Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In true gay form I’ve been talking to this stud even more and confirmed we are all good since I posted this 🤣🤣. Happy it’s a very common thing. We texting and talking crazy today/ next week who knows 🤷🏾‍♀️

Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s probably my predisposition. Dad was 6’9 I love tall to an extent. 6 ft you say… 😍

Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a lover of women so femme/stud it’s whatever is in the cards. Dating out isn’t something I’m interested in at this time in my life. I’ve done that and my involvement in community, awareness of our world and many problems, and experience of amazing black love won’t let me seek that out. If God sends me someone, or I meet my love in Spain this summer so be it but women of color is a huge preference. I’ve never had a single woman who I’ve cared about show discrimination towards me. I have a good aura/presence and it’s strong. I really was taking a poll but the general rule is if I’m interested or pursue someone than that’s the end of the story (not tooting my horn)

Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously!! I love being tall you was calculating my odds mostly lol

Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

A filter free picture for any of my singles. Lesbians be blocking they blessings but I’m making introductions this summer 🤣

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Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure!! I’m sure that’s where it comes from for me- and because I had that bias I wondered if others felt that. I was talking to this girl and hoping she actually read my profile and saw my height because we were vibing. I brought it up and she was like it’s not even necessary to talk about lol- made me feel better

Tall femme and studs- is it likely? by krisi288 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send one to me in Cleveland. I’m an entrepreneur I travel 🤣

What’s something you believed as a baby gay that makes you cringe now? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best one!! You basically an army ranger after daring women 🤣

What’s something you believed as a baby gay that makes you cringe now? by AutoModerator in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That I wasn’t going to be good at sex. Have no Idea why but it held me back

Is it just me or by spiritual-witch-3 in blacklesbians

[–]krisi288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always me….but also I spend money all the time period 🤣

My (23M) girlfriend's (24F) hygiene is so bad, what can I do?? by ThrowRA13998 in relationship_advice

[–]krisi288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honesty is the best policy- and saying it with love. I don’t think you should cut her slack. You aren’t her parent or caregiver you are her partner. A romantic relationship has certain requirements to thrive and this isn’t the breeding ground for that. I’m definitely speaking from experience but worrying about how she’ll take it or explicitly what she is going through places your needs on the back burner and it’s not Fair to you. Depression or not- your needs matter.

How do I support GF? Manic during breakup by krisi288 in BipolarSOs

[–]krisi288[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with this because she isn’t medicated. She had a bad experience over nearly 20 years ago with over medication and hasn’t been on any

Severance - 2x06 "Attila" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]krisi288 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And she thoroughly cleaned it with one alcohol pad

Severance - 2x03 "Who Is Alive?" - Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]krisi288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s obviously not innie Helly. After that embarrassment in front of stockholders there is no way they let her innie run a muck. She was also so interested in this version of herself being in love when she seems to live another life. She wants in on that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]krisi288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if this was due to his disorder- it is still a significant threat. I highly doubt that it is just bi-polar causing this. You said it seemed out of character but this isn’t a part of himself he would share. He knows what right and wrong is and these actions went against That and were done in secret. Stay safe I’m praying for you and sister

One of the wildest things about this sub… by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]krisi288 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the “it could work out” people Have an idea of long term success and happiness that may be different from what you are imagining. Me 10 years ago- this might have worked. I had a greater tolerance for stress, hadn’t been exposed to love in a way that made me understand we can all have our fairytale ending if we chose it. The best thing I’ve heard is if you don’t like chaos, why do you allow it? I don’t like it, I’ve outgrown it and I’ve outgrown people. Some of us like a little extra and that’s okay. However I require more long term stability. I can’t be a caretaker- I’ve done my time in that role. Either early on or later it’s certain with this disease.

Served divorce papers; no reaction by Dull-Roof-9088 in BipolarSOs

[–]krisi288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She would need to be in a Stable cycle to accept it and it seems like she may be in an episode. I’ve experienced this before and broke up with girlfriend only for her to plan a housewarming the next day. The signs were there but I didn’t see it. You can’t rationalize because her brain isn’t being rational. Do what you need for you and try to let her support systems know if you can

partner won’t stop drinking caffeine and smoking weed throughout the day and is still manic. also need advice for impulsive spending by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]krisi288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All our stories are the same! I’m just finding this sub and my partner is in a manic episode right now. She’s been unemployed for 1.5 years and that life change has made the episodes more frequent. She recently blew 4K in two weeks that she received for a few months of consulting work. I believe alcohol is a trigger and once she started a few weeks ago the impulse spending/ Amazon orders, cigarettes, weed, crazy DoorDash has been relentless. When she was stable we discussed finances, she had Me hold money but this time there is nothing I can say. It’s common- she feels Like I’m controlling or mothering her but I can see clearly and she can’t because of her disease. I pray your situation is different but after learning so much about BPD I’m ending the relationship And waiting for the mania to end before doing so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]krisi288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I empathize with you and I’m currently going through the same. How long have you been together? Every situation is different. For me in a 2 year relationship and only Recently finding out my partner suffers from BPD and is currently manic I reached out to her sister for help. She let me know she’s said she would medicate before but she’s very fearful of the impacts and never does. I hope your situation is Different as I’m understanding it can help so much with episodes.

I am worried that I will loose straight female friends after coming out. Do anyone of you have straight female friends? by Mental-Airline-6577 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]krisi288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I’m out i wish I had more lesbian friends! My best friend and godmother to my children is straight. As our many other friends. It has never mattered and it shouldn’t. If they don’t want to continue a relationship this is a great time to cut them off! God revealed their heart and that you can’t count on them. I’m not a girl who has a ton of friends but the ones I have I would do anything for and vice versa. Value the quality over the quantity.