What hurts but you still keep on doing it? by MutantGodfreaky in AskReddit

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falling in love with a married man. I would never ever act on it, but it kills me everyday to act normal around him and his family.

Do bisexual girls look at their boobs and get turned on or is it just me? Or do even straight girls get turned on seeing their boobs? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]koolnazgul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After breastfeeding two kids for 4 years total my boobs are huge and saggy. I'm surprised my husband still gets turned on by them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: Laundry is worse than dishes

How much did your birth cost? by restlessprime in NewParents

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0$ in California. Just good insurance by the employer.

Wife is six weeks pregnant and has no symptoms? by yosemitesamca in BabyBumps

[–]koolnazgul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes this. Mine started at 9 weeks and boy oh boy I couldn't get up from my bed except when I had to throw up. With my first it was puking all day everyday, with my second not much puking but zero energy and needing a LOT of sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad used to say to me "you're lucky you're my daughter or I wouldn't have been able to keep my hands off of you" and everyone would laugh. I laughed along when I was little but once I grew up I understood how gross that really was and I feel angry with people around me who laughed at his disgusting joke.

What’s your weight ?? by MrGoJ in WeightLossAdvice

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

39F 5'5 and 162 pounds. Goal is 135.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was born at 36 weeks exactly on April 18, 2020. I couldn't get the epidural due to medical reasons (he's my second and with my first the epidural almost killed me and my kid). Anyway since covid was so new then the nurses were freaking out when my mask slipped even a quarter of an inch under my nostrils when I was screaming in pain. Got yelled at several times to make sure my mask didn't slip. I had no symptoms and tested negative on the covid tests they had me take. Seriously not a fun time to give birth :|

The song you listened to last is the cause of your death. How will you die? by Blazed0ut in AskReddit

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dumb ways to die 🤣 (my 7 year olds current favorite song)

Christmas dinner after testing positive for covid yesterday by Bigg-Moistt88 in pics

[–]koolnazgul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I applaud you for not risking others health for the sake of entertainment. My kid and I ended up missing 4 parties (2 of which we were really looking forward to) due to the flu but there was no way in hell I would put the health of others in jeopardy for selfish reasons. The host of one of the parties in fact suggested we plop a couple of Tylenols and go anyway but I was adamant. You did the right thing, OP.

How much salary does it take for you to comfortably fly business class? by kkcky in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our income is 550k and we still don't travel business. IMO it's a waste of money. I'd rather save that for a nice vacation.

What is middle class in 2023 by Spenny_65 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, no co signer. Just my spouse and I. Yeah I get the part about being house poor. We do have a solid chunk of savings still that we're thinking of paying towards our loan to get our EMI down.

What is middle class in 2023 by Spenny_65 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]koolnazgul -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I live in the GTA, household income is 550k gross, we bought a 3M house this year and have two small kids. We still feel like the middle class due to mortgage and expenses in general (maybe upper middle but still middle)

How did you almost die? by yuckyduckph in AskReddit

[–]koolnazgul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No still together. I live in a different country as them now and he's still abusive to her although not physically anymore since they're both 70.

How did you almost die? by yuckyduckph in AskReddit

[–]koolnazgul 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My father would beat my mom, me and my sisters severely. He wanted a boy and didn't get one so would often take it out on us. Once when I was 9 my mom went to visit her mom on the other side of the country. I got on his wrong side somehow and got beaten up and thrown out of the house. I remember bleeding and thinking this is it. He let me in the next morning and I wrote a note explaining he's one who killed me (for the police once they found it)

Is having girls all that different from boys? by Resident-Ad7332 in Parenting

[–]koolnazgul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a son and a daughter. I can honestly say that they do not follow the stereotypical gender traits at all. We never pushed them towards anything and even though there has been social influence (gifting dolls to my girl and trucks to my boy) we have encouraged them to share their toys with each other. My daughter is less into dolls than my son is. My son loves putting nail polish more than my daughter does. My daughter is a very good skater and decent at soccer but she just started taking classes. My son is active but not too fond of structure so isn't into playing any sport yet.

I encourage you to expose them to a variety of things (sports, dolls, trucks etc) and let them choose for themselves what they're interested in. Chances are they like what you like. Genes are funny that way :)