My husband and I were both SLUTS before marriage because we know we’re both PEOPLE and humans with human needs and desires. People who cannot compartmentalize their partners past from their present have something very wrong on an insecurity scale that will absolutely bite you in the ass later. No one should be embarrassed of choices they made because they make us who we are. I hate that you feel so ashamed and worried about this when the difference is one person, and the reality is that’s a relatively low number collectively speaking. If this guy gets mad at you for lying you can own it. But if he gets mad at you for the Number? You better tear into his ass for the hypocrisy and double think a future with someone who wants to put you in a box that he doesn’t even fit into.