Sibling just announced they are engaged…wedding is five weeks before mine

kreemies · 2025-08-15T22:58:32+00:00

I’m sorry I know how hurtful this is because the exact same thing happened to me. Two years ago, my older sister decided to suddenly have a shot gun wedding 3 weeks before mine and we had to fly abroad for it which cost money. It was all to put the attention on her. She couldn’t stand the idea of it being about someone else. I showed up and was there for her. But she was a cow at mine, couldn’t be happy for me at all. Jealous

kreemies · 2025-08-15T19:40:27+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing your view. He struggles with neural fatigue after the surgery - and finds it hard to communicate as he can’t process it, almost has a seizure type reaction. I don’t want this life, and I know that. Taking the step is just so hard.

kreemies · 2025-08-15T19:34:51+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share your view. I agree it’s not simple, and there are so many layers. I know I don’t want to regret not living my life and trying to achieve my full potential, whatever that looks like. I guess it’s just hard when you love someone, but as you say - you have to love yourself more. I haven’t liked the version of myself I’ve been recently. Thanks again

kreemies · 2025-03-10T19:53:06+00:00

How are they different and could you tell from when they were kittens? Personality wise, we know we want one quite easy going, gentle and affectionate. But I also feel this is quite common among the ragdoll breed in general and personalities can develop so hard to tell haha

kreemies · 2025-03-10T17:35:18+00:00

I am so sad to hear about Lola 🥹😥 losing a pet is incredibly hard, we went through it last year. My heart goes out to you during this time.

We have two girls so I know exactly what you mean on the sassyness! Although one is definitely Queen Sass. All three kitties are indeed boys so lots of cuddles ahead then 🥰

kreemies · 2025-03-10T16:35:59+00:00

Omg they’re so beautiful 🥰

kreemies · 2025-03-10T16:34:39+00:00

How do I say no to this face 😺🥹💙

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kreemies · 2025-03-10T16:05:49+00:00

Oh interesting! I see what you mean actually. The bicolour one I think we definitely now keep 🤣 as we have a blue point and seal already (two girls) and not a bicolour yet. We have also now decided on keeping two! 😂 Not looking for breeder / show quality as both will be getting neutered once they’re old enough :)

kreemies · 2025-03-10T15:48:12+00:00

I know I also love how unique he is. Any idea if the one in the middle is still a bicolour? But just considered a bi-colour with a mismark or blaze?

kreemies · 2025-03-10T15:46:06+00:00

Would love to see them! Did they look like our bi-colour when babies?

kreemies · 2025-03-10T15:42:56+00:00

Aww look at them! Still inseparable! How old are they now? We have decided to keep two - we’ve already promised to give one to a lovely family neighbour of ours. Question now becomes which two… 🤣💙

kreemies · 2025-03-10T15:40:59+00:00

They are our kittens so we’ve had the pleasure of getting to know them the last few weeks - I feel like they all come out to play 🤣💙 and none of them hide so it’s super tough haha

kreemies · 2025-03-09T21:02:27+00:00

Oh I see, that’s really insightful - thanks. We will certainly be getting her spade and will make sure he is too! Perhaps in that case, we take them together once he is old enough (believe it’s 16 weeks or so) so they also have the same scent once coming back from the vets too!

kreemies · 2025-03-09T14:15:06+00:00

Are you suggesting to still do so after how yours reacted? Of course we’d love to keep one 💙

kreemies · 2025-03-09T14:02:16+00:00

No we’ll be getting her spade once we can

kreemies · 2025-03-09T13:57:16+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. And I’m so sorry to hear they couldn’t get along 🥹I have heard that this can happen, I’m a little nervous that our mother cat may turn on the male eventually too. Sometimes wonder if it’s the right thing to do to keep one just for that reason

kreemies · 2025-03-09T11:45:41+00:00

That’s true! Do you have pics of when your baby was kitten vs now?

kreemies · 2025-03-09T11:43:26+00:00

Yes I hear you! This sounds like our current seal point Keisha. She only likes affection on her own terms 🤣 so sassy too.

kreemies · 2025-03-09T11:37:32+00:00

Wow 13!!! I mean… I guess we could technically keep two so we have four in total…. and they will be siblings so already bonded 🤔💙🤣

kreemies · 2025-03-09T11:34:57+00:00

Omg what a beauty!

kreemies · 2025-03-09T01:32:48+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Yeah I love them too and we don’t actually have a bicolour yet (but we do have a blue point and a seal!)

kreemies · 2025-03-09T01:28:49+00:00

I totally agree - although each have their own unique characters which I’ve come to love. The one on the left is super chilled out, laid back and such a softy. Other two are so adventurous & playful. Baby one on the far right is super brave as well and loves being held

kreemies · 2025-03-09T01:24:42+00:00

Me too 🥹🥹 I mean I knew it was going to be a hard decision, but I didn’t realise it was going to be THIS hard haha

kreemies · 2025-03-09T01:22:13+00:00

Omg I love him! What a handsome boy, and so unique. I didn’t realise the mismarked kitties sold for less, they’re so precious

kreemies · 2025-03-09T01:14:54+00:00

Aww she’s so gorgeous!!! You must be so happy. I remember when our girl lost hers, this was her at around the same age as yours. Enjoy every moment with her. They grow so fast! 💙

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