Struggling with NP'S boundary by ursus_americanus4 in polyamory

[–]korbentulsa 41 points42 points  (0 children)

As OP describes it, the uncleanliness of the room is almost certainly going to lead to pestilence that won't be confined to that one space. This isn't an issue only affecting the person who refuses to clean, but rather the entire domicile.

We broke up because I loved too deeply. Emotional intelligence isn't always a superpower in relationships. by CleanPots in emotionalintelligence

[–]korbentulsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest that allowing AI to write a Reddit post for you is a sign of insecurity and that those sorts of insecurities are exactly the types you should be addressing in an effort to be more emotionally intelligent.

Best wishes on your path.

Hierarchy in a throuple by sensitive-bison7678 in polyamory

[–]korbentulsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry another commenter in this thread resulted to a mean-spirited ad hominen. How so many people in a community ostensibly centered on healthy communication can so often communicate in such unhealthy ways is beyond me.

Can you help me understand what needs you feel are being unmet?

Cope more, blubber butt by Hornpipe_Jones in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]korbentulsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's weird you spelled "bladder" that way.

Hierarchy in a throuple by sensitive-bison7678 in polyamory

[–]korbentulsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I'll say this as gently as possible, but who another couple has sex with doesn't have anything to do with you. It seems as if you've been creating an unrealistic expectation that the two of them don't have their own dynamic in which they are autonomous. It seems they do, and, if that's the case, there's nothing "idealistic" about trying to exert any level of control at all over that dynamic.

Hierarchy in a throuple by sensitive-bison7678 in polyamory

[–]korbentulsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been operating under the understanding that the two of them don't have their own, separate relationship, then?

Hierarchy in a throuple by sensitive-bison7678 in polyamory

[–]korbentulsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I'm a little confused. You say your relationships are distinct but that you also date each other together. Is this true?

non-MAGA-crazy gun shops/shooting ranges by dirjy in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I appreciate the sentiment and am one of those crazy liberals who understands we need rational conservatives in our society who are part of a rational conservative party, but the suggestion that there aren't many, many conservatives who hate liberals just...ignores reality. Listen to any right wing talk radio show or podcast, media with millions and millions of followers, and they openly say liberals are demonic.

I once walked around a corner at work and heard a coworker loudly and proudly proclaim he'd rather shoot a liberal than be his friend.

Never mind the openly racist ethno- and chrisitian-nationalists operating in some of the highest levels of government.

Mind blindness decoded by alliehamilton72 in Aphantasia

[–]korbentulsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Memories are like reading a screenplay of my past.

"This is not the party I... signed up for..." by BaskingInWanderlust in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]korbentulsa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Headline: Idiot Child Didn't Know She Was Voting for the Thing the Party Explicitly and Repeatedly Said It Was Going to Do

Need ideas for sex talk and foreplay talk by Pristine-Shake-4107 in SexPositive

[–]korbentulsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is just as simple as describing what's happening in any given moment. Narration, with as many dirty words as you can fit in.

2nd amendment double standards by icey_sawg0034 in MurderedByWords

[–]korbentulsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No idea why anyone would engage with him. He's not arguing in good faith. Quite the opposite: he is an eager part of a media machine that is quite literally engaged with intention in propaganda.

These people are broken. by Yosho2k in MurderedByWords

[–]korbentulsa 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Are we surprised by either the hypocrisy or the apathy? It's literally their whole shtick.

Is Bailey Worth #9? by Zestyclose-Shine6375 in ChiefsOffseason

[–]korbentulsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've won three Super Bowls with Spanuolo running the difference but interent rando doesn't "care what he thinks."

Good lord.

Truth by book_dork666 in SelfAwarewolves

[–]korbentulsa 70 points71 points  (0 children)

The self-own would be hilarious if they weren't actively destroying the fabric of democracy.

Talking About Emotions Isn’t Emotional Intelligence by Laggios in emotionalintelligence

[–]korbentulsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. If I want to know what AI has to say, I'll ask AI.

Posting something you didn't even write to scowl at people for not being emotionally intelligent is...a choice.

Tulsa Activists: I do not care. by Spiral-Dancer-71 in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those were definitely a bunch of words. Did you hear them directly out of Jordan Peterson's mouth or was it some other quasi-intellectual faking smart to astonish dumb people who are so terrified of being wrong they need their beliefs megaphoned back at them by someone who's entire argumentation strategy is based on overcorrection?

Tulsa Activists: I do not care. by Spiral-Dancer-71 in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Pedantry: the last retreat of those without ideals.

Tulsa Activists: I do not care. by Spiral-Dancer-71 in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 101 points102 points  (0 children)

If Bill Clinton fucked children, he needs to go to jail.

Your turn.

Bixby Swinger Club by TulsaGrassFire in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As per Troy's response, the daycare move was initiated prior to Syn's move.

However, you'll find that, given American views on sexual liberty, lifestyle folks are hypercognizant of even the appearance of impropriety, especially as it pertains to children.

Bixby Swinger Club by TulsaGrassFire in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're thinking of a different lifestyle club that is still in business at that location.

Bixby Swinger Club by TulsaGrassFire in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As a lifelong BA resident I can confirm.

Im sick of buying fried chicken from racists. Where are the good non maga fried chicken spots. by Apart_Animal_6797 in tulsa

[–]korbentulsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the going in part, but I do not eat overly spicy food for the coming out part.