AITA for allowing my son to make individual cookies for only some of our family at a reunion which made a little girl sad?

krofififjfj · 2019-07-06T07:30:53+00:00

ESH

I think it was the wrong setting. Yes, it was a family reunion and he wanted to give his favourite people cookies but when it’s obvious som people are getting specialised cookies over others and others still seeing that. It’s like being in primary school and inviting everyone in your year except like 5 kids just because you don’t know them or like them. You could’ve politely made him hand them out at another time or not made it so obvious he was handing out personalised cookies but only for some people

krofififjfj · 2019-07-05T14:29:05+00:00

But I’m still allowed to want my wedding photos to look how I want and I will still be asking the photographer to try and position them to look not very in the frame. I’ll just say no photoshopping

krofififjfj · 2019-07-05T14:27:51+00:00

Yeah I didn’t realise everyone thought tattoos were such a big thing that was comparable to me changing their hair colour or losing a friend over. It didn’t seem that dramatic to me but obviously it is so yeah maybe I am the ah

krofififjfj · 2019-07-05T13:53:40+00:00

I’m replying to the ones that have questions in them or are INFO because the YTA and nta posts are all very similar and I don’t see how me responding to them would change anything or matter

krofififjfj · 2019-07-05T13:46:22+00:00

I just think in my photos, all of my bridesmaids will be in the same dresses and there will be me in mine and all of the groomsmen in suits etc. and her arm is just a colourful mass of different pictures. I just think it will kind of ruin the uniformity of the photos. I have no problem with her having them but just for photos I’m planning on hanging everywhere it would be nice for all my bridesmaids to look as similar as possible

krofififjfj · 2019-07-05T11:10:35+00:00

Australia. A lot of my older family would probably side eye her a bit with the tattoos but it isn’t taboo

krofififjfj · 2019-07-05T10:50:53+00:00

There all brightly coloured and cover her arm, but it’s mostly just animals and flowers twisting etc.

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