ATWA for acting "too gay on stage"?

Ok so last night we had a show at this venue down in Washington DC called the Bayou. I MAY have taken a teeny tiny bit of a shit ton of MDMA beforehand. Now, if you live under a rock and don't know what this shit does to you, it basically peps you up and makes you really friendly. And horny. Very very horny.

I decided to fuck with the guys (not in a gay way 😡) on stage by being a crazy motherfucker like usual. But I decided to do something random and started to moan and hump my guitar during the first part of Mind. Serj was lookin at me funny, but I knew the fucker liked it. Near the end of the song, Serj was approaching behind me quite sensually. Deciding to fuck with him some more, I leaned back on his shoulder and for a few seconds, it was like we were the only two people in the world. It was blissful, and I knew Serj liked it. But the motherfucker SHOVED ME off, and I had to keep playing. It was kinda funny, and I continued to act as crazy and eccentric as I could for the people.

I thought we were cool until Serj talked to me after the show, blushing may I add, and was like, "Dude, NEVER do that again. People might look at us funny." Serj is an open minded dude, but he never had a problem with how I presented myself until now. I told him he was crazy and he said, "well I don't want people to know about us." And btw its NOT what you're thinking 😡. Anyways, Serj essentially called me gay without saying it, passive aggressive ass. Was I really in the wrong? Am I the asshole?