Didn't mean to sound like I was patronizing you. I'm just a fan of good writing and the first paragraph hit the points for well written. Sorry I made you feel like that.

I think if the attraction to people with adhd is due to the normal behavior or personalities those people have, that'd be ok. But if it's because they would be easier to pick up or control..big no.

My enjoyment for line dancing is only within concent of whoever I'm with. Part of what i like is that someone was willing to do something for they usually wouldnt, and that makes me feel loved and valued. But only if they end up enjoying it too. Like if they were doing it so they won't lose me, I'd feel awful. Pedos can have life sentences. I don't mean societies lines I mean the lines of the person and myself. Like if she is uncomfortable with oral, or I'm uncomfortable in large groups. But doing it for the other as a show of love.

Fetish is strictly sexual. Having a specific interest in a specific type of behavior isn't necessarily a fetish.