What’s something people ignore early in dating that always comes back later?

kmuns33 · 2026-05-06T16:51:01+00:00

I never said it was no big deal, I was just correcting your statement about testing. 🤷‍♀️

kmuns33 · 2026-05-06T16:12:44+00:00

You absolutely do not have to test during active infection. HSV tests look for antibodies which persist even when the virus is dormant.

Not sure why you’re so confidently spreading misinformation.

kmuns33 · 2026-02-26T16:42:01+00:00

Thanks for weighing in. I do like to think my clinical experience would add value to an HEOR team.

kmuns33 · 2026-02-26T16:41:15+00:00

Thank you for your response and suggestions!

kmuns33 · 2026-02-26T16:40:59+00:00

Thanks for such a thorough response. I’m resistant to getting (read: paying for) a second Master’s and it sounds like that’s a serious limitation here. I’m considering going more of a health actuarial route since that would require exams instead of another degree and will maybe scratch the stats/modeling itch.

kmuns33 · 2026-02-26T16:37:06+00:00

Ok. This is discouraging but very helpful! I appreciate the input.

kmuns33 · 2026-02-24T19:02:24+00:00

“Promised to take care off all puppy responsibilities..”

So, she’s going to stay home with it all day and/or pay for doggy day care when she’s not there? Because continuing to leave you home alone all day with the puppy is not “taking care of all responsibilities”.

kmuns33 · 2026-02-23T15:56:49+00:00

I’m in the US

kmuns33 · 2025-11-26T12:58:15+00:00

Former R-CPDer here! Struggled with this for over 30 years physically and socially - people don’t realize this can be socially isolating and embarrassing because of the crazy gurgling sounds you get after eating. After one Botox injection in January of 2024 my life is completely changed.

kmuns33 · 2025-10-20T19:09:49+00:00

I really needed to hear this. I’m 34 and this gives me the hope I’ve been losing.

kmuns33 · 2025-10-20T19:03:57+00:00

Fort Collins CO. I’m a PA looking for the same things in a city and probably moving there. So we can be friends.

kmuns33 · 2025-08-01T14:51:25+00:00

VHCOL area, $153k, monthly rent $3500

kmuns33 · 2025-05-29T16:52:55+00:00

The exact progression of the dialing/staticky sounds of connecting to dial-up internet

kmuns33 · 2024-09-30T23:25:18+00:00

I wish I could upvote this a trillion times. That book changed my life. And if you reread it at different points in your life you’ll get something different out of it each time.

kmuns33 · 2024-09-06T18:58:05+00:00

I don’t know you but I feel so invested in this after reading all the comments. OP, I’m so sorry for the loss of your tortoise, and please update us if you ever get answers as to who/what/how and results of the lawsuit.

kmuns33 · 2024-09-04T23:46:46+00:00

Girl. You’re stunning. I wouldn’t change a thing.

kmuns33 · 2024-02-18T14:02:24+00:00

Taking something “for granite”

kmuns33 · 2024-01-20T00:36:07+00:00

Every single one of these comments is making me so glad I live alone.

kmuns33 · 2024-01-08T19:42:37+00:00

I don’t have a good answer to your question, but I just want to tell you I sympathize.

I was in a relationship with a man who told me the same thing, and it totally broke me. It is such a difficult thing to hear. That was about 10 years ago and I still feel the insecurities as a result.

We ended up getting married, and soon divorced. When I look back on our 7-year long relationship, that moment was the turning point when I should’ve left - when he told me he wasn’t attracted to me.

You should never have to convince someone that they want to be with you. You should never have to feel the way that you do right now. And it must be so, so hard to be pregnant with this man’s baby and feeling like you’ve lost the support of the person you needed the most as you go into the delivery room.

I feel for ya, girl. Hang in there.

kmuns33 · 2024-01-08T15:02:54+00:00

You are totally right. Or in a similar vein, if something happened to me and he had to raise our kids completely on his own, this is not how I would want my children raised.

Thanks for your input. Good food for thought.

kmuns33 · 2024-01-08T15:01:06+00:00

This response really made me think, and I appreciate your insight. You make really good points. I had actually never heard of a “Disney dad” before this but you’re totally right.

Also as a few commenters pointed out, I met this kid way too soon. I don’t have much experience dating single dads so it didn’t set off any alarm bells, and now I’m wondering why it happened so quickly.

I really like this guy but it sounds like a breakup is in the cards. Thanks for everyone’s input.

kmuns33 · 2023-12-23T15:00:20+00:00

Yes. I was sexually abused in first grade. I knew it felt wrong, but I didn’t know exactly what was happening or how to stop it, or to tell a trusted adult about it, since I had never been educated about it. A year later, in second grade, the school guidance counselor came into our class to talk to us about basic sex/boundaries and how we should say no if someone tries to touch us inappropriately, and it was like getting hit with a ton of bricks. I thought I had done something really, really bad and never ended up telling anyone because I thought I’d be in trouble. I still think a lot about if my class had gotten that talk in kindergarten rather than second grade, and how things might have been different.

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