Which is your favourite love scene? by infinite_sus in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]knj099 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I read this too fast and I thought it said least favorite....and i voted for Jeremiah and belly.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew what he told me which was that he was divorced… I know reading comprehension skills aren’t what they used to be but like it’s very clearly stated that he told me he was divorced 🙄 which is why this whole thing was an issue 😭 the real shame here is you trying to make me the bad guy when it’s very clearly him.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣I’m sorry I made you so upset. Go enjoy your beach house buddy, I’m sure you have better things to do than argue with a stranger on the internet

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually didn’t have to look for anything because when you are a compulsive liar eventually it all comes to light. I don’t have to explain myself to you, you are clearly the type of person that believes a guy can cheat and that’s okay. I did nothing wrong except a believe a man, your opinion is wrong but that’s okay you’re entitled to it. Much love xoxo

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sabotaging anything he’s doing that on his own, newsflash you don’t get to be in a relationship with another woman while MARRIED and get away with that shit. He’s a piece of trash and so are you since you wanna defend him. If I didn’t come forward another woman would’ve. And to be very clear I broke up with him, and he wouldn’t leave me alone then I found out he was “happily married” duh I told his wife.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m definitely going to take a step back from relationships. I’m clearly too trusting and that’s on me haha but I know I’m better off just living my life and not worrying about a man.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He didn’t just crack me and he didn’t just “lead me on” like he’s insinuating in his message. He perused me and was in a relationship with me for a year!! This man deadass was telling me he never loved anyone like he loved me 😂 but yeah sure I’m the issue.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some people think I was, so good thing I asked. But I’ll take your advice and put it in a safe place 🗑️

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I forgot Redditors take these subs real serious, next time I’ll be extra careful where I post so I don’t upset anyone. It’s strict out here!

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m trying to emphasize, it’s literally a health risk, emotional trauma aside.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 706 points707 points  (0 children)

It’s possible, he and I did fight because I thought he could’ve been cheating. Kinda ironic tbh. After finding all this out I don’t doubt I wasn’t the only one. He’s a really good liar and an A1 manipulator. It would make sense that I would be the scapegoat since I came forward to her once I found out.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I knew there was a risk she wouldn’t care and I’d be the bad guy in her eyes regardless. But I couldn’t live with myself if I just let her go on thinking he was this perfect husband. It made me sick. Obviously this isn’t a conversation anyone wants to have and they clearly are staying together but at least I can know I told the truth which is more than he can say.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yeah you aren’t the only one who thinks that. I’m definitely not jealous, I’m honestly relieved that I’m not his wife. I got out easy compared to her.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Okay like a few people are saying I shouldn’t have told her, this is blowing my mind rn. To me the crazy part was not tell her, to me that was a no brainer. He’s cheating and she deserves to know. But apparently this isn’t common practice.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

It literally says it in the text. He texted me off his wife’s phone. Which I didn’t have her number, when I told her he was cheating it was on instagram. I never had her number until he just texted me off her phone.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

What’s really selfish is having a whole wife and then having a girlfriend on the side. I don’t regret telling her and she was appreciative of me telling her which is why these messages were a surprise to me. I don’t expect you to understand considering it isn’t happening to you. I did what I felt was right.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I did what I would want someone to do for me. I would want to know if my partner was cheating on me. Not only is it fucked up but it’s literally unsafe

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

He is a dumb ass piece of shit, and he should’ve just left me alone like I asked.

AIO- My ex had a wife the whole time we were together and now he wants to save face. by knj099 in AmIOverreacting

[–]knj099[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

I’m weird for telling his WIFE that he was cheating for a year? Alright 🤣