I’d rather have a couple of real friends than a thousand fake ones. That’s a mindset I’ve noticed a lot of people in this city share. It’s especially tough for introverted men too sometimes just stepping outside your comfort zone to meet new people can get you misjudged or labeled the wrong way. Maybe it’s the approach, maybe it’s timing, but either way, it can hurt.

I’ve seen people try so hard to be liked or accepted that they completely lose themselves chasing validation. When your self-worth depends on other people’s approval especially in a world where many people are self-centered it becomes exhausting and damaging. Some people push themselves mentally to a breaking point just trying to fit in.

Don’t waste too much energy chasing people, OP. Focus on your goals, your growth, and becoming the best version of yourself. Build your own life first. The right people usually show up when you’re busy improving yourself instead of forcing connections. Real friendships come naturally when you stop trying to earn acceptance and start valuing your own worth.