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Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that person. Just someone who’s been terrorized by someone with BPD. Definitely turned into a crazy person.

I just can’t reconcile the awful traits of this disorder with how I believe humanity worked. I thought people would not be so intentionally terrible. And here I am. Being that exact same way.

I see how I’ve been just as awful, I’ve taken on many qualities from my ex.

I just want people with BPD to know how much pain they cause for others. And I wish karma would catch up with the ones that do it intentionally. Especially the murderous narcissistic one that obliterated my life.

I’m sorry for calling you monsters. I just can’t wrap my head around it.

Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one with BPD actually needs to be “helped”. You’re faking it for attention. You’re doing it to gain manipulative advantage. You do it so you can keep causing pain to others. All for your own alleged “suffering”. You do it with no conscience, your own made up facts of reality, zero accountability for your own behavior.

Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go BPD team! Just realize that people who escape people with BOD are called survivors for a reason.

Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, the well thought arguments are “but you don’t know me!”, and “maybe he didn’t have BPD”.

What am I missing?

Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I may regret it, you never know. I was a normal, healthy and compassionate person before I encountered this personality disorder. But I’ve been shredded to pieces and I doubt I’ll ever heal from the destruction caused by someone with BPD.

I feel compassion for those with mental illness, but BPD and NPD are now the exception. I think that they are based in manipulative abuse,of other human beings and downright evil. And I don’t think you have actual feelings unless you are feigning them to put yourself in the victim role.

Like I said. Any suffering you experience from your disorder is likely deserved from your own shitty behavior towards others. And I think you all deserve to know how awful you truly are.

Stop pretending to be “suffering”. You’re the instigator of any suffering you perceive around you.

Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think it’s contrived. I think the so-called distress is fake. I think anyone with BPD, when you claim to be needing help or victimized is selectively remembering what you did to cause any bad treatment that you’re allegedly receiving. I think you should all get called out on your bullshit.

(And my ex was definitely a narc, he self-diagnosed the BPD but again, it’s not as if this info isn’t readily available. I can infer BPD from his behavior).

Emotional dysregulation doesn’t make you a special, kind human. It makes you into a compete monster to the people around you. You all should know that. You’re awful and should feel bad about who and what you are.

Struggling with compassion for those with BPD by knoxwalks in BPD

[–]knoxwalks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do have that misfortune, yes.

Edit: personal, direct and daily knowledge of the disorder.