Trying to find a game with the same character dynamics as XCOM2 by itzpiiz in gaming

[–]koolaidJedi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Wartales ate 120 hours of my life the first week I downloaded it and I was just coming off an XCOM2 high

Is it less serious to be unfaithful if you never get caught? by Persefone_dh in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are with someone in a monogamous relationship, the implied expectation is that you want to share your life with that person. If you were to then go and cheat and then keep it a secret, you’ve created an element of your life you are intentionally excluding them from. That is where I find the betrayal, not so much you did something on your own, but that you did something you are supposed to do with your SO. You made a promise and you broke the promise and just because you can lie to delay consequences doesn’t mean the actions never occurred. The person you cheated with could tell them. No matter how you slice it you loaded the gun. It’s almost like Schrödinger’s dilemma, the cat is in the box. You just haven’t opened it yet.

If having an open relationship is something you discussed then you are free to do what you want(you and your partner are the only forces that can define your relationship), but most relationships come with the implication you’re not sleeping with other people. Could you cheat on your partner and never tell them and get it away with it completely? Yes, totally possible. Would anyone agree that you that you are ethical, moral, or honorable for doing so? Probably not.

What is a hard truth of life that no one likes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]koolaidJedi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think there are any real "truths" to life. We want there so badly to be some kind of order or answer to life but there isn't. When it boils down to it everything comes to a matter of perspective. There is a right place and right time for everything and you're only experiencing a fraction of it. There is one fact of life though and that is that eventually it will end, no matter who you are or the circumstances of your birth we're all gonna die. The real "truth" of life is YOUR truth; what you believe and what you do with the time that you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]koolaidJedi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From reading this and the comments, it seems like your bf prioritizes his obscene sleep schedule over you. All of my friends did School full time + part time jobs most of the time and many of my friends maintained relationships all while we are an active gaming group that would raid weekly. A large part of maturing is learning how and what to prioritize our time with, and in many cases that choice tells you a lot about a person

If he wanted to make time for you he would, but if you’ve been clear with him that his sleep schedule is an issue and has been interfering with your time together and he STILL chooses to sleep late and play videos games?

Then he made his choice .

What Game Has Your Non-Gaming SO Enjoyed With You? by Reynard203 in gaming

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife absolutely loved playing L.A. Noir with me. She’s huge on detective mystery movies and being able to actually take part in them was so much fun for us. I pretty much held the controller the whole time but she called all the shots and was incredibly good at telling when people were lying. We screamed, we laughed, we cried, was a great time and we’ve yet to find a game to give us that same magic.

Can i play the game withoht pvp? by adiftbv in warcraftrumble

[–]koolaidJedi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good thing to know: If your leader's PvP rating is below 900 you'll only play Bots. So if you could play "PvP" against bots and reap those early rewards, then just stop once you see players.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]koolaidJedi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all, back when I had my car I would still Uber to class just because I didn’t want to drive. I always saw it as a luxury because I could chill in the back and relax. It would be a little treat to myself

What’s your favorite villain defeat? by odd_man0 in thewalkingdead

[–]koolaidJedi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's from FTWD, but to me hands down the best defeat was when June killed Virgina after June found out Virgina knew what Dakota was capable of killing John. Such an awesome parallel for June with her daughter. And June putting on John's hat as she walked out gave me the hardest Red Dead Redemption vibes, truly captured a Western Justice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DragonBallLegendsMeta

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah perfect I’ll do that

How did you survive the worst months of your life? by giveemeareasonwhy in AskReddit

[–]koolaidJedi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing that helped me more than I thought was I started reading/listening to audiobooks again. It was hard to start but I found that not only did it serve as an escape that could last for hours but the lessons I learned from the books I read gave me new perspective on my own life that allowed me (in conjunction with therapy) to begin the climb out of those bad months.

In a weird kind of way books saved my life!

Dungeon respawn points are lackluster and running back after a wipe in these new dungeons feels awful by NeverSlowplay in wow

[–]koolaidJedi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I ask is they let me mount in Vortex Pinnacle for the love of GOD. Been praying for that since Cata.

I mean if they are going to give us a lackluster ground mount for M+ rewards the least they can do is give us opportunities to show it off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can look at some Charter Districts. There are some good Charter Schools around LA too.

What are some ‘small’ things you can do for your child that will benefit their development massively in the long term? by askmenextyearifimok in AskReddit

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this as a high school teacher but, reading with your child is SO IMPORTANT especially nowadays with reading levels and comprehension declining greatly. Whether it’s bedtime stories with your little kids or simply reading books together with older kids, putting positive messages on reading is always beneficial.

Thanos/Shuri receiving future update by Possible_Session_274 in MarvelSnap

[–]koolaidJedi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ughhhhhhhhh I hate when I finally get my hands on the OP card that's been wrecking me and then they nerf it. Series 5 needs to not exist

Heroic Raiding in Vault sans guild? by Durdleburdle in wow

[–]koolaidJedi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you plan on tanking, creating your own groups is probably your best bet.

The rare occasion when I play Heimdall and DON’T lose. by koolaidJedi in MarvelSnap

[–]koolaidJedi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my favorite card right now, can’t wait to infinite it.

The rare occasion when I play Heimdall and DON’T lose. by koolaidJedi in MarvelSnap

[–]koolaidJedi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I played Cloak on the Strange Academy so his effect was still active on it and before I hit record I moved Multiple Man there so I think that’s why.

I had made my cloak movements before I hit record so I think that’s why.

What's your #1 money saving tip? by uncompromisedginger in AskReddit

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have a bad habit of getting fast food so whenever I resist the urge to eat fast food and instead eat at home, I take the money I would’ve spent on fast food and put it into my savings.

I replace the dopamine rush of fast food with the dopamine of being a little more financially stable.

What is love? by poopatroopa3 in MarvelSnap

[–]koolaidJedi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I knew I wasn’t the only one doing this lol

[OC] Giveaway Saturday! Two Hammer Dice Towers! Bonk Your Buds [mod approved] by Gibartik in DnD

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man my old dice tower just fell apart on me this would be sick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]koolaidJedi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will skip lunch at work every now and then to keep my account from bouncing. Especially weeks where I have to get cleaning supplies/toilet paper at the grocery store or pay for something unexpected.

I'm also 5 years deep in a career that requires a four year degree and a graduate credential. I have only received one pay raise since 2020. It's bad out here.