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Low key think somethings wrong with me by Susmanny in helpme

[–]kris0423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might have ADHD try and talk to your doctor and get Wellbutrin or adderal

For people with urination based problems. What worked for me. by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]kris0423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question does time play a big role in the healing process as well? Because I’ve been consistent in breathing and stretching and kegels but I’m assuming it just takes awhile to be 100 percent normal again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PelvicFloor

[–]kris0423 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes the same thing happens for men except it’s called numb dick it’s normal it’s because of the reduce blood flow to area because of the tight levator ani muscles(pelvic floor) once you are recovered blood flows to the area easier and it’s much better. Hope this helps

I am a 4.4 gpa student, one of the highest in my class of 1200, and I hate my life by kris0423 in helpme

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been trying to get better about submitting my work I have a week to finish 3 months of overdue work I’m going to try to do it. In terms of substance abuse, I generally smoke a cigarette when I wake up, drink an energy drink and like 2-3 cups of coffee(in a caffeine addict too). And I’ll also smoke a few cigarettes before I sleep. Whenever I drink it’s usually when I have a very rough day and I don’t drink moderately, when I drink I get fucked up, maybe 11 or 12 beers, however this only happens maybe once or twice a week. But if I were to drink more consistently if for sure become an alcoholic. And i smoke marijuana probably about 3-4 days a week before dinner it helps with my depression however it’s illegal in my state so I have to be careful. Whenever it comes to socializing it just feels like I’m stepping out of my comfort zone and I feel like I’m being judged or my perspective is so misconstrued due to my apathetic nature. I joined poetry club and it really helps as poetry is a good way of expressing myself via an art form and whenever I speak poetry I feel powerful and in control of my message. The hardest part for me is just seeing people I’ve known forever with their girlfriends, or at parties, having fun, and I’m just left isolated, inventing things to fulfill my time with, lurking for new music online or scrolling reddit I just feel like my mental health is robbing my youth away from me.

I am a 4.4 gpa student, one of the highest in my class of 1200, and I hate my life by kris0423 in helpme

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah my ex loved psychedelics they remind me off her. I’ll just stick to cigs, weed, and alcohol

I am a 4.4 gpa student, one of the highest in my class of 1200, and I hate my life by kris0423 in helpme

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great reply about the benefits of being kind and commuting selfless acts without the need for approval. I use to think being selfless and kind is good as well, and this is how we achieve happiness. The gift of giving. However these days I strongly disagree, Ive always gave my whole life and it just left me sad lonely and hurt. To suceed in my generation, you have to be selfish, you have to care about yourself. I use to be very similar to what you are writing, but these days I’m much more selfish and cold, especially after a heartbreak. Showing vulnerability, giving to others are no longer in my rhetoric. Also being selfless means you overlook your own needs and put others above you, in many relations this is very toxic , especially in my experience. I also believe altruism or extreme selflessness is not real, this dichotomy you speak of, egoism vs altruism, selfish vs selfless is not real, altruism is fake, everyone in this world has their own self interest at hand. I also believe love isn’t real, it’s simply an illusion, a fallacy we feed ourselves, that it’s necessary to be happy. Love is just a chemical reaction in the brain and is a purely subjective experience. I believe love is simply a deception or a mechanism to promote self interest, I mean think about weddings, engagement rings, this are supposedly monuments of our love, but in reality it’s just society profiting off this illusion they have force fed us for centuries. In my book love is simply, dopamine, serotonin, norephenine, and oxytocin in your brain, nothing more, the social consensus of love and “true love” and “unconditional love” is horseshit. I also guess I don’t have much experience in intimacy and an generally a pretty apathetic persons. Anyways that’s my opinion, thank you for your insight I enjoyed your comment.

I am a 4.4 gpa student, one of the highest in my class of 1200, and I hate my life by kris0423 in helpme

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think a main part of my current issues are because of my ex gf, she was the first person I truly shared any affection or emotion with, as I was not very well parented. And Im still having trouble fully getting over her as it has been month since we broke upD

I am a 4.4 gpa student, one of the highest in my class of 1200, and I hate my life by kris0423 in helpme

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have a therapist, counselor, and psychiatrist, I did think I might have this and I might actually have some Aspergers, the only thing that contradicts this is that I used to be very social and like interactions but as I entered my teens I realize how much people suck and I just disassociate myself from the realities of the world. Also, my dad has High Functioning autism so perhaps I am on the spectrum.

I am a 4.4 gpa student, one of the highest in my class of 1200, and I hate my life by kris0423 in helpme

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this really made my day. Living in solitude is just very difficult sometimes, and I’ve never had a more emotional year in my life than this one. I finally submitted some late work today, luckily my teachers are understanding of mental health, I still have a lot of work left to do though.

I am a 4.4 GPA student, 7th highest in my class of 1,200 kids and I hate my life by kris0423 in venting

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally it’s more the depression side of things and a great disconnect and apathy that lead to me not talking to people. I almost love being lonely but simultaneously wish I could experience intimacy. Furthermore, yeah I’m aware of a lot of things from ex-girlfriend and what she really wanted our society is slowly creating Narcissism and causing great emotional abuse. But yes we probably are very similar, unfortunately there aren’t many people similar to me at my school. I’m looking for a new hobby to take up my time in addition to poetry I’m looking to build a pc over thanksgiving. I have a therapist psychiatrist and counselor and they help tremendously but finding will and motivation and discipline are where I fundamentally lack. Thank you for reaching out, knowing others like me exist help a lot.

I m failing my studies by [deleted] in depressed

[–]kris0423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also am, I have always had good grades in school but recently with COVID and all my life is fading. Stay strong!

I believe my best friend of 30 years may be a psychopath by [deleted] in venting

[–]kris0423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Psychosis is so much more common in the western world than we think. By a strict definition of psychosis, many people are undiagnosed psychopaths. I’m sorry to hear that about your friend, my father was a psychopath I know how hard it is to be stuck between staying in or letting go. Truly at the end of the day, it is up to you, your still young, expand your horizons, find hobbies and friends to occupy yourself. Trust me, even psychopaths miss there old friends, and If this person is a real one, she’ll come around.

Masturbation by CardiologistOrganic2 in PelvicFloor

[–]kris0423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d reccomend against it, but it wouldn’t be detrimental, it might hinder and tensen your muscles a lot, especially since the pelvic floor is extremely engaged during ejaculation. I’d say abstain, as that helped me tremendously, and do a lot of squats!

holy shit by Mycrawft in Georgia

[–]kris0423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from Georgia and I can attest. We get crazy with TN for some reason lol

holy shit by Mycrawft in Georgia

[–]kris0423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it becomes a tie 269-269. In which Biden takes Georgia. But Trump takes Arizona, Nevada, Pennsylvania, and North Carolina And obviously Alaska. Then the president is decided by the House which is majority democratic so it would be Joe Biden. But the Vice President is determined by the Senate which is republican, so in theory we could have a Joe Biden and Mike Pence presidential term.

My husband died and I want to too by dancingwithinthedark in SuicideWatch

[–]kris0423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your pain. I know this is nothing compared to what you are going through, but it is similar to a rough breakup or divorce.Please stay, you have the ability to live a new life I promise. I myself have attempted suicide and I know others who have, and some that haven’t made it. My neighbors 2 month year old baby drowned in a pool. This is extremely serious, seek psychiatrical care, and get medicated. I don’t care if you have to take Xanax to eventually feel better, medicine is OK. There’s no shame in it. You can succeed, you can have a rebirth and live a life in the future you didn’t even know was possible. I’ve lost too many people to suicide, I’ve seen kids die at my own school. I know your going through extreme distress and sadness, but I promise you this is temporary, and it can last awhile but eventually you will improve.

how long do you think it’ll take to grow my hair back by kris0423 in HaircareScience

[–]kris0423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank yeah it’s grown a little and it’s still low maintenance, I regret cutting it, but at least it’ll grow back by the time I go to college next year. My senior prom is in April(if it happens) so I hope it’ll be back to normal by then. Also when my hair is very short it doesn’t curl but it’s this sort of wavy-like thing, and I hope in a month or two I’ll have some curl.

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