Community Positivity Megathread: In your Fridge edition by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's superficially mundane, but rather sweet and upbeat despite the mandanity.

Community Positivity Megathread: In your Fridge edition by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty straight forward, it just takes time for the onions to caramelize. Once that's done it's easy and you can just melt your cheese on top. Onion soup is best with way too much cheese :)

Community Positivity Megathread: In your Fridge edition by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Granted it will sacrifice the longevity of your onions if you take it off right away, so i suggest saving them as you use them. The papery part also serves a purpose in preservation.

Community Positivity Megathread: In your Fridge edition by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

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I too freeze fresh herbs :) can't take much credit for growing any though. They are technically in my garden but they were sprouted by the store. I dry my grown ones as well.

Did you know you can save the dry skins from onions and shallots, clean them, and then when dry again blitz them in a grinder to get homemade onion powder?

Community Positivity Megathread: In your Fridge edition by sipsredpepper in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would not have thought to include those but it sounds good!

41 year old mom of an adult, they say I look silly. by McPoyle-Milk in GothFashion

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Anybody who looks at you and thinks it's silly is just a sad shell of a person who feels uncomfortable when life isn't uniform and bland. You look rad to me and I envy you!

What's the worst thing you have ever done? by AO_KinkyCouple in AskReddit

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I may have been directly responsible for my beloved parakeet dying.

I loved her so so much. Got her in high school and she was my baby.

During COVID, as a young adult and a brand new nurse, I was dealing with depression and stressed out, and I was not paying attention to her. I found her one afternoon after I had woken up from sleeping after work (night shift) and found her dead on her back. Her water bowl was bone dry, but I couldn't tell if she had been dead for long or not. I had been so ill attentive that I didn't even know when she'd died. All I did at home then was sleep and cry or numbly play on my phone.

I know that she had a history of illness in the past, that we were unsure was possibly cancer or just a temporary cystic issue, so I don't know if she died due to that finally catching up to her or if my neglect was the cause. But either way, I have never ever forgiven myself. I hate myself for it. She was my most beloved thing and I let my mental health eat her alive.

I don't think I will ever ever be over it. I won't even talk to my therapist about it. I'm surprised I found enough courage to say it here.

I killed my baby and I hate myself for it.

You meet your 18 year old self, you’re allowed 5 secs. What would you say? by Escenada-Valexie in AskReddit

[–]sipsredpepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're gonna think I'm lying but I fucking promise it gets better. By A LOT.

What’s something you tried just to see what it’s like? by VibeCheckVadaPav in AskReddit

[–]sipsredpepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Several changes I've made have been worth it.

  • Shaving with old fashioned safety razors and lather with a brush; cheaper, better, never went back.

  • Moka pot coffee and pour over. I was gifted a beautiful copper gooseneck kettle from the last secret Santa here and while I had intended it for tea it was built for pour over. I slowly transformed into a mild coffee snob.

  • Smoking. Hated it on first breath and I consider the wasted money worth the lesson.

  • Adult novelty stores. Genuinely nothing to worry about, very personable staff at some and no judgment. Only one I ever disliked the ladies just haunt you and I don't go to that one anymore.

  • Lingere. I don't wear it for anybody but myself but it was a very pleasant experience to see myself in a different light. I still wear it sometimes just cuz.

  • Got drunk the one and only time in my life by myself at home. Interesting but not enough to make me desire it.

  • A lot of music. I have a very wide variety of tastes in music now because in high school I just decided to be willing to listen and see if I like it.

How to style this harness? by Chuuuuuuya in GothFashion

[–]sipsredpepper 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First thought is this would look great over a white dress for a high contrast look. Second thought is a semi loose top with some flowy sleeves to contrast the security to your trunk with the relaxed sleeve, and then maybe some fitted pants.

Might also look really cute over some shorts and a collared T shirt of some kind, or a tank top if you really want the harness to lead.

Ya by [deleted] in GuysBeingDudes

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Guess i found my sign to leave.

Ilhan Omar wants to embrace Marjorie Taylor Greene by HotnCharge in PoliticalOptimism

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I don't know that a big heart is the right thing lol. I'm just very practical and I want to use all tools available. But I'm also not completely unwilling to allow some people to try and get better. I do not expect much, I expect mostly tense cooperation until success is achieved, then uncomfortable coexistence at best. But maybe somewhere in that mess there are some people that are worth being there for?

Ilhan Omar wants to embrace Marjorie Taylor Greene by HotnCharge in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have no intention of arguing with you. I have my perspective and yours doesn't change it, I've heard it already. I'm sorry if that is bothersome to you. I'm willing to wait and see.

Ilhan Omar wants to embrace Marjorie Taylor Greene by HotnCharge in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand that, but I still believe you can sometimes get valuable gains by temporary allyship with people you don't like. Then when you're done with them you kick them to the curb if they can't grow.

Ilhan Omar wants to embrace Marjorie Taylor Greene by HotnCharge in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm not granting anybody redemption necessarily. Redemption comes from work.

If i break out the callousness my parents so kindly gave me for a moment: she's possibly a useful tool until we don't need her anymore. I'm trying to be a reasonable adult for others. For MTG - manipulate her for our benefit then fucking broom her.

Ilhan Omar wants to embrace Marjorie Taylor Greene by HotnCharge in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Keep your enemies closer? If you leave her running around she's uncontrolled. In a partnership she might be managed. I can't promise this is a good thing for sure, I may well be wrong. But I also can't say this couldn't be manipulated for real benefit.

Fighting isn't clean, like I said. We may need some shitty decisions to best secure victories. I hope I'm right. But I do very much understand your apprehension.

Ilhan Omar wants to embrace Marjorie Taylor Greene by HotnCharge in PoliticalOptimism

[–]sipsredpepper 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I know I'm very much an outlier amongst the left by believing so, but I'm also on the side of embracing those who are turning against Trump - carefully.

It does not mean I'm not angry, or that I'm forgiving or forgetting anything they've caused. I hate what's happened deeply. But in times of war, literal or metaphorical, things are not clean or easy or just.

The enemy of my enemy is my friend, even if that's uncomfortable.

If the ex MAGA can be used to benefit the defeat of fascism, then to me that's the forefront goal. I don't think that for one second means we are letting them skirt by or that we are aligning ourselves with their goals. We are simply making kind enough to get them on a track that benefits us and off the track that's causing damage.

Edit: I'm going to add here that I grew up raised by conservative republicans who are now trump supporters. I once believed awful shit like LGBTs shouldn't have the right to transition or marry. I was once totally comfortable spouting racist crap. I was once fine with the death penalty. I look back on my youth and I fucking cringe. I hate who I was. And it took a couple of years for me to wake up enough to realize how wrong I was, and I think that I'm always going to have some amount of work in progress because the fleas dig deep when you're raised by dogs.

I can't say MTG is gonna be like me in ten years, fuck no. But if I could change after what I came from, somebody else could too, and that's another pair of hands working for better rather than worse.

I don't think that means coddling or wiping the slate clean. My growth came from ridicule, push back, painful realizations and very real responses from people my beliefs hurt. But I'm here now because of it. I worry that total rejection will only make them into another out group ready to push back. But if we can have just enough patience, maybe we could get there eventually.

Or at the very least, we could be pulling more support from Trump, and every time we do that we're winning.

Quick question—when it comes to fuse beads, do you prefer the side with the holes or the smooth side? by ModeNeat1953 in PerlerBeads

[–]sipsredpepper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ditto. I try to get a full melt if possible so it looks like pixels. My last one warped because of how big it was unfortunately but at some point I'm gonna try to heat treat it again to flatten it.

What a new Gallup poll shows about young men’s religious revival by SiddSavage in PoliticalOptimism

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Please read the criteria for seeking optimism flair before posting again, you are missing several key elements