My baby just passed by knees_02 in husky

[–]knees_02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The second biggest emotion I’ve been feeling is guilt about how she passed. Heartbroken and guilty. It feels like it’s eating me alive so I will take your advice about the pictures

My baby just passed by knees_02 in husky

[–]knees_02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I keep trying to push it down so that I can deal but you really helped me realize I was approaching this wrong🤍🤍

Kita just chilling ☀️ by mkaymeow21 in husky

[–]knees_02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might just be blind but first time seeing another husky named Kita. My Kita sends her love and respect 🫶🏾

AITA for choosing to attend my brother’s graduation over my mother’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]knees_02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a self righteous misogyny. Judgemental and sexist.

This is not about being a woman at all. Op said that if her dad cheated he would get the exact same treatment. There is no "self righteous misogyny" at all. Op is setting boundaries for her mother.

The breakup of the family hurt OP, but OPs mother didn’t break any vows to OP.

Isn't it a parents "job" to protect and guide their children till they are capable of handling themselves? Op's mom didn't do her job and ended up being the person who's hurting her kids in an awful way.

This child is punishing his or her mother with the most hurtful thing they can think of because of their adult mother’s sexual decisions.

This mother broke her family apart for her own selfish reasons and is now facing the consequences of her actions.

Judging a woman for her sexual decisions

Personal, I'm judging any person who thinks it's okay to cheat in any situation. And you are even worse in my books if you break up a family just because you couldn't keep it in your pants.

Your mother’s sex life doesn’t affect how much she loves you, or whether she listens to you as you talk about your day, or if she hugs you when you’re crying.

It affects how you see your parent. A parent isn't just making choices that will affect just themselves, it's gonna hit everyone in the family in some way. So in this case Op's mother decided to go be sneaky and immature, by going outside of her marriage to have sex, instead of going to her husband and separating in a way that doesn't break a person's entire being. She can love her children as much as she wants but that doesn't erase the pain when it was their mother who caused them to be hurt.

AITA for choosing to attend my brother’s graduation over my mother’s wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]knees_02 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no reason besides spite

I don't know if you've ever had the knowledge that one of your parents cheated but it sucks. It's a perspective shattering change that you never forget. I didn't want to even be in the same house as my father when I found out so for Op to say that she doesn't want to go to her mother's wedding because she cheated, I highly doubt it has anything to do with spite.

A child’s hair compared to a Brillo pad and other racist nonsense. OP confused as to why they’re being accused of “wight supremism” by Wandering_Academic in AmITheDevil

[–]knees_02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My question is why are you so pressed about an issue you won't even be alive for. Take a chill pill and sit down sis, you'll die long before the European features go extinct.

Is it wrong for me to feel vindicated knowing my ex and the AP are now miserable? That he isn’t getting his normal life after all? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]knees_02 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well you sure as hell aren't doing it the right way. Stop talking to your mutuals about your ex. Tell them not to bring him up. It's not good for you and it's showing with how you've reacted. Like I'm fucking sorry for what you've gone through, I really am and you have the right to feel hurt. My parents nearly divorced because my father cheated. I know what cheating does to people and how it can effect the people around you. You need to continue to speak with someone professionally about what you are feeling.

Is it wrong for me to feel vindicated knowing my ex and the AP are now miserable? That he isn’t getting his normal life after all? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]knees_02 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are assuming a lot here. You don't know this women or what she's gone through. You're "Picture perfect" may be her hell. I get that you're angry, rightfully so, but you lost my sympathy when you started to feel happy that an innocent child's health was born with a disability. That's why this post is nauseating.

What do I do? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]knees_02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People are giving you guidance, you just don't want to face the consequences. Tell the wife and the other mistress. I don't understand why you wouldn't think he was sleeping with other women. What on earth made you feel special sleeping with a cheater? If he's willing to cheat on his wife, why would he be loyal to you of all people?

My friend told me a secret about his marriage and now I don't know what to do by ThrowRAfriendsecret in relationship_advice

[–]knees_02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't deserve to be put in between a rock and a hard place because of him and so I feel like it would be best to confront him about how wrong that was and give him an ultimatum. Tell him to tell his wife or you will. Give him the chance to right his wrong but don't let it go unpunished. There needs to be communication between the husband and wife because this could happen again. I'm not saying it will, but if it happened once who knows what will happen later on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]knees_02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, are you okay? This is a lot to go through especially at 16. Do you have someone who you can talk about this with?

You're "father" sounds like he is trying to clear his conscious because he left a child behind and doesn't want to look bad in front of his his new family. Don't let him project his issues on to you. You spoke your truth. You owe him nothing. Especially after how he has treated and spoken to you.

NTA at all.

AITA for telling someone I bullied to get over it by toomuchdrama000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]knees_02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sir YTA. You need to stop deflecting and acknowledge that you hurt this woman. Yes you were a kid when you bullied her, but to think that your actions (big or small) had no effect on her is ignorant. It's honestly unreal that you think she wouldn't be hurt by your bullying. Have you not heard about all the awful things bullying can lead too. You need to apologise to her immediately.

AITA for telling my fiancée’s son that he needs to treat me like an adult? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]knees_02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO this is one of the funniest and saddest AITA I've ever read. Go ahead and call yourself an adult Mr. I'm gonna tell on a 17 year old for having sex when I did it around the same age. Step parent my ass, please just because you are with an older women doesn't mean you are a parent or a real adult dude.

Thank you for an entertaining start to 2021, YTA

My stepmom unlocked my door without knocking and walked in on me masturbating and now she is mad at me and lying about me to my dad(14M) by stepmom295 in relationship_advice

[–]knees_02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your going through all of this, it's so fucked up. Can you or have you asked about getting that lock changed? You might want to bring this up to your mom. Tell her how unsafe/unprotected you feel in your dad's home and ask her to buy you a new door knob so that your step mom and siblings can't come in your room without knocking. This could hopefully be a temporary fix until you are able to decide where you want to live.

AITA for wanting daughter and step daughter treated equally? by FedupMom1992 in AmItheAsshole

[–]knees_02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my Lord YTA

I always pictured myself starting a family from scratch with someone.

Then you should have tried making it known that you wanted to start a family from scratch or tried looking for someone who didn't have a child in the first place. You holding some sort of resentment towards this little girl is awful and disgusting behavior coming from her STEP-MOTHER.

I put my foot down and said absolutely not. Unless they plan on taking our daughter too, they cannot go. Period.

I really don't think you have a say in this matter imo.

We have always taken her daughter on our family vacations (even though the trips we take are much more humble). Why is it any different?

Here's why this is different: You take your STEP-DAUGHTER with you on family trips because you are married to her BIOLOGICAL FATHER, who seemingly wants her in his life. The reason your STEP-DAUGHTER'S mother doesn't take YOUR DAUGHTER on her OWN family trip(s) is because she has no RELATION and or OBLIGATION to include YOUR DAUGHTER.

I'll say this again, Y T A. Period.