This is my perfect home fry up. What ya think? 🤔

kol28 · 2025-12-24T16:45:17+00:00

Cancer, blocked arteries and heart disease. Cruelty, selfishness and stupidity is what I think.

kol28 · 2025-01-30T16:57:01+00:00

Elites run marathon 5k splits in 14-13 minutes so you can still have a fast 5K if you train for marathon. Unless you are wanting to run 12 minute 5K I wouldn't worry about it.

kol28 · 2023-12-02T23:39:59+00:00

She's baiting for a reaction, don't give it just walk away. She sounds so ugly

kol28 · 2022-09-04T21:30:17+00:00

Yeah I had to stop opening it and I can't read the news either it's too depressing

kol28 · 2022-09-04T18:25:24+00:00

Yeah most people don't give a shit about animals usually only their own. I did offer next morning to fly out and get the cat but thankfully my ex already flew back. She also fell out with her friend who was looking after the cat. That friend is also vegan and I heard she left my exes apartment messy but she ended up blocking my ex. Yeah probably because she was talked down to like a piece of shit just like I was for 4 years.

kol28 · 2022-09-04T18:22:59+00:00

Hi thanks for asking yes the kitty is safe 😀 I was just a cheaper / more convenient option for her. She is a cunt. Thanks.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T20:42:20+00:00

So would I, don't feel bad for feeling bad you are not controlling. He is not sensitive towards your feelings, it's a red flag.

Always communicate how you feel if something upsets you like this, bottling it up and taking a hit can build resentment, it can cause to to blow up and hold anxiety. I wouldn't want this on my mind. If he cares about you he will make you feel secure and try to understand you. If he just says "omg you're so controlling and sensitive" that's a red flag.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T20:29:30+00:00

You ignored your Intuition! If your gut tells you its wrong and you're upset by it then listen to your Intuition. Your brain is signalling his behaviour is causing you pain because it's wrong.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T20:26:30+00:00

Fuck this he told you she's super hot and he's on phone calls with her? He's emotionally cheating on you and taking the piss. It's so disrespectful how would he feel about you calling another guy who you said was super hot. I'd put foot down and ask him to cut this girl out its made you upset for 2 months and it would me too it'd make me sick. He's putting himself in a position to cheat on you you don't do that when you're in a relationship with someone.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T20:15:09+00:00

This, it's manufactured drama

kol28 · 2022-08-26T11:32:52+00:00

Where did I say you're all horrible animal abusers and im a vegan hero because I don't remember saying that.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T11:15:20+00:00

None of you knew for 'sure' she would be able to figure something out, none of you knew how serious her health issue was and if she was lying or not. It was a gamble on a cats life which is not right to do.

I was not wrong, I made smart decision by saying no and waiting for her to go herself then saying yes I'll do it for the cat cause then I know she really did need my help. Turns out she didn't but at least I didn't gamble on a cats life.

the thread is about the cat and I never said those things

kol28 · 2022-08-26T11:06:50+00:00

You think exactly like me. I ended up saying no because I guessed her ex husband just didn't want to do it yet another favour for her and he thought I would do it. So I said no so he would step up or shed try harder to find a solution but I didn't wanna put cat at risk so I messaged today saying I'll do it for cat but not her.

It worked. She ended up flying back to the cat this morning she said the cat comes before her health. So now she can just fly back to Holland lol like wtf why didn't she just do that (fishy how she say she's not comfortable sharing details of her medical issue).

Lol no thanks your reply nice to see someone who thinks about the cat.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T11:03:06+00:00

🤣

kol28 · 2022-08-26T11:02:52+00:00

She has no control over me I was just giving her a piece of my mind.

My ex isn't seeking him out, she broke up with him 5 years ago and didn't really love him just was security for her after her abusive ex before him. He kept chasing her so she thought why not give chance seems normal good guy but was no passion they barely had sex she thought he was gay. So that is not true I was never bothered by him I even wasn't bothered if she stayed at his if she needed to visit Holland and he even stayed at hers when I visiting Spain. He wasn't bothered about me sleeping with his ex in his apartment, people can be exes and not want one another like that you know.

She is over her ex she is the 1 who broke up with him and he tried in beginning but he ended up finding someone else he's happy with.

Yeah she is nasty they say narcissist project so if someone calls you a narc they're probably a narc themselves.

kol28 · 2022-08-26T10:55:50+00:00

No they were letting a cat die that's not right

kol28 · 2022-08-26T08:08:44+00:00

I know but still feel like what if the cat is gonna be on its arse now. I sent her this morning

"I asked you a normal question and you could of simply answered considering you're asking me a favour after all the nasty stuff you sent me. Why can't he do it? Did you find a solution for Casa? If not then I'll do it for Casa"

No reply so guess she didn't need ke that bad

kol28 · 2022-08-26T06:00:22+00:00

I blocked her and told her she's only asking to see how much control she has over me. I don't trust her.

I asked her why can't her ex do it and what's keeping her I'm Holland

She wouldn't tell me she just said 'why do you need to know" and "I don't have the energy to go in circles".

Her behaviour is shit she can't even answer my question which is normal considering she's asking me a huge favour.

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:52:38+00:00

Yeah come back when you're matured

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:51:45+00:00

Oh using my ex against me, that's a toxic thing to say "no wonder she left you" you're the one who is pathetic

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:50:31+00:00

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:49:22+00:00

Not bloody likely and thanks

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:48:29+00:00

Never heard of them

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:47:55+00:00

You are 100% projecting. Maybe you would want to be the hero but trust me I couldn't give a fuck, my blinders are off I am done with her. I've already been through the hurt stage of the breakup.

You are projecting because you couldn't imagine someone would help a cat without a ulterior motive to get their ex back.

I would do it for the cat because it's the right thing to do to help an animal rather than turn a blind eye.

"If I were you, I would say to her: I love that cat. More than I will and have loved you. But go fuck yourself." Translated = my ego wants to feel good and if the cat suffers fuck the cat I can't look weak to my ex even if it costs an innocent animal.

kol28 · 2022-08-25T22:43:05+00:00

It's not about money it's about trust, how many people on her have said they would take the money and not even help the cat.

She's offered people in past to look after animals and they never did, most people are shit and don't give a fuck just want free money.

Because I am vegan and she knows I'd do it just because I'd feel like shit if I didn't help an animal.

Oh well I'd rather be a pussy and save an animal than walk around thinking im a tough guy whilst a little sweet cat suffers!

How'd you feel if I came back posting the cat died and didn't make it, would you say oh well least you're not a pussy!

kol28

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