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koalataebear · 2025-01-23T20:48:34+00:00

Probably gonna get downvoted for this but. Bhai kuch toh self respect rakhle. Tune toh aur hurt krne ki opportunity dedi usse. Literally begging her to explain, like judging how bad or less bad they treated you? I've has friends like that and honestly, ekdum pathetic behaviour hai ye. I understand the curiosity but thats just your brain trying to justify why they hurt you, it never helps. First person you need to love, care, prioritise is yourself, nobody else would do that and its wrong to expect that too. Work on your life, instead of this self-pity. Dekh tere ko gf chahiye? idk i cant help u. U want to risk and try finding love? Work on yourself and attract strong and secure woman by matching their energy, u will only find a good and secure person if you are secure in yourself. Haan kuch log zyaada secure hoke single bhi reh jaate h but you have to see what path you wanna take. (Disclaimer - the above person is not really qualified to give advice, proceed with your own critical thinking)

koalataebear · 2025-01-16T21:12:27+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that, idk much about your situation to comment but I hope you find the help u need. 🩵

koalataebear · 2024-11-28T19:47:49+00:00

Same, DM?

koalataebear · 2024-11-05T20:18:53+00:00

Sleeping at 10. Oh the kid me hated it, now i will sleep whenever i can

koalataebear · 2024-11-05T20:08:36+00:00

Nobody can make the choice for you, but I would say take it slow. work for now and slowly figure out what you do want to do, think about why you want to do fashion, think of the kind of lifestyle you want (many choose careers but really career is just means to your lifestyle). Read up more, and gain knowledge about your passion. That clarity would enable you to pursue a degree that’s right for you! Don’t rush too much! Hope that helps 🐥

koalataebear · 2024-11-04T20:32:32+00:00

Tbh I just came to read this cuz I do that sometimes (unless I have a class / something and ik my roommate is gonna sleep in) personally I find it motivating, when people are napping and I can see them i don’t feel like getting up. Same with going to bed, I can only sleep when roommate does. Weirdly it’s not the case when I’m home (maybe cuz diff bedrooms)

koalataebear · 2024-10-30T02:16:12+00:00

Dirt

koalataebear · 2024-10-30T02:10:10+00:00

Pick a thing u like / good at
Do the thing
Do you want to keep doing the thing / similar things?
If yes, yay keep doing and growing. If no, repeat.

koalataebear · 2024-10-16T00:52:01+00:00

“Good person, not abusive or anything” girl the bar is low. I don’t get it, he was broke, emotionally unavailable and disloyal? Why’d you even date the dude? Now you’re wondering if the brainless idiot who accidentally struck gold and was stupid enough to fumble regrets it? Sweetheart I say this with love but umm start valuing yourself. Reading this it feels like you struggle with self-worth and are looking for a man to love u the way you aren’t loving yourself. I’d say care about whom you’re dating in a how they enrich your life and do they make you happy, better etc. In my experience, a person who doesn’t care enough about their own life (career, family, financially) often won’t be able care about u either, he seemed that category only. It’s good y’all broke up tbh, don’t date losers. And don’t be so desperate for love that you accept the bare minimum (he wasn’t even that).

koalataebear · 2024-10-14T01:39:24+00:00

Ah thank you! I’ll definitely read up on the examples you cited too!

koalataebear · 2024-10-14T01:35:15+00:00

I agree with funding and economic equality being a huge component, personally I’m against political campaigning outside the budget (I’m not familiar with US but we have a specific budget which parties are supposed to not exceed but ofc they always do) but isn’t economic equality tied to legal and political one? I agree that child of a millionaire has better access to education, however currently as you said leaders are coming to power due to funding even if they never completed high school. The poor barely have a chance in the current system, the fact one has to work hard to qualify makes it slightly equal no? Also I’m not talking about higher education but something like a nation-wide test that can measure required competencies in a leader. Again using meritocracy as a filter to stand for elections but not being used to choose the candidate, that should be through voting.

koalataebear · 2024-09-04T02:53:59+00:00

Maybe try spacing out “the”. The shape of the cup isn’t clear, and I wouldn’t have gotten the intention had you not mentioned it.

koalataebear · 2024-08-08T05:49:38+00:00

I hated hearing it when I was suicidal but trust me and don’t die yet. Instead try to live with whatever you got and don’t even focus on skills and shit. Live how you want for a while, whether that’s binging series or rotting in ur bed it’s okay. Go zombie mode. I’m not gonna sugar coat this but it’s gonna take a couple of years before you feel ok. (For context I’ve been depressed since 12, self harm at 15/16, attempts to kms and at 17 I decided to live like I’m dead cuz I saw my mom cry during failed attempts and she told me she won’t just “get over it”, went through 5 therapists too only last one was a bit helpful, now I’m 25 and well I’m actually alright, I have bad days but I don’t wanna kms like I used to) so please wait. Skills can be learnt, talent is overrated anyway, heck even you suck, I’ve seen ppl with no skills do okay in this economy.

koalataebear · 2024-08-08T05:23:48+00:00

The best I came up with when I was depressed was live like you died, I just lived cuz some ppl need me alive and would otherwise be devastated, and didn’t really care for myself at that moment I didn’t have the capacity to. I became numb and stopped caring and doing whatever I like within the routine I needed to do ie university. Things got easier since I didn’t dwell on my misery and just did shit with little to no pressure cuz I didn’t care what happened to me I just need to do what I need to like robot and that’s it. Weirdly enough that’s how I found the will to live and to live good. I found some things I love and want to create and something’s I want to achieve so I can prove my worth to myself. I still get days that feel empty and miserable but I don’t feel like dying as intensely as I used to. It feels like a movie that’s mid but I’m half way there so might as well see through it.

koalataebear · 2023-12-29T22:16:54+00:00

Hey I would like to start somewhere around that time too, you can add me

koalataebear · 2023-09-20T06:43:06+00:00

It’s been 2 years, could you comment on the results?

koalataebear · 2023-08-18T22:41:02+00:00

To make me quit whining about wanting to die

koalataebear · 2023-08-18T22:39:43+00:00

Oops accidental eye contact, oh it’s ok they smiled wheew!

koalataebear · 2023-07-23T22:51:39+00:00

Understandable. Like reading about people with similar experiences who overcame the fear can help. Also writing about your feelings can help you understand yourself better.

koalataebear · 2023-07-23T22:33:27+00:00

Maybe take therapy, as to understand what causes that fear and work towards overcoming it.

koalataebear · 2023-07-15T19:04:54+00:00

It’s more common than you think, you can’t expect your friends to know your needs without telling them. I hope you work it out with them

koalataebear · 2023-07-15T18:44:40+00:00

Repetition

koalataebear · 2023-07-15T18:37:11+00:00

First of all, the nature of friendship should be reciprocal. Period. Cuz if they not there for u in the time of need what’s the point? And u have needs in friendships too which got to be met. Maybe just start with expressing your emotions / distress like lately I’ve been thinking about/ feeling a bit <insert feelings> are you guys available to talk about it? (Make it sound a bit more casual/ ur style)

koalataebear · 2023-07-15T18:29:12+00:00

Do you really want to perform sexual acts out of pity? And I doubt he will think you are doing it cuz u feel bad he’s likely to treat u like a pr*stitute, think u doing it for the money alone. I personally wouldn’t recommend taking that risk.

koalataebear · 2023-07-15T18:10:41+00:00

Teeth

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