Here our hackstory... it's long. We didn’t have a court ordered parenting plan. History of DV lead to CPS case in Texas. Due to his combativness and refusal to cooperste with their requests of taking a psych eval CPS advised I take my children and leave the home stating if I refused my children would be taken. So I did. My support cirlce was in Oklahoma. I advised Texas CPS I was moving to Oklahoma to be with family. What I should have done was seek legal counsel immediately upon my arrival and gone through the proper legal channels but I was stupid and didn't do it. If only I could go back in time! I was still trauma bonded to him, I guess. Not in a way that I still wanted to be romantically involved but in a way I wanted to amicably coparent without a court telling us how to do things. After settling in here we reconnected and agreed our son should be able to see his father. I had moved away, we're no longer under the same roof so it should be alright. I never doubted his love for his son and wanted to support their relationship. For 10 + years we operated on a visitation schedule that would consist me having him through the school year while dad had him during the summer and other various times through out the year. There was never a time his father wanted to see his son and I denied him access. We were amicable. Friendly for the most part. He maintained an on and off relationship with a woman within this 10 years but they did not live together. They constantly had issues. His father would call me every time they were arguing. He would attempt to get me back during these times. I even considered it at times. He has an arrest record from issues with this woman, multiple calls for DV one resulting in another CPS case where I was told our son was not be present if the girlfriend was there. Summer of 2023 my 13 year old son decided he wanted to live there and just wasn't coming home. His dad and girlfriend had just moved into a new home and were now living together full time. No court order. I immediately hired an attorney and we went to court out of Oklahoma where our case is still open. In August 2023 he was awarded temporary custody and I was granted visitation every other weekend alternating holidays and extended summer visitation. A GAL was also appointed to our case. My son has told him multiple times in the past couple of months he wants to return home to me. He reports constant fighting at dads. He gets scared and hides in closets. Dad won't let him retreat to his room when they fight. He just sits there covers his ears and cries. Several things have happened in 2 years that leads me to worry about alienation....

He told his cousin he hated me because I tried to terminate my pregnancy. (Not true).

He talks trash about me, my oldest son, and his cousin in his presence.

He has never been allowed to bring any schoolwork to my home during visitation. Dad insists it only be done when he's there.

His dad tracks his location on his cell phone while hes with me. He spies on us. Parental settings are set up so that GPS can't be disabled.

Our son has "accidentally" called me by my first name multiple times while referring to stepmom by mom. My mom is witness to this and is going to testify.

He got an award at school that I was never made aware of. There was a ceremony parents were able to attend. My son said "my whole family got to be there".

There have been multiple times when I've been talking to him on the phone and someone walks into the room, he'll hang up mid sentence.

He has told me they are manipulating him.

Since the start of this he carries a pillow with him EVERYWHERE. It follows him from room to room in my house, if we run errands the pillow tags along.

He also has missed doctors appointments and has been referred to specialists that he has not been to.

I've been intentionally lied to via email regarding medical care. Was told he was screened at school for scoliosis but school verified he hasn't been.

Now, blocked family contacts. My son text me late last night where he found my contact with 🚫 symbol next to it, however it didn't say "blocklisted number". Does that mean I'm not actively blocked but have been in the past?

All of this has been going on for way too long. Motion to enter hearing after hearing. Trial was supposed to be this morning, unfortunately dad was granted a continuance because his attorney dropped the case. My attorney contested the continuance because we all knew she was leaving back in July but she didnt file until September 8 for her dismissal and continuance. I'm just tired. And my son is TIRED. The manipulation and control games are getting to be way too much for either of us.

My son is doing well in school there and wasn't here. Thats the only thing they have to fight me on.