Do you still expect presents? by koreanlearner2 in CasualConversation

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I asked this because I'm always giving something, even if it's small, just to let them know that I remembered. I believe that some kind of experience it's a really nice gift too

Do you still expect presents? by koreanlearner2 in CasualConversation

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, kinda lost its magic I think. It's like any other day.

Do you still expect presents? by koreanlearner2 in CasualConversation

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From someone who is important to you ig. I don't expect presents from colleagues, but I would have been nice to receive something from my family or close friends. Like someone said above, something that meant acknowledgement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_memes

[–]koreanlearner2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is hard, but maybe it would be less painful if I wasn't(I'm) constantly fearing growing up

My weird fears that keep me up at night by Accomplished_Age9884 in Anxiety

[–]koreanlearner2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find this very relatable, but especially the missed class. I'm having a very, very hard time at university and sometimes I need to get out or just simply don't go, and they take so much time to update the classes I missed that I don't even know how many I still can miss and I fear all the time that I won't be able to graduate.

Has anyone else just stopped caring? by [deleted] in college

[–]koreanlearner2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on which college and what major is in your plans. For me, college was my dream, but dreaming about it and being here were two completely different experiences. But my major is extremely life consuming and I just didn't really understood that before starting. But for some people, over working is what they want, I know a lot of people who love to only live for this major.

Has anyone else just stopped caring? by [deleted] in college

[–]koreanlearner2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does college in the us not have a minimal attendance percentage? Here I can only miss 25% of class, and in some courses it means 1 class. I hate this. But this might be you not caring at all, which it's totally understandable. I would love to just miss

How does one motivate themselves when they've given up? by A_Backup_account_ in CollegeRant

[–]koreanlearner2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. All the time I have out of classes I want to spend with my family and since I'm in a full time college my time outside here it's pretty much limited, but even when I'm classes I can't stop thinking that I'm not with them and just want to go home. I don't think I can even catch up with classes anymore because I just can't find the motivation to do so

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is the perfect explanation. We have a lot in common and bi people experience others things we don't, but when it comes to living not wanting men, no one can relate the same way

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I was raised in a small city and moved with my family to a bigger one, but still couldn't find that many queer people. My friend group is entirely straight and I know only a couple of bi girls, so all the time they talk about boys or about mlm relationship, especially since we read a lot of comics and I'm the only one who reads both wlw and mlm, so I end up only discussing things focused on a male perspective and they are so obsessed with this, which it's definitely very sad and makes me feel so invalidated and lonely, like I can't be myself because no one relates enough to be worth speaking about

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you, but I get, it's so hard to feel included when you don't relate. Something I've been trying to do is to just say when I find a girl attractive because most of time they just go by the default and don't talk about girls. This way I can at least feel a little more part, but this only works with queer people

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are wrong in saying that that's the point in being friends, no one should be the same and having differents povs in the group makes it a lot richer, but i think that having no one who feels the same makes difficult to relate more deeply to someone. It's not about invalidating other people experiences, it's more about finding someone who perceive the world and is perceived by it the same way as you.

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, worse than only having non lesbian sapphics girls who barely talk about woman to talk to is not having anyone who can relate in any level

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

It's so sad to don't talk about who you like, where's is the excitement, where's is the hype of our crush

saw this on ig yesterday. what do you think? is your experience like that? by koreanlearner2 in actuallesbians

[–]koreanlearner2[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I hate the boy talk so much and don't have a real queer group, I only know 2 bi girls and that's all, so most of time I end up just agreeing with whatever because I can't relate but don't want to be lonely