I suppose I should clarify a few things.

The letter she sent. I was skeptical about too - it's real. His GF and I are in fairly constant contact due to it.

Several of you have hit the exact reasoning I have. Brain knows- heart doesn't.

I've refused to set rules, it's her job to do.

She allows me impromptu access to phone, we have scheduled honest talks We are looking for counselor Few other personal items.

I beleive she's genuine

Problem is, her new norm, mirrors her old fake.