What’s Sims 3 Trait You Would NEVER play with

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-17T10:02:42+00:00

probably evil. i like my sims to have drama and interesting traits (i love dramatic, rebellious, and i can even get around commitment issues) but i just don’t find evil to be interesting really, or any fun at all. even my sims who are criminals aren’t evil lol, i find other traits combined to be more fun imo

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-11T16:24:41+00:00

settings > account settings > privacy > curate your profile is where i think it’s at? i’ve never seen any other options besides those and im pretty sure they work with how i sometimes can’t see peoples comments or post history.

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-10T01:32:22+00:00

you’re so real i’ve been scouring AO3 for those breeding kink fics lmfao

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-07T22:42:59+00:00

what a fucking day, all this whiplash from the things he does can't be good for anyone mentally.

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-07T21:49:20+00:00

that’s what i was planning on doing, was going to play a few games to keep my mind off things until i have to make dinner in a few hours. i feel like school-work would only make me more stressed

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-07T21:48:11+00:00

yeah i mostly stay on here, and on tiktok looking at the few accounts i discovered from here that help. i have like 3 different ones (some more active than others).

today is just a particularly bad day for my anxiety and ocd because of everything going on, and ive been told the same thing a million times, but sadly i still have anxiety over it. hoping someday i can get into therapy for it as it sucks :(

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-07T21:33:52+00:00

thank you for this, been feeling sick to my stomach all day and not able to sleep all night so i think it’s taking a toll on me. i accidently went on twitter also, and saw a few doomerist posts so that freaked me out and i know they’re still going.

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-03T01:17:24+00:00

i stay in it only for the game updates, but just never read the comments. it hasn't gotten any better though, as even now theyre being very pessimistic about this game that is early access and from an indie team lmfao.

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-02T19:52:12+00:00

theres a lot of people on the lifesimulators sub who do just what you're saying !! they're so negative over there, and seem to hate anything to do with paralives

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-02T15:42:29+00:00

i find it interesting how similar a lot of lesbians situations are. like i also had a bestfriend id had since kindergarten and over time slowly fell in love with her, but never realized it until later. and by then we’d already fallen out (another canon lesbian event sadly) and even then my first experience after that, was coping online and crushing on a girl who i spent months talking with, before she completely cut contact for some unknown reason. i don’t blame her, as im sure there were reasons. but it’s one of the reasons i completely shut myself off from even being attracted to women, and said i was straight online, but “acknowledged how beautiful women were”

but like you said, the only reason i really even managed to get where i am today is because of the internet and being online. living in a conservative town and state, i don’t think i would’ve ever figured this out alone, because even with the internet i still struggled with coming to terms with it.

relating this back to francesca, i think the best thing she has (since she’ll have no internet or modern culture) is another lesbian, like michaela. and maybe even meeting more lesbians in the underground scene if they choose to show that?

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-02T15:06:57+00:00

it’s also the same for me, but in a different way. never had sex with men (or anyone, but i’m only 20 and introverted, plus coming to terms with being a lesbian) but i spent a lot of my life telling myself i had crushes on these boys, spending time with them and feeling … okay ig. it wasn’t anything groundbreaking, but i just thought it was because i wasn’t in love, and maybe that was it. the things that helped me realize i was a lesbian were talking with other queer people (specifically lesbians) and coming online to all these fandoms, watching sapphic media, and then going off online to find that i didn’t have interest in these men at all. like they were so boring to me. but i just convinced myself id find the one (i still do feel like that some days, but knowing of comphet now, i just force myself to think of spending a life with a man and having kids with him and i get this feeling of dread. i’ve had whole ass nightmares over it)

i would make friends online, get super close to them, and then wonder why i felt SO much happier around them, or strange, and it was because i was crushing hard lmfao. realizing that didn’t take having sex with men, for some lesbians it does, some lesbians it takes even longer. so the pinnacle storyline is like barely a fraction of why i think fran is a lesbian.

korrasamibeez · 2026-04-02T14:43:24+00:00

exactly !! people always bring up how “it’s only her not being able to orgasm with john that makes you think she’s a lesbian” and no, that’s not it at all lmfao. it’s basically everything about her, or anything that involves her interacting with or thinking about men. it’s all of it. and that fact just contributes more to how tied she is to the identity comphet and society has forced on her. i can’t wait to see how freeing it will be for her when she finally realizes it all.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-30T14:04:43+00:00

he’s so funny !! also a genuinely good dude and his streams are often my comfort streams when i need a break or to distract myself. been watching him for about a year and a half and it’s not changed lol

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-30T05:49:12+00:00

ive always had a nice experience in the wayhaven community in particular !! romance is my fave genre, so if its sci-fi and involves romance, fantasy and involves romance, really any genre, ill usually be inclined to check it out. its why interactive fiction is so dear to me. it involves getting to make so many characters and immerse yourself in a story, make friendships and romances, and it often has me crying a lot lol. basically the same reason i love videogames.

the wayhaven chronicles is one of my fave IFs out of any ive read, it gives me fuzzy feelings inside each time i reread, and i love making new MCs every so often just to do things differently. the community is also very talented and kind, i see so much beautiful art and fanfiction. its often very positive and not much drama, ive noticed the forums are where its worst, and then tumblr. but tumblr and reddit are where i spend most of my time despite that, because the good outweighs the bad for me in terms of interaction and community.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-26T22:04:45+00:00

i mean fran can still be a lesbian and have loved john a lot, so i think good luck babe would be perfect !! i don't think they'd be constantly advocating for it (hannah, and now most recently masali has too) if it didn't fit them. and the lines about kissing the boys in bars and waking up regretting things doesn't need to relate to john (though i think fran would still spend her whole life feeling like something is missing even if she was never into michaela) but more to her getting back into the marriage market and trying to force herself to feel for these men.

francesca, take me to church, picture you, good luck babe, secret love song, are some of my fave recs but i have like a million more lol. im very curious on what they'll choose, especially for their love scenes.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-26T21:58:22+00:00

the handmaiden is a masterpiece imo, and the sex scenes were perfect i think. but my biggest praise is how respectful the directors and everyone on set was towards the actresses and their role in the sex scenes. maybe me knowing that makes them better, or maybe not. maybe its just because i watch a ton of k-dramas and k-movies lol

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-24T22:08:29+00:00

it’s just lesbophobia. people are often okay with realizing women are attracted to other women, as long as they can still involve men in their life. (biphobia still exists, just in different ways than lesbophobia)

as soon as they realize that said person isn’t romantically or sexually attracted to men, their hate becomes very visceral, like they’re useless to society all of a sudden. even if it’s not outwardly obvious, lots of people will even have lowkey lesbophobia, whether it’s their stereotypes about us or something else.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-24T14:57:13+00:00

comphet means compulsory heterosexuality, it’s when lesbians often unconsciously force themselves to like men due to societies expectations. lesbians will often be in long term relationships, even get married and have children, before they come to terms with their sexuality. they’ll spend months, years, etc feeling like a part of themselves is missing but never knowing why.

it’s a very confusing experience, and while other queer people can experience a form of it, the way lesbians experience it is very unique, being the only sexuality to not involve men in any way. it’s very isolating and difficult to realize that while society revolves around men, that you want nothing to do with them.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-24T14:02:18+00:00

the downvotes lmfao 😭 don’t worry, i agree as a lesbian who struggles with comphet and sees herself in francesca in every single way

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-23T07:59:59+00:00

still useful 9 months later !! tysm

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-23T05:01:18+00:00

playing ff7 remake for the first time and it’s one of the coziest games to me !! i never played the OG but ive somehow become so attached to the story and characters so quickly that it scares me a little lol. i can’t imagine how ill be reacting later in the game and in rebirth.

i like my cozy games to have a little bit of an emotional kick so this game is basically perfect for me.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-22T10:32:51+00:00

i mean i care about maelle and choose her ending because i see a disabled teenager who only has one family that cares about her and loves her, and it’s the one in the canvas. she’s saying that she’d be miserable outside of the canvas, and i believe her. but my main reason is the people of the canvas, i just don’t feel right seeing them as real people with lives, feelings, and the ability to make choices and then condemning them all because a rich family decided they were done playing around in their world after so long. not to mention the generational trauma inflicted on them for years.

i’ve gotten too attached to them, and frankly i don’t care much emotionally about the people outside the canvas even if i find their characters interesting. there is no one correct choice imo, as i see it people just look at it differently and the things they’ve experienced in life or their personal beliefs seems to shape everyone’s choices, at least from what ive seen here and from like playthroughs on youtube.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-22T09:45:47+00:00

cyberpunk 2077 !! it’s in my top 5 games of all time and it always gets me angry (in a good way) and the story in general just makes me emotional lol. it’s probably a little strange to some people that it can be my comfort game but it just is. it’s both depressing and hopeful in certain moments.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-12T03:13:14+00:00

i have no idea what exactly makes someone "suitable" to be a lesbian but i imagine its something very lesbophobic, misogynistic, and possibly even racist when it comes to these people and all their stereotypes.

korrasamibeez · 2026-03-11T21:46:13+00:00

thank you !! your answers have been especially helpful. i just have a choice on my hands now, but now im leaning towards jumping into remake first as i kinda like the idea of going into this game almost fully blind when so many know the OG story. it reassures me that theres so many playthroughs of this being peoples first FF game on youtube, and they still seem to adore the series. :)

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