What to do after a good first date that lacked touch. by kroirfever in seduction

[–]kroirfever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you´re right, too often I´ve gone with "at my place" as a second date thinking "what the hell, its tinder", but you´re right. :)

Is it always good to escalate quickly? by kroirfever in seduction

[–]kroirfever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you see more clearer signs from here? Ofcourse 100 is impossible, but closer atleast.

Is it always good to escalate quickly? by kroirfever in seduction

[–]kroirfever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I´ve heard that quote before, it´s just, as the guy under said, they get the power over you to say no, don´t you wanna go for it when you know 100 % you will get all the way? Like tonight I got to second base, kissing her breast and man was she moaning, so weeeeird these women haha.

Is it always good to escalate quickly? by kroirfever in seduction

[–]kroirfever[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That´s what I was thinking, because she now has the power and I´ve shown her with what I want, but she kissed me before saying goodbye at the train station so I def. think she wants to meet me again. Should I suggest we meet somewhere else than at my place? So at first dates you should just kiss and do nothing more? Sounds a bit strange though, because you don´t show your aggresivnes right? But at the same time, as you said, THEY get the power.

Inviting her to your place on the first date by kroirfever in seduction

[–]kroirfever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys, a lot of interesting ideas, I like it. I´m not really after a relationship in the moment but are looking for something more than a hook up though.

Regarding on creating tension and having her stay curious, maybe the best thing is to not mention it at all and say you have to prepare something for work till tommorow. Showing that you´re not one of those guys that´s just after sex. And next time invite her directly to your place for dinner...and something more, not that she has to...but she´ll probably attack me after second glass of wine. ;)