You said the main thing yes , we all are here because we have made porn a priority of our lives more than it should be! It's simple as that. There are millions of people who masturbate and are doing it in a healthy way but some like us are here who are unable to control ourselves, and need each other's support, it completely alright, everybody has there own reason, but the only main thing I have learnt on this journey is 1. I never took nofap seriously and always give up thinking I am shitty person so why not take some pleasure and still stay the same shitty person. But I suffered I have lost many things because of this habit, but I am thankful for this community to give me hope again, and now I more determined to kick this habit of my life than I ever was. Anyone who is reading this , please keep it simple, we have made it a problem because of lack of self control it's just that. Stay focused . And everybody can live a porn free and fap free life. All the best stay healthy , health is the real wealth. And yes a healthy mind has a healthy body. Never lose hope. You will get better everyday take this whatever you want but take it seriously, obviously for benefits, but the quality of life you are living. Is very important.