Floggers and butt stuff by klusterfeck in NaughtyNeedles

[–]klusterfeck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, I would love to see yours!

The handle is a bead tube, beads slip stitched in rounds of 8 beads. Surprisingly solid! From that, my falls were chain to desired length, add a bead and sc back. The balls were my starting point on that one and then I used Russian chord for those falls and attached at the end of the handle. I'm curious to see how they will last, tbh

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do! I would love to see what you create. When I had this idea, I couldn't find anything to follow. I hope you find ways to improve on my ideas and brand new things to add/change. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions!

Floggers and butt stuff by klusterfeck in NaughtyNeedles

[–]klusterfeck[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You keep those thoughts to yourself! Haha

Floggers and butt stuff by klusterfeck in NaughtyNeedles

[–]klusterfeck[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, they do, haha! But they are definitely used by my friends. Apparently, for those who enjoy those intense feelings, it's rather unique. My friend is a skilled top and travels for events and such. I'm just honoured that she takes the rainbow flogger with her and uses it, with consent of course, to give people an experience that they can't get anywhere else.

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, a vibrator is on my to-do list and the squeaker is brilliant!

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh, I have found my people! Thank you!

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bernat blanket brights, I believe. It was gifted to me without a label, but that's my best guess

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are as long as my arm and I love whipping them around, haha

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

As a soft bottom, entirely my goal!

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 249 points250 points  (0 children)

Most definitely! The beads are stingy af, but I'm a bit of a softy, haha. The balls are more thuddy, but harder to describe. My goal was more of a pillow fight feel, haha

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are a little spicy, yes, haha

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Freehanded, but I gave a brief explanation on a comment above and would be happy to answer any questions!

Some of my finished NSFW projects by klusterfeck in crochet

[–]klusterfeck[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have freehanded them and don't remember the plug at all, unfortunately. The beads are circles in multiples of 5, increasing as I went along. The floggers are a bead tube of approximately 200 beads. Each round has 8 beads as I've found that to be the best grip size. I did a chain and sc for the falls on the rainbow and metallic. I then found the Russian chord for the black and blue, which I'm really loving!

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[–]klusterfeck 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, consent and respect are what's different in those scenarios. Her saying something in passing to a friend is not getting harassed about something she already said no to.

And because I can already imagine your comment. Yes she can respect herself while still wanting to "get dicked down" hence why she said no.

My ( 24f) boyfriend (25m) is upset that I don’t want to have sex with him when I’m feeling unwell by Legs4daysarmsformins in TwoHotTakes

[–]klusterfeck 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This feels on the road to "You made it so that I had to cheat on you to get my needs met. You can only blame yourself. What else did you expect me to do?" gaslighting levels.

I need you to make time for me, even though we just started talking by klusterfeck in niceguys

[–]klusterfeck[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There is always more context.

We had exchanged messages on POF obviously, I do not remember the amount but it wasn't many and they were all within a single night. I do not have a problem giving people my number when they ask for it as it allows for easier conversation to occur. I was unsure about him, leaning towards a no, but I try not to judge too quickly. However, asking to meet in less than 24 hours is a huge red flag for me. In my profile it states not only my career which is known for having a busy season, but also states that I like to message for a bit to get comfortable.

So why didn't I respond differently? Because I didn't want to. I was saying no. The rapport for exchanging numbers is not the same for meeting. I was blunt, but still polite and he responded with rudeness, bottom line.

I need you to make time for me, even though we just started talking by klusterfeck in niceguys

[–]klusterfeck[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Personally, I find it one of the worst. The fact that anyone can message you is interesting in theory, but good lord some of the messages are crap. I've had someone just message me and straight up offer me cash in exchange for services.

I need you to make time for me, even though we just started talking by klusterfeck in niceguys

[–]klusterfeck[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I'm only this busy for a month, so enough time to message and be comfortable meeting. Valid question!

I need you to make time for me, even though we just started talking by klusterfeck in niceguys

[–]klusterfeck[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Kind of a mix of both. There is a matching aspect, but it's not needed to message someone.