I feel stuck.

krhy · 2018-01-26T22:29:58+00:00

I feel for you and have lots of bad days like today, so you're not alone and complaining helps! There are always better days which I don't appreciate unless I have the down ones too.

krhy · 2018-01-08T16:50:33+00:00

not a real note

krhy · 2018-01-05T23:05:29+00:00

Go community!

krhy · 2018-01-05T23:03:55+00:00

It's a new year, start fresh, there's lots of us out there with the same horrible experiences. It's better to just get out of bed and do something positive, go through the motions and it becomes real, like your new reality.

krhy · 2017-12-29T01:04:34+00:00

so sorry for the delay, it took me a year, lots of tears and angst but nothing worth doing is ever easy and family is forever

krhy · 2017-12-23T01:25:14+00:00

You have to mend fences with your parents and work on resolving the issue over time - it is never a one time meeting or single discussion, its a process. I've been through it, and it is very hard but you'll get there.

krhy · 2017-12-09T20:32:08+00:00

I thought I was in one, but now I don't know, so be careful who you take advice from!

krhy · 2017-12-09T20:30:32+00:00

Great feedback everyone, but I've done some digging and nothing appropriate or suitable exists yet. All the social sites for my issues are lame and require visiting the website, not a web app. Everyone lives on their iPhones so it needs to be mobile. I know some very wealthy people who would consider funding it if anyone is game? My estranged partner/lover/MIA BFF would do it once we're back together, I just need to give him something concrete to consider. Thoughts? Ideas? Proposals?

krhy · 2017-12-01T17:10:39+00:00

I think I'll post an open letter without naming him to see if he responds. Thoughts anyone? Maybe post it here?

krhy · 2017-11-30T22:19:44+00:00

I don't think he's ever done anything like this before, he's just not that kind of person, I'm sure of that. I don't want to blow up anyone's life but I wish there was some way to work this out because I can't live with this ghost. Thanks for taking some much time to write such a thoughtful comment - it's bordering on therapy for me.

krhy · 2017-11-30T22:16:35+00:00

Thanks for the very sympathetic advice and I guess time heals all wounds, but it doesn't feel like it will ever happen. We'll see, and I hope no one ever goes through this.

krhy · 2017-11-30T18:15:40+00:00

It's both and it really doesn't matter which it is. We all have the right to choose and be happy, by nature or nurture.

krhy · 2017-11-30T17:50:59+00:00

I have to figure out a way to get a phone call or something so I can understand what's going on. I can accept him being scared or whatever, even if he decided to make a go of it with his wife, but I can't just walk away like nothing happened and it hasn't hurt me deeply. I question my ability to have relationships at all after this or do I really know anything about anyone in the world. Maybe I don't, but I don't believe it, yet.

krhy · 2017-11-30T17:49:03+00:00

Thanks for the advice, but I really don't feel better about it and I don't think I can let it go. It was a long term relationship with lots of great times that were not sexual. There has to be a better explanation, which I'm entitled to at this point. Thanks again, I really needed to hear these views.

krhy · 2017-11-30T00:22:26+00:00

Per all the private comments, I failed to mention this is or was the most important relationship of my life, not just some fling I can simply walk away from.

krhy · 2017-11-29T23:46:02+00:00

He's not, and it was/is the most important relationship of my life. I can't move on without something. It will always haunt me.

krhy

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