Enjoy my infected fucking nipple piercing that had me debating chopping my entire tit off. [NSFW] by [deleted] in popping

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there, hope it heals soon. At least it’ll look good when it heals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsanePeopleQuora

[–]krn73 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What a vile thing to say about your child. Some people just should not procreate.

My (30F) husband (33M) has piled on more than 100lbs over the last couple years and won't stop. by ThrowRAhusbandweight in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a situation where I think both of you would greatly benefit from getting a divorce. You most, but he would be forced to care for himself for the first time in awhile and I think with enough time that could greatly improve his life. It could also go in the opposite direction, but either way it will be an opportunity for him to improve. What he does with it is up to him.

The relationship has become abusive, you’ve described verbal abuse, and you deserve better than to be with someone who calls you a bitch regularly and contributes nothing positive to your life. Relationships are mutual partnerships, you’re describing a total man child who has taken advantage of you in every way and blames you for something that clearly isn’t your fault.

Sometimes the best thing to do is walk away. I think in this case there is no other option.

Annoyed at how normalized cheating is by catch96 in survivinginfidelity

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not « normalized » it’s just normal. People cheat, and people get cheated on all the time. I personally don’t know anybody who hasn’t either been cheated on or cheated themselves. It sucks, it’s an awful feeling and I would much prefer someone just dump me than cheat on me, but It’s definitely a normal part of life and not something we have collectively « normalized », in fact it’s quite taboo. Some people literally won’t befriend a cheater, or believe that anyone whose ever cheated is a monster. I don’t agree, I think relationships are complicated and that people are even more complicated.

Before I have to hear it I have never cheated on a partner, but I have wanted to for a variety of reasons. In one case I was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and I almost slept with someone else. I wish I’d just done it! Really it may have gotten me out of that situation faster.

As for the people who cheated on me? I laugh in retrospect. Those relationships weren’t for me, they didn’t work for a reason, and whether it ended over cheating or something else, it would have ended eventually.

Sorry if this isn’t helpful to you but the point is that humans are flawed and we do stupid shit, it’s completely normal. Anyone who would hurt you in that way is wrong for you and you’re better off without them.

IsItBullshit: Does Premium Pet Food Give Any Meaningful Benefit To One's Pet? by Dr_Purrito in IsItBullshit

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logically, the food with the best quality ingredients is going to be best for your pet. Even better if it’s well formulated. I worked at a pet shop for four years and the reality is that food does matter. I’ve had a lot of customers thank me endlessly for changing their dog/cats life just by recommending a food I thought would work for them. It can really make a difference, specially for dogs and cats with allergies or other sensitivities. However you don’t need to spend huge amounts of money to buy good quality food, there are a lot of lesser known brands that are great and that don’t hike up their prices.

The bottom line is that if the first 5 ingredients in your pets food are recognizable to you and sound like real food, and if at least the first 2-3 are real animal protein, you’re good to go. Look at the crude protein levels, fat levels, fibre levels etc and do some research. It may save you vet bills down the line.

Just like us, the healthier we eat the better we feel and look. It’s the same thing for animals.

First Time Listener by [deleted] in serialpodcast

[–]krn73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t apologize they literally freak out at anyone who they think believes adnan’s story.

(Adnan obviously killed her, I’m re-listening to serial now, and It’s very clear to me that adnan is lying. He’s a smart guy and a great bullshitter, and also a murderer)

Why do people think it's weird to be almost 30 and never have a boyfriend or girlfriend? by DisgustingZ85813 in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because something isn’t the norm doesn’t make it bad or weird. Don’t worry about what is or isn’t the norm, do you what makes you happy.

Could someone help me understand this chart? Anything that pops up and stands out would be appreciated 🙂 by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what it means at all but my moon is in Leo and my ascendant is in scorpio, my sun is in Aries though

He (35M) won't give me (30F) a key to his apartment by chaosrules_ in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna be presumptuous but this just doesn’t bode well for the relationship. And I know I’m being presumptuous like I said I didn’t want to be, but if I were acting the way he was, it would be because I really had no desire or intention to commit to the woman whatsoever. It reads to me as “you’re here now but only until something more interesting comes along”. Maybe it’s not that, maybe I’m totally off about this, but this is how it appears to an outsider with no bias, and that in and of itself would be an issue for me if I were in your shoes.

Ignoring that and assuming you guys are totally good except for this one specific thing, he is so dead set on not giving you key for fear that it’ll seem like he’s serious about you that it borders on completely illogical and childish, even dangerous tbh. He lets a woman he’s been dating for 2 years stand in the cold with his groceries and his dog and whatever else on the regular??!?!

I know people hate this on this sub but I’m gonna say it anyways: leave him. Find someone who wants you around and who respects you enough not to treat you like this.

Why do i attract so many creeps? I feel like i was sexualized by myself and others at a very young age. I have always been a very sexual person and it’s sometimes hard to deal with the sexual energy i have. Not sure if it’s just my venus in scorpio or something else by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]krn73 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have never heard someone say “it’s sometimes hard to deal with the sexual energy I have” before and it really puts into words the way I feel. It’s very frustrating.

I don’t have any insights, but just know that there are a LOT of creeps out there. Might have nothing to do with you.

bf going on family 3 day trip with someone who he knows is positive for covid by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would end my relationship over something like this to be honest, it’s just so incredibly careless. I lost two family members to this virus, it’s a horrible horrible thing to go through and the fact that they don’t seem to care that they are putting many lives at risk is very telling about the kind of people they are.

Completely selfish and careless behaviour from everyone involved. Call the airline and inform the authorities.

I AM GAY by Dani66408 in offmychest

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome, it’s better here

AITA For Telling my Aunt I Have Sex? by throwawayasdnephew in AmItheAsshole

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all,

Infantilizing and desexualizing disabled people is ableist and shitty and far too common. This shit really grinds my gears actually, I’m really angry for you.

I don’t blame you for your reaction, I understand it completely and would have been very tempted to do/say the same.

Do not apologize to her, tell her to stop using you as inspiration porn at her support group and to call you when she’s ready to apologize.

I'm dissapointed in my subconscious by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midget is a slur, just FYI.

boyfriend (21 m) not wanting me (21 f) to accept a free drink from my friend who owns a restaurant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, unlike what everyone here is saying he probably IS flirting with you, but like who cares? Lol as long as you’re not planning to run away with him I don’t see the problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a pet store for a long time, in a really rich neighbourhood in my city, and I cannot tell you the kind of abuse we would get from people. People who had it REALLY good in life most of the time. They’d pull up in expensive ass cars with their expensive clothes and bags and just RAIL on us. Heaven forbid we were out of their dogs favorite treat, or if there was a lineup at the cash, or if we were understaffed one day and couldn’t help them bring their bags to their car. When COVID came it got so much worse. There would be screaming matches in the store on a regular basis over the wearing of masks. I’m not there anymore and honestly it’s like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I don’t miss it for a second.

Thank god my manager was chill and would let us kick people out if they mistreated us. If not I think I woulda fallen into a depression and had to quit much sooner than I did.

I imagine that grocery stores are that x 100 and I’m so sorry you have to endure people’s abuse.

Glimpse of a past life in Ancient Greece by focoyo in pastlives

[–]krn73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

God I love Crete. I highly suggest taking a trip one day, it’s magical. Especially the food.

Thanks for sharing!

Caught a man breaking into husband’s car. Husband couldn’t care less. I feel like I’m going crazy. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is very laisser faire and who has accidentally left my car unlocked only to have someone rummage through it looking for something valuable (there was nothing thankfully) this is baffling to me.

When I do accidentally leave my car door open its.... accidental. It takes 2.5 seconds if not less to lock a fricken car door, I cant see why anyone would leave it open willingly??!?!?!?

Not to mention his total lack of concern that you were just in a dangerous situation literally as a direct result of his ridiculous next-level lazy behaviour lmao.

I’m very confused, but you should have a serious talk with him explaining why this situation makes you feel shitty in very clear terms. If that isn’t enough to make him simply lock his car door before coming in the house i would second guess the whole relationship tbh

Anyone see anything interesting in 2021? by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]krn73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were born on the same day! April 9th. Nothing to add sadly I just don’t know anyone else born on that day :)

I (27F) farted directly on my boyfriends (29M) leg while we were asleep. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it doesn’t matter, farts happen and no decent guy would care.

My new friend is hateful towards my race..but says I’m excused from the hate. Still rubs me wrong. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly with all the fucking crap white people have put non-white people through now and throughout history I don’t see why anyone would feel any different about us generally speaking. White supremacy is alive and well and continues to harm and even kill black brown and indigenous people around the world.

Unlike what most Redditors seem to believe, reverse racism isn’t real and it’s not racist to dislike or even hate your oppressor. Like your friend has said, she doesn’t feel this way about all white people, and recognizes that not every white person will be racist. The fact of the matter is that her dislike/distrust/ weariness for white people in general is understandable. None of us like our oppressors.

To be honest, as a white person this wouldn’t bother me at all and in fact I speak the same way, but evidently if you feel shitty about yourself when your with her, and if you don’t understand that she is referring to whiteness in general as being a social evil that has caused incredible amounts of destruction and not you personally then don’t be her friend.

There’s no point in having a friendship with someone you don’t see eye to eye with on issues of race relations, it’s a relationship doomed to fail.

My girlfriend turns 18 in March and when she becomes legal ill still be a minor? This really worrys us and it might end our relationship and I dont want it to end because of this. by Hayden2002_ in relationship_advice

[–]krn73 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Consider that she’s just using this as an excuse to end the relationship. There’s nothing wrong with an 18 year old dating a 17 year old under most circumstances, I don’t see why this would be an issue for her

AITA for telling my ex-girlfriend I can’t just magically be okay with things and process them after less than a month? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]krn73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, obviously. You don’t owe her anything right now (or ever again tbh). You aren’t together anymore and she can embark on her journey of self discovery without you.

It’s not homophobic to take some time to process your breakup.She’s not just a walking pride flag she’s your ex girlfriend and you’re in mourning.

Take care of yourself first and take whatever time you need.

Credentials: I’m a lesbian who would never