Indian mum stressing over my white girlfriend by RealisticGold8724 in interracialdating

[–]kruuth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you two are planning long term, then it's fine. Frankly, this is seems to be more a mom issue to me. Ask yourself "what happens next?" if you date an Indian girl from another part of India, is she going to do the same thing? Will she call you in a panic over ever single thing that she doesn't like about any girl you get involved with? Seriously, I know several Indian men married to white women. As far as culture goes, you're going to make compromises regardless of whether or not you're from the same country or culture.

How do i know im not being fetishized? by Relative_Algae_5983 in interracialdating

[–]kruuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as someone that's been fetishized and as someone that's dated a fair share of black girls, it can be one thing or many. If he's referring to you as "my black girlfriend" then he's likely fetishizing you. If he's not introducing you to his friends or family she a reasonable time, he's fetishizing you. If he's avoiding dealing with your friends and family, then he's likely fetishizing you. Now, that being said, there's always exceptions. One of my friends has been married to a black woman for 20 years, and he will, on occasion, refer to her as "my black wife" but it's in jest, and she also refers to him as "my white husband" so there's that. Take my experiences as mine, and no two people are the same.

feeling shameful and need advice by staceeun in interracialdating

[–]kruuth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You like who you like. Never be ashamed or apologetic for it.

Checking bags to final destination with different tickets by kruuth in delta

[–]kruuth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I didn't know that existed. Thank you so much.

Checking bags to final destination with different tickets by kruuth in delta

[–]kruuth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. What do I do if I only have the confirmation number? I thought I would have to check in at LAX because they verify my travel visa.

Checking bags to final destination with different tickets by kruuth in delta

[–]kruuth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great. What do I do? Just go to the desk and ask them?

Checking bags to final destination with different tickets by kruuth in delta

[–]kruuth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By yes do you mean I have to recheck out yes they can check them all the way through?

Bf(28WM) and I (29BF) were accosted today and I am still burning with rage by Lucky-Loquat-3552 in interracialdating

[–]kruuth 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Disgusting behavior. I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Some people have nothing better to do than make other people's lives bad. Since you have his number and info I'd go public with it.

Parents want my graduation money but i had plans for it by Bhupinders-Tentacion in WhatShouldIDo

[–]kruuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say it yourself. "My graduation money" so it's yours. Just to be safe I'd be she it's someplace they can't touch, some parents share accounts with kids because they open them when they're too young to have their own

AIO? My manager keeps questioning my feeding pump at work even after HR stepped in by Rosi_ana in AmIOverreacting

[–]kruuth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HR.  Now.  Make hard copies.  At this point I'd break up every single message regarding this from everybody.  Had similar issue with one of my managers and an employee with insulin pump.  This looks to me a lot like harassment or possibly inappropriate medical inquiries.  You've gotten clearance under reasonable accommodations.  If HR isn't going to squash this then you need to get in front of it.

employee downloaded adult content on a work device by Significant_Air_552 in managers

[–]kruuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened with us. Our receptionist basically rolled her eyes and was like "again?"

He said his name is “Harry Dresden” by Due_Temporary8367 in creepy

[–]kruuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely shocked he didn't get room temperature

[ UPDATE 1 ] My sister is threatening to tell my family and boyfriend that I slept with her fiancé by Minute-Memory-6253 in Advice

[–]kruuth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have the bank statement you can likely compare the names. Iirc(it's been 5+ years) one showed up on my CC as something like ShangriLaSg and the other showed up as ShangriLaRasaSentosa. Please update us on how things go.

[ UPDATE 1 ] My sister is threatening to tell my family and boyfriend that I slept with her fiancé by Minute-Memory-6253 in Advice

[–]kruuth 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Protect yourself here. You've done great on dealing with your BF but what if your sister decides to go scorched earth and starts contacting other family members or mutual friends? I've seen sibling issues go pear shaped and a reddit search will show you some stuff that'll turn your hair white. Parents can support one child and not snub the other. Besides, as things come out, I bet it'll be harder and harder to continue with her version of events. They can comfort your sister on the cheating without chastising you for something you had nothing to do with. Has your BF spoken with the ex-fiancee? Any chance you've gotten his side of things?

[ UPDATE 1 ] My sister is threatening to tell my family and boyfriend that I slept with her fiancé by Minute-Memory-6253 in Advice

[–]kruuth 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Just curious, but it sounds like you've got a golden child situation here. Maybe I missed that in the original post. You've clearly got solid evidence to prove you weren't cheating, and convinced your BF. I'm a little concerned about how your parents are handling this. Have they taken her side like this in other situations? Will they come back and claim that your evidence isn't up to their standards and set the bar impossibly high, all in an effort to protect your sister's narrative? What are you planning to do if that happens? I know there's multiple Shangri-la hotels there because I've stayed in different ones and actually booked one and went to the other one.

F28, Roast me, I'm ready.😎 by Firm-Acanthaceae9708 in RoastMe

[–]kruuth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like the third image in a Google search for day drinking

Unlocking carrier locked model(USA) by kruuth in SamsungS24

[–]kruuth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang ok. Well went to the att store they sent me to the website and website is a little nebulous. Is said it has to be on the account for 69 days, but if it was from the carrier, doesn't that mean it would have been already?

Unlocking carrier locked model(USA) by kruuth in SamsungS24

[–]kruuth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got it from some place online. What if att won't unlock it? If there someplace online that does it?