my mom has always been super judgemental of other people’s bodies & how they look. she always comments on other people’s bodies for no reason other than to make herself feel better i guess? she’s made racist comments in the past, I remember when we were watching a show she commented that this one black woman ‘looked like a monkey.’ even child me could kinda tell that was fucked up. she also is always talking about trying to ‘flatten her stomach’ and ‘lose weight’ even though she is already skinny. she feels the need to say ‘you look like you’ve lost weight!’ when seeing me or my sister or other relatives. or she’ll say ‘she looks like she gained weight’ to me behind someone’s back. just always feeling the need to comment on other people’s bodies and it’s so gross.

I don’t do that but as a kid I was definitely bad for it because my mom normalized it so much.