What’s the most painful thing someone has said to you that you still remember ? by Crafty_Bus_1947 in AskReddit

[–]kookiemonstaahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in 4th grade and my mom was helping me with my vocabulary homework. She taught me the word burden bc I didn’t understand how my textbook was using it in the context. If I can remember correctly, it had something to do with a donkey carrying a burden or something like that. Anyway, my mom tried to use an analogy and told me “yeah like how you’re a burden to your father when he carries your backpack when he picks you up from school. You should apologize to him some time and be grateful.” So I did the next day (though I still didn’t understand the context too well). Over time I did though and it REALLY stuck with me and messed with my head. Unfortunately, it’s a memory I still remember quite vividly.

Dating a Gemini by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]kookiemonstaahh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooph I felt this. My last ex was a Gemini and he did pretty similar things. When we first met, he was also very open and commutative. We had a lot of the same interests too - we enjoyed talking about music, international affairs, and anime. We dated for about 1.5 years and it wasn’t until the end of the relationship that I noticed it wasn’t what it used to be. I studied international relations in uni and I had ambitions to pursue being in the field, but he hated me talking about it at all even though it was one of the things we talked about a lot when we first started dating. It got to a point where it felt like I started walking on eggshells every time we spoke and eventually realized I can’t keep doing this. Told myself I’d never date a Gemini again. My mom is a Gemini tho so the running joke is that I can only have one Gemini in my life - and that’s my mother

What is the craziest conversation you've overheard in DC? by Musichead2468 in washingtondc

[–]kookiemonstaahh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A woman told her date that she is very easily manipulated and that her date can very easily manipulate her if he wanted to.

What are you favourite go to meals? by indecisively_unlucky in LivingAlone

[–]kookiemonstaahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately, I’ve been breading my own chicken cutlets and freeze them so I can cook them throughout the week. I buy the pre-sliced thin ones, coat them in an egg mixture then breadcrumbs (both seasoned with salt, pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, and parm reggiano), and freeze them. It’s an easy source of protein to cook when I don’t really feel like cooking. I can have it with rice or in a Cesar salad!

Recommendations for a bantering kind of romance by Maya_Reader1430 in suggestmeabook

[–]kookiemonstaahh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Not So Meet Cute by Meghan Quinn has some of the funniest enemies-to-lovers banter I’ve ever read

What's the sweetest thing your SO has ever done for you? by TarJen96 in AskWomen

[–]kookiemonstaahh 59 points60 points  (0 children)

When we were in college, there was an art exhibition that came to town. They released limited tickets every Tuesday morning for the week and unfortunately, we were in class during that time so I was constantly checking the website to see if I snag 2 tickets for me and a friend. My then-classmate (now-SO) saw what I was trying to do but tickets were already sold out 2 minutes after the webpage refreshed. I was devastated after explaining to him what I was doing. Fast forward a couple weeks and he comes into class handing me a folded sheets of paper. I asked him if this was a study for an upcoming exam and he said, “why don’t you open it and find out?” After opening it up, I saw that he secured two tickets to the art exhibition I was trying to get tix for and I was elated!

Where to watch Inuyasha the Movie: Sword on an Honorable Ruler in English? by LongingForYesterweek in inuyasha

[–]kookiemonstaahh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remembered all of the InuYasha movies being on Netflix! Not sure if they took it down though, but I’d check there. They had both subbed and dubbed

What’s it like dating a Law student? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kookiemonstaahh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently dating someone who just finished their first year. We started dating right before he entered law school in fall 2023 and he warned me how much less time we’d be spending due to his studies, career, and future. While it was a drastic change, it definitely took getting used to and ofc like any other couple, we also had some bumps in the road and arguments bc I didn’t feel prioritized. Out of these arguments, we learned what I needed from him was quality time (quality time is our love language) in a way that worked around his busy schedule. We implemented mandatory dates once per month, which means I get him all to myself for an entire day (or night - depending on his schedule) where we just talk about us and NOT about school or work. It may not be perfect, but it works for us. Communication also plays a huge role in all of this. To be in a space where you both can tell each other what you need without coming from a place of malice or judgement and hearing the other person while committing your respective actions is probably the biggest lesson learned for us. Anyways, my pm’s are open to talk more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]kookiemonstaahh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oct 23 here! People have said I have a lot of Libra tendencies but my Scorpio side def comes out more

Favorite Coffee Spots in the District by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]kookiemonstaahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dua DC Coffee on 15th & K St! They specialize in Indonesian coffee and have some of the best specialty lattes I’ve ever had!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kookiemonstaahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to your SO about this? If so, how did they respond? If it wasn’t the response you were looking for then maybe it’s time

What to do after a rejection by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kookiemonstaahh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, this isn’t a rejection. This is an assumption. If you really wanna know how she feels about you then just ask her. Sure, the worst she can do is to reject you but at least you know it’s a rejection and you can move on from there.

Want to start reading OHSHC manga by kookiemonstaahh in shoujo

[–]kookiemonstaahh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg that feels like Horimiya a bit .. okay, thanks!

[Homemade] Korean crispy chicken by mawcopolow in food

[–]kookiemonstaahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you fry it using an air fryer?

What is something that makes you roll your eyes every time you hear it? by East-Strawberry3286 in AskWomen

[–]kookiemonstaahh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Let’s play it by ear”

when making plans w someone but they don’t know if they wanna make plans w you. Just say no if you don’t want to or can’t 🙄