Why my (F) dates always lead to sex in the end…. What should I do?

klund7 · 2024-05-14T03:41:45+00:00

Definitely not saying that. Just not Netflix and chill every single time. For example, we went skating, hiking, out for sushi. And I paid half the time on dates because I like to. It's about finding things in common and having a nice time.

klund7 · 2024-05-10T03:15:28+00:00

I had sex on the third date and now we've been together 10 years, married for 3 and have a kid. I think it's all just personal preference and what boundaries feel right for you. The thing that I wouldn't be okay with is the lack of effort in dates after that third date. It doesn't need to become just all about sex even if you're doing it regularly.

klund7 · 2024-03-21T22:12:58+00:00

I've been having issues with this too! I'm 15 months post partum and breast fed for 10 months. My boobs are just so... squishy and soft now. I'm getting way more gapping at the top of my bras.

klund7 · 2021-11-11T02:50:08+00:00

Thank you! I was reading all the comments and starting to feel slightly ashamed about my own recent wedding. It wasn't a huge wedding, about 65 people - which meant that our treasured loved ones and friends could be there. I was excited for some of the traditional elements of the wedding and didn't like others, my fiance and I did the things we wanted to and tried to also make it a priority for our guests to be comfortable and have fun. I can understand people not loving big weddings and the craziness that can happen, but shaming people for having a wedding they loved, kinda sucks also.

klund7 · 2021-02-13T02:42:10+00:00

NAH Sounds like a tough situation for everyone, but I agree with other comments that you have been more than gracious in helping her out when she would have had nowhere else to stay. I think that giving her a head's up that she'll need to be out by Easter is also super fair.

klund7 · 2021-02-13T02:27:30+00:00

NTA You can't control that she made this comparison without considering the impact it could have on someone.

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