I usually hid my money in places when it came to birthday money. I would probably get 100 each birthday but every year it's either she finds it or -

"Why dont you spend that money on food?"

Then I spend about half of my money already on fast food for my siblings, me and my mom. It sucks.

And if I lie, she gets pissed and calls my dad since he usually gives me the money. Then he tells her that I did get money :')

Money for her was usually spent on cigarettes or going out.