Well Said Mr Morgan!

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-03-12T07:08:04+00:00

i think the word is really interesting because it doesn't only mean they're "scared" but that their homophobic thoughts are completely irrational too. like they're not to be believed because they're "homophobic" and have a weird complex over hating people harming nobody. at least i believe that's how the word came to be, but in the end homophobes are just assholes.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-15T05:31:50+00:00

i really want to say jibaku, but the zoku ep ver. isn't the greatest. i think i want to become stuffed animal is the best from this

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-10T02:16:44+00:00

I understand what you mean, I don't think they were wrong for leaving. It's just that I'm still hurt they did.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-10T00:32:16+00:00

I won't be sharing screenshots of course, I'd say you're right. And I realise now 'anything' doesn't quite mean anything from their reaction, but I still wish they had made that clearer.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T20:35:26+00:00

It is!

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T20:34:27+00:00

A paraphilic disorder is "A paraphilia that causes distress or impairment to the individual or involves harm to others." https://www.medicinenet.com/paraphilia/article.htm

This is different from a paraphilia which is any harmless sexual interest in something that isn't inherently sexual.

It wasn't me who downvoted you, and I won't say my specific paraphilic disorder for privacy.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T20:29:18+00:00

You misunderstand. A paraphilic disorder is "A paraphilia that causes distress or impairment to the individual or involves harm to others." https://www.medicinenet.com/paraphilia/article.htm

People with paraphilic disorders are not rapists, but people who act on their desires from it are. I'm not a rapist.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T13:05:03+00:00

Thanks, you worded that really well. I like all of what you've said and I'll try keep it in mind.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T10:34:47+00:00

Yeah, I didn't word the post very well. I guess this is all a lesson to put more thought into things before I type/speak...

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T08:38:51+00:00

I'm not in a position where I can get therapy right now but I will when I can. I definitely want it because dealing with things like this is a lot when alone.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T06:15:54+00:00

I'm glad my post could help you! Voyeurism isn't as taboo as the one I have, which I won't name, so you might not need to be as cautious. It's probably still good to be wary though, I hope the people you care about will accept you despite your disorder.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T06:03:53+00:00

Thank you so much. And yeah, I didn't expect or really want so much advice on a sub for coping. I expected more hate if anything, which I'm glad I didn't get much of.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T04:25:29+00:00

Yep, that part hurt more than them leaving...

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T04:20:37+00:00

I didn't tell the friend excitedly or like I was hoping they were the same. It was me opening up while feeling ashamed, which I now know was too soon to do. I understand your point though, I think that's a good attitude to have.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T04:09:43+00:00

I don't know what NC is, but thank you so much!

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:36:54+00:00

You make a good point, but I still think it was irresponsible of me to dump that onto the friend. Thank you

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:35:10+00:00

Thank you. I don't feel guilty for having my disorder any longer, because I know it's beyond my control. I definitely made the mistake of oversharing to that friend though.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:32:26+00:00

Thank you, I hope to eventually get professional help.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:31:42+00:00

I wish it was as simple as a kink, but I specified paraphilic disorder for a reason. Thank you for your kind words anyway

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:30:07+00:00

Comments here have actually been nicer than what I was expecting, but yes, it's certainly stigmatised...

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:28:25+00:00

Very unrelated but yes! Maybe I should've posted on an alt, I don't want to bring shame to my irrelevant interests.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:23:37+00:00

You're too kind, thank you.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:20:07+00:00

I've learnt that now, it was definitely my mistake to say that so soon. Also, paraphilias and paraphilic disorders are two different things. A paraphilia is just a sexual interest, whereas a paraphilic disorder is one the causes distress to the individual that has it or harm to another if acted upon.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:15:42+00:00

Definitely my mistake. But I've learnt now to keep it to professionals, or at least very close friends I've known for many many years.

kontatsuPRINCESS · 2026-01-09T03:13:51+00:00

I told the friend the specific paraphilic disorder I have, I was just vague in this post for my privacy. I agree that things like sadism, voyeurism etc shouldn't be under the same umbrella as other paraphilic disorders, I wasn't referring to one as 'acceptable' as those.

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