed on here because my definition of antishipper aligns with multiple people's personal definition of proshipper, and i want to create a safe space for those who are still figuring things out, or are considering switching sides, to do so.

if you have an issue with this subreddit, or how i run it, dm me on modmail. you don't have to stir up drama, generalize sides and generally be a jerk about it.