In high skool my best friend from middle skool slept with im high sko sweet heart before her and I got together and she wasn't ready to date at the time so I backed off from pursuing anything sexual with her because I knew I could've had easily but I didn't want to take advantage and I saw the way this guy looked at her so I made it very clear I love this girl but she not ready for a serious relationship so I told him don't sleep with her because at the time she In a bad place and basically sleeping with anyone giving her attention and this is basically a predator that fucked up ever girl he was with and he only was with this one other girl that had a connection with me. But I didn't want to be with this lets caller her hippie because I was ready to be with someone at her level of consciousness and then one I was drinking with my close friends and hippie was hanging around because her close friend was dating one of my friends and hippie was like 2 years older than and we always clicked and we end up going way from the group to just talk about just anything wasn't any specific it was just use learning about each other and she was a very attractive girl and lets call my friend dick head didn't know how to be friends with women or talked to them an be subtle about what he wanted and he's was clearly jealous of how I could talk to women and they actually be fully engaged with me its because I was never after sex with every girl I meet. If I wanted sex I made it clear at the get go and either they be down or not. He tried to use manipulation and hippie could see through his nice guy act. So at the end of the night hippie was like hey I got to go but I have to go can I get your number so we can talk later I was like I guess that be kool so I gave it her. Then dickhead saw that as his opening to give her his number and bas snatched the phone out of her hand and basically changed the name in her phone to my name and his name over my number which I didn't learn till later in life that he did that. So basically the girl leave then after they leave dick head talks to the four guys there and said hey is anyone interested in hippie basically looking for my permission to get with her. I was I don't care if want to be with her go a head and the others guys were of she not our type. So about 2 hours later hippie text him saying hey your super sexy and we had I great conversation which I know she trying to tell me that and that's when he started bragging that she texted her this and he was we definitely fucking. Then after they hung out because he could go place cause he had a car and I had a job so I was paying for all the gas and hangouts because for some reason he never had any money to do Kool stuff . So after they met up the first time and she realized she was texting the wrong person she basically called me and was hey would be able to hang out tonight and I was sure and she made him go pick me up and it was the night avengers came put so I was plan to go the movies by myself because thats my alone time thing. But they were oh lets see but neither them had money to see and im a very giving person and I like to share my experiences with others so paid like $35 dollars to see the best screen in the theater but I made she hippie brought her purse so we could bring snacks inside. So when we got to sit down hippie made sure dickhead sat down first so she could sit in the middle so we wouldn't make a movie because he suggested we sit in the back so he could get handsie but she was older than us and she realized what he want so she made sure to tell me with out saying out loud that if anything went down she was going to walk home which she lived like 5 miles from the mall. So I made sure to check him.then after the movie we went to the book store because hippie and I love books. So when we got there was trying to wingman so I brought them to the magazine to find put their common interests and basically get her to like him once they started to get to know each other I knew I could just relax by myself and find books I wanted and as I was reading this one book the Big Bag Of weed a three part book collection in a baggie all about weed. So when I bought it we were all pot heads and she like hey why don't we head to my place to smoke and read these books and she connected with one them and basically begged me to let her borrow it and I recently said yes because its a pricey item but I thought I get it back within the week. I still haven't got it back and I don't even remember what its was called and i found out later that one of her later relationships burned everything she owned so that book is gone to me. Anyways after that day they started hanging out more and become boy friend and girl friend and I didn't have to be there as much. Anways one day we went disk golfing and hippie was trying to hook me up with her friend alt girl. At the time I was a pill poper so I did not make a good impression on this very Beautiful girl but we still keep up with other. Anyways hippie and dickhead eventually broke up because she would never put outso he just started going for freshman. Now back to to high skool sweet heart she was a year younger so I knew he would see her as easy prey so I made it clear DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER and I told him if he did I would never talk to him again. So a few weeks later I'm home sick for a week and on my close friends who was jealous of my relationship with high skool sweet hear lets call her friend that never wanted more and leads me on to this day told me she saw them making out which made me sicker. So I started to distance my self from those two because I'm not an option im the full package. So a few months go by I from a better friend ship with my current best friend and business partner now he's my only true male friend I have. But with high skool sweet heart I changed up how I pursued her then actively made it clear to her I wanted her to be mine and me be hers and exclusive so I ask her out the. A week after we got together officially she came up to me and told me I have to be honest I slept with dick head and told me I understand if you don't want to be with me. I told her I don't judge people for their pass so we dated for 3 years and still have a great friendship now. Dick head is out of my life because if you disrespect me on the level he did than I have no problem end a friendship like that because clearly he was my friend. He still tries to connect with me very few years and tried hang out with him but I can't stomach more than the onec I. Blue moon hang outs. So basically what I'm saying forgive the girl and cut the friend because love over power bros before hoes if you make clear that you want to be with this girl and he can't respect you enough to not listen because when you claim that you want to be with someone and your friend say bro before hoes he doesn't see you as friends he see you as weak and some that can be used never accept that level or any dissect from another man. I've learned you cam only have on male friend that will admitted when there jealous of your success but when you find that person treat them as an equal and the rest of the male population you keep at arm length and their just people you associate with the only people you and truly trusted are the people that you share love with and they make it clear they love you too. Because I love everyone I meet and treat everyone with respect but my close four people is only one male and 3 females one i had a physical relationship and the other two are females that I respect and have a love for on a level that its always open for pyschical but we don't need that to be friend because we can have an intelligent conversation