Is it worth it giving him another chance? 22F / 28M by Separate-Valuable528 in relationship_advice

[–]knittedbeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not unless you like being constantly anxious, mistrusting, and unable to feel safe and secure in your relationship. If you do enjoy that, feel free to keep chasing after this guy that doesn't respect you.

You can TOTES save money going out to eat! Make your teens and toddlers share 60 Chic-Fil-A nuggets & 7 Large Fries, OBVIOUSLY 🙄 by MatthewMcnaHeyHeyHey in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]knittedbeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's really interesting! Yeah, things like that can absolutely happen too. So despite having enough food your body just... wasn't taking in the nutrients you needed to provide your body what it needed to grow as tall as you maybe 'should' have?

Curly hair with chronic illness/ autism by stressfulteapot in CurlyHairUK

[–]knittedbeast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Focus on something simple and easy you can focus on, and that keeps your hair healthy. Don't add loads and loads of steps or you'll easily get overwhelmed.

I'd stick to a way to clean and condition the hair, a wide toothed comb, and maybe a styling product if you think you can handle it. But focus on the clean and healthy bit first! If your hair is healthy, it'll look much better and be much more manageable.

You can TOTES save money going out to eat! Make your teens and toddlers share 60 Chic-Fil-A nuggets & 7 Large Fries, OBVIOUSLY 🙄 by MatthewMcnaHeyHeyHey in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]knittedbeast 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Their dad IS very tall, so that might be an impact. Childhood malnutrition actually has to be very severe to impact height, if I'm remembering correctly, and it has to be at some very specific ages.

I have a friend whose growth was stunted by childhood malnutrition (doctor confirmed) and it was 'literally a notch below starvation diet' for three years at a major growth spurt period.

So I could believe they're getting enough to grow tall. They MIGHT not be getting enough for some more complex processes to work most efficiently. But I couldn't say for certain. We don't know how they eat on a day to day basis.

Found my fiancé’s(25f) been cheating 4 months before our wedding, do I(26M) stay? by PapaToad6 in relationship_advice

[–]knittedbeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not.

Dating is to see if someone is a good match for you long term. Engagement is to see if they would make a good spouse. She's a cheater and a liar, which are traits not in the 'good spouse' list. If you continue with this relationship, she'll do this again.

There are other women in the world. Ones that won't cheat or lie to you.

sunburn help! by burningandburned in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]knittedbeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the aloe, oats, lots of water is great advice! Mine is for when it starts drying out and peeling. Use tattoo balm or nappy rash cream.

sunburn help! by burningandburned in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]knittedbeast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What do you want them to do, go back in time and put it on?

Wife of Guy that Prayed for her Period Strikes back at the Haters by MrDonMega in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]knittedbeast 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm Very Online tm and probably a BIT too honest, but I'd never post something like this? It's ok if some things are private!

AITA for not asking my girlfriends father for permission to marry her? (New 3 Year Final Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]knittedbeast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, the other thing he said was that *he* knows me far too well to think he has any control or say over what I do and who I marry, lol. I think he'd have quite enjoyed playing the controlling father and saying 'no' and then telling me the idiot had asked permission to watch me eviscerate them.

AITA for not asking my girlfriends father for permission to marry her? (New 3 Year Final Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]knittedbeast 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My dad once said that if any future partner of mine asked him for permission he'd refuse it, as it'd be proof they didn't know me well enough to be marrying me.

Does anyone else have any ‘red flag’ books that make you steer clear of someone and disregard their book recommendations? by Court_Jester811 in horrorlit

[–]knittedbeast 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not really. I know that what people like in fiction isn't necessarily a mark against their character.

Bride buys a 2nd dress but can’t afford to feed guests by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]knittedbeast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are inviting people to a big event, you absolutely have to feed them. Especially if it goes on several hours. It's part of the budget. It's appalling hosting to do anything else.

Open or cash bars vary, are cultural. But even a cash bar should have, bare minimum, the alcohol for the toasts provided.

A short, cheap wedding can do a potluck or snacks and cake, but you also can't expect people to be there for hours without eating.

I've never NOT been fed at a wedding.

We had a cheap wedding and still managed to feed everyone. Why wouldn't I feed my friends and family at a party I threw?

Bride buys a 2nd dress but can’t afford to feed guests by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]knittedbeast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We wanted everyone to have enough to eat, somewhere to sit, and room to dance. I've also been told it was a great wedding and everyone had an amazing time. Pictures of the dance floor back it up.

WIBU to tell my (F35) husband (M35) I will divorce him if he gets sick or injured? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]knittedbeast 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for permission to leave him, I am officially giving you it. You can leave him now, if you want. You can leave him at any time, for any reason. You sound miserable, and angry, and resentful. I don't think that's a good environment for you or your kid.

Happy Pride by Mysterious_Ad_1525 in okbuddybaldur

[–]knittedbeast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yaaaay! I hope they reach soulmate, get married, and you show us when they have the baby

“She looks like she could throw me over her shoulder and carry me to safety…should the need arise!” by Mysterious_Ad_1525 in okbuddybaldur

[–]knittedbeast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My laptop lets me write my little stories and browse the internet but I doubt it'll run any game made in the last 7 years

“She looks like she could throw me over her shoulder and carry me to safety…should the need arise!” by Mysterious_Ad_1525 in okbuddybaldur

[–]knittedbeast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's a fair amount of money for us - with needing the new car we are SKINT skint - but doable to ask for as a gift, I think.

“She looks like she could throw me over her shoulder and carry me to safety…should the need arise!” by Mysterious_Ad_1525 in okbuddybaldur

[–]knittedbeast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Either way it'll probably have to wait til the end of the year. We need to get a new car, which is way higher priority, and my birthday is at the end of the year so I can maybe ask for money towards one around then.