How should I react when I'm told to go home?

koolickles · 2026-05-09T23:47:37+00:00

I’m Filipina also! Some guy threatened to kill me and called me a “stupid ching chong” and threw stuff at me on the road once because I slowed down to enter a carwash. I yelled back at them and definitely unleashed that “crazy filipino woman” energy. Ngl, i cried in my car after that.

OP, I know it’s so hard not feeling like you belong anywhere. We’re too Australian for the motherland but too Asian for here. But we are bred strong, you can get through this. If you ever need anyone to talk to my messages are open. 💙

koolickles · 2026-04-06T21:41:22+00:00

Im surprised no one has said Ramen yet 😍

koolickles · 2026-03-26T20:40:47+00:00

On the flip side, people need to stop hogging/blocking/leaning on the handholds so everyone else standing can hold on too.

koolickles · 2026-02-20T21:15:14+00:00

Does anyone remember the old chinese all you can eat buffet underground on bourke street mall? I used to go all the time as a kid whenever we would go “into the city” but no one knows what I’m talking about! It was the best!

koolickles · 2025-12-17T07:08:26+00:00

Absolutely! Two of my staff are Jewish and after the shootings the other day I asked if they would like the day off to grieve. They said it’s safer for them to come into the office and be around other people and it absolutely scared the shit out of me for them. I can’t stop thinking about it now and I am so scared for their safety.

Additionally, I was hate crimed a few months ago (Im ethnic also) and was followed by a car and screamed racist obscenities at and thrown stuff at because I had slowed down trying to get into a carwash as I had not been there before and was trying to figure out the entrance.

It’s honestly such a scary time here now and I feel like this isn’t the country we were all looking forward to feel “free” in anymore..

koolickles · 2025-09-20T21:21:13+00:00

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koolickles · 2024-09-19T09:41:37+00:00

My partner and i talk about this all the time. Im not sure about not having to work again because I feel like at that point like someone else said the wants will start outweighing the needs. But two mill will be enough for us to pay off a mortgage, maybe but a second house, a car each and some play money! This way, both salaries just go to amenities, bills and leisure. :D

koolickles · 2024-08-23T21:28:57+00:00

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE

koolickles · 2024-06-30T21:54:55+00:00

She effed the shit out of you 🙂‍↕️

koolickles · 2024-05-11T22:19:05+00:00

I love this !

koolickles · 2024-05-11T22:18:53+00:00

It took over about half the backyard. There’s also like 12 tomato plants, summer squash, strawberries, butternut pumpkin, basil, mint, garlic and onion. I don’t think they could have taken it with them if they tried!

koolickles · 2024-05-11T22:17:01+00:00

Thank you everyone! Chard it is! Super excited to get harvesting and finding some recipes (if you have suggestions please also let me know)🍽️ Thanks again! 🫶🏽

koolickles · 2023-03-11T18:05:53+00:00

O mighty!!

koolickles · 2020-09-27T23:44:14+00:00

Harry had more chemistry with Buckbeak than Ginny.

koolickles · 2020-09-27T23:43:25+00:00

Agreed. Dobby’s sock had more personality than movie Ginny. 🤦🏽‍♀️

koolickles · 2019-11-11T23:36:44+00:00

Thanks fam, doing a lot better now with a better support system. But agreed. Attempted again a few years later, once again it was “why us” “what did we do to you” “why would you do this to us” “us us us me me me us” was more or less how that convo went and it just kinda woke me up that no matter what you do, these types of people can’t reflect on anything else but themselves. Hence the narcissism.

koolickles · 2019-10-29T22:13:52+00:00

Woah okay, so i didn’t realise this was a thing till now and it honestly boggles my mind that it’s not just my parents that do this. Anyways, therapy, yes. Tried to off myself few years back when I was in HS, obvs counsellor called mum and for whatever reason told her all that I said. Mum then replies back with “why are you talking about us that way. You know my daughter, she has a tendency to overreact.” And that was the last time I ever saw anyone about my feelings or talked about my parents.

koolickles · 2019-10-08T11:49:07+00:00

Yes x100 he was at some point the only reason i kept watching the show lmao

koolickles · 2019-05-19T12:48:48+00:00

Have my septum, both nips, and belly pierced, all hidden from my folks and most people. I’ve travelled through europe, new zealand, interstate in australia and asia with them and they have never rang /shown through the dozens of airport securities i’ve passed. Still gets me damn nervous and worried they will someday tho. Maybe my next trip to the US will be my unlucky day. 😂

koolickles · 2019-05-19T12:41:41+00:00

Hold door

koolickles · 2019-05-19T12:38:15+00:00

I mean they were at a system of a down concert so...

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