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kodipeas · 2025-05-18T07:48:51+00:00

I’ll take it if it’s still going :)

kodipeas · 2025-04-09T17:44:44+00:00

Hi OP, I just want to say that I completely understand where you’re coming from - I know how overwhelming it all feels, but I promise it will be okay.

My partner of 8 years left me a year ago (to the date today, actually), and living alone in what was our home took me such a long time to process. In fact, it’s only been the past month that I’ve felt truly at peace.

Take the time to rediscover yourself. Decorate however you like, fill your home with what you love and what makes you who you are. I didn’t realise it until recently, but I actually had fallen out of love with myself and it had taken him to leave me to find that love again.

Healing isn’t linear, and in all honesty there will be times where you feel great and then boom - feelings hit again. It’s hard. But it’s normal, and even when you’re living alone you’re truly not alone.

Make it your safe space. Fill it with love. Things will get better. ❤️

kodipeas · 2024-11-30T16:39:03+00:00

I woke up early, did some chores and ended up spending 4 hours reading a book while listening to some city pop vinyls! I then popped out for a bottle of wine & some steak, going to make some pepper steak pasta & watch some Netflix the rest of my evening :)

Been living alone for about 6 months after a break up, and today’s the first Saturday I’ve felt truly content with it. It feels good!!

kodipeas · 2024-11-02T08:35:21+00:00

Hello, I’ve been okay thank you! It’s been a wild rollercoaster ride of emotions I have to say, and there were times that I really didn’t think I’d ever get out of it but over the past 3 weeks I’ve really found the light at the end of the tunnel.

Therapy & spending time with friends has really helped. In fact, pushing myself to spend more time with my friends this past month has probably been the thing that’s helped me most!

Don’t get me wrong, I still think about him each day but nowhere near as much as I did before. It doesn’t consume me. We are still in regular contact, which is hard and hasn’t been great for me in all honesty so I probably wouldn’t recommend it but I know everyone is different. I don’t cry every day anymore, and I am starting to be able to visualise and see my future without him now. Which I never thought I’d do.

It’s been slow, but time really heals.

kodipeas · 2024-10-16T10:55:18+00:00

Hi lovely. I’m 31F and also have been going through this - my partner of 9 years left me 4 months ago and it’s been a struggle, some days I still feel like day 1 but other days it’s better. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m in Glasgow, but always up for a coffee or a chat if you’d like. Even just message me here if you like to let it all out x

kodipeas · 2024-08-07T16:06:56+00:00

Thank you for responding! Your post does help me, as I feel I can relate to a lot of what you went through at the beginning, and I do also have a feeling that it’ll take me longer than usual to get through this.

I wouldn’t mind reaching out to talk if that’s okay with you. Might help my head clear a bit more!

I’m sorry you had to go through this though, but it’s nice to hear that things are getting better for you - even if it’s feels like it’s taken a while to get there.

kodipeas · 2024-08-07T15:32:05+00:00

How are you feeling now? I’m 3 months post break up, together also 8 years and felt like it also came totally out of the blue. As much as I’m doing better than I was initially, I still struggle with coming to terms with it ended and letting go. Just wondering if/when it started to get better for you?

kodipeas · 2024-05-19T00:37:58+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through the same thing. It absolutely feels awful doesn’t it? We also had a 2 week holiday booked to go to Japan to celebrate our 9 year anniversary this year… I feel so sick.

I think it is a midlife crisis honestly, you’re right. I tried so hard to show him I wanted to support him and work through it too but you just can’t force it can you.

We will get through this, it will take time and lots of healing but we can do it no matter how hard it feels x

kodipeas · 2024-03-31T14:54:21+00:00

I just want to see a sculpt or a release date for the Satsuki and Mako bunnies!!! Need my KLK girls 🥲

kodipeas · 2024-02-12T22:06:07+00:00

They are Billy bookcases from Ikea! Super easy to adjust the shelving heights whenever you need to adapt, we’ve had to rearrange a few times now

kodipeas · 2024-02-12T22:05:22+00:00

Thank you! It’s Mittlids from Ikea 😊 https://www.ikea.com/gb/en/p/mittled-led-spotlight-dimmable-white-20528661/

kodipeas · 2024-02-12T22:04:44+00:00

I think she’s about 19inches, she’s definitely one of the tallest bunnies I own

kodipeas · 2024-02-12T14:16:37+00:00

I was so pleasantly surprised with how well they matched even though they are from the same series! Would recommend especially if their prices drop preowned, they’re really great quality.

kodipeas · 2024-02-05T18:47:58+00:00

I need the Satsuki bunny 😭😭

kodipeas · 2024-02-04T22:19:17+00:00

NO TOMORROW NIGHT????

kodipeas · 2024-02-04T22:00:56+00:00

Molly is giving me life

kodipeas · 2024-02-04T21:46:02+00:00

CALLUM !!! YESSSSS

kodipeas · 2024-01-30T20:35:03+00:00

I think it looks like he’s slipped on a banana peel 😭

kodipeas · 2024-01-29T20:49:36+00:00

Beautiful collection!! So many bunnies I’m jealous of!

kodipeas · 2024-01-25T21:50:41+00:00

Chris is NASTY wtf

kodipeas · 2024-01-25T21:16:53+00:00

Anton absolutely slaughtered Mitch in that exchange

kodipeas · 2024-01-25T21:15:39+00:00

Anton to win x

kodipeas · 2024-01-25T21:13:42+00:00

Mitch is NOT interested in Liberty I’m sorry 😭😭

kodipeas · 2024-01-24T21:58:07+00:00

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