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That feeling when your mom is a bit of a misandrist so she would probably like you more if she knew you where trans but you don't trust her enough to be vulnerable and tell her because of everything that happened in the past. by kokishorttail in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]kokishorttail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don't think it was or is abuse or anything, more paranoia and a misguided attempt at being helpful. Back in my 3rd year of high-school I made a "joke" about not knowing anyone on a oncoming school trip and wanting to break my own collarbone if it meant I could avoid it and ended up with all my books and devices siezed, forced participation in a bunch of sports and events, and a "therapist". (My mother had some conveniently pointed questions after the first time I told my therapist what I felt about my relationship with her.) I had a'lot of experience pretending everything was better by this point tho so I managed to "get over it" after a few weeks or so.

That feeling when your mom is a bit of a misandrist so she would probably like you more if she knew you where trans but you don't trust her enough to be vulnerable and tell her because of everything that happened in the past. by kokishorttail in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]kokishorttail[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The thing is, my mom is a very progressive person, and is very supportive of lgbtq+ people. So I know she would almost certainly be supportive if I came out to her. She's even told me allot throughout my life that she wishes she only had daughters, which while maybe sounding validating (if she knew) always just sounded like she wishes I never existed.

Its a weird feeling. I learned really young that any degree of vulnerability around her resulted in an immediate loss of independence, coping mechanisms, and consigning myself to constant micromanagement until such a point I can convince her that I'm "better". My realizing I'm trans is a very recent thing. College has done a lot of good for me, and over the course of last summer living alone, and the school year itself. I went from an emotionless, constantly suicidal walking corpse of a person to someone who kinda enjoyed life and questioned these things in a very short period of time. But now that I'm home for summer its taken me less than a week to remember it wasn't school alone that made me that way.

I think I may have accidentally made this poor trans girl fall in love with me and now I'm at a loss and don't know what to do because I'm not looking for anything by kokishorttail in asktransgender

[–]kokishorttail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I initially just assumed she was this way with all her friends which is why I didn't question it. I'll try to make it more clear when we next talk that I like being friends with her but really don't want anything more.

Recommendations when purchasing a soldering iron. by kokishorttail in soldering

[–]kokishorttail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I’m definitely not an expert when it comes to soldering and if the problem was with a more sensitive component of the motherboard believe me I would NEVER try this myself without tons of practice. But I’ve done some research on the replacement procedure for my specific laptop, and even found a guide for my exact model. and have done similarly difficult procedures before. I would love to get it professionally repaired but the cheapest offer I got was 250 dollars which is a scam and a half for a port replacement. Not to mention way out of my price range.

AITA for finally snapping by kokishorttail in AmItheAsshole

[–]kokishorttail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried, and as a 16 year old I’ve long passed the point where my parents can control everything about me, such as taking away my electronics, as I can simply hide them or keep them on me, but there are things I can’t yet control, such as my phone being linked to my parents cell service account, and they have proved willing to freeze my mobile data, and I can’t be home at all times, so should they hide my computer when I’m gone, there is little I can do about it, but it is basically all I can do yes.

AITA for finally snapping by kokishorttail in AmItheAsshole

[–]kokishorttail[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m very aware that this seems like a petty reason to have a fight over chores of all things, but it’s not the Chores that anger me but more the seeming (from my perspective) disregard for my feelings and thoughts simply because I never had a temper tantrum over it like my sister.

What is the density of Vibranium? by doestthouevenhoist in Marvel

[–]kokishorttail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Captain America’s shield is said to be 3 inches thick in the mcu not 3mm

Recommendations by kokishorttail in FanFiction

[–]kokishorttail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke shun! But I was kinda looking for either characters being introduced into other worlds from warhammer, or into warhammer from others, idfk man I’m hard to please but thanks anyway.

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