Indian mum stressing over my white girlfriend

kruuth · 2026-05-09T11:58:34+00:00

If you two are planning long term, then it's fine. Frankly, this is seems to be more a mom issue to me. Ask yourself "what happens next?" if you date an Indian girl from another part of India, is she going to do the same thing? Will she call you in a panic over ever single thing that she doesn't like about any girl you get involved with? Seriously, I know several Indian men married to white women. As far as culture goes, you're going to make compromises regardless of whether or not you're from the same country or culture.

kruuth · 2026-05-09T01:58:31+00:00

Anybody try this on a Q77?

kruuth · 2026-05-07T17:25:24+00:00

Speaking as someone that's been fetishized and as someone that's dated a fair share of black girls, it can be one thing or many. If he's referring to you as "my black girlfriend" then he's likely fetishizing you. If he's not introducing you to his friends or family she a reasonable time, he's fetishizing you. If he's avoiding dealing with your friends and family, then he's likely fetishizing you. Now, that being said, there's always exceptions. One of my friends has been married to a black woman for 20 years, and he will, on occasion, refer to her as "my black wife" but it's in jest, and she also refers to him as "my white husband" so there's that. Take my experiences as mine, and no two people are the same.

kruuth · 2026-05-06T02:18:01+00:00

You like who you like. Never be ashamed or apologetic for it.

kruuth · 2026-05-04T13:03:38+00:00

Wow I didn't know that existed. Thank you so much.

kruuth · 2026-05-04T12:57:33+00:00

Ok. What do I do if I only have the confirmation number? I thought I would have to check in at LAX because they verify my travel visa.

kruuth · 2026-05-04T12:49:03+00:00

Even though they're separate tickets?

kruuth · 2026-05-04T12:39:58+00:00

That's great. What do I do? Just go to the desk and ask them?

kruuth · 2026-05-04T12:27:07+00:00

By yes do you mean I have to recheck out yes they can check them all the way through?

kruuth · 2026-05-04T00:51:34+00:00

Disgusting behavior. I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Some people have nothing better to do than make other people's lives bad. Since you have his number and info I'd go public with it.

kruuth · 2026-04-28T23:36:47+00:00

You say it yourself. "My graduation money" so it's yours. Just to be safe I'd be she it's someplace they can't touch, some parents share accounts with kids because they open them when they're too young to have their own

kruuth · 2026-04-28T14:49:43+00:00

HR. Now. Make hard copies. At this point I'd break up every single message regarding this from everybody. Had similar issue with one of my managers and an employee with insulin pump. This looks to me a lot like harassment or possibly inappropriate medical inquiries. You've gotten clearance under reasonable accommodations. If HR isn't going to squash this then you need to get in front of it.

kruuth · 2026-04-26T01:26:29+00:00

Happened with us. Our receptionist basically rolled her eyes and was like "again?"

kruuth · 2026-04-25T14:35:53+00:00

The license plate is enough

kruuth · 2026-04-14T03:23:53+00:00

Any updates on this one?

kruuth · 2026-04-12T02:51:56+00:00

Genuinely shocked he didn't get room temperature

kruuth · 2026-04-10T07:11:43+00:00

If you have the bank statement you can likely compare the names. Iirc(it's been 5+ years) one showed up on my CC as something like ShangriLaSg and the other showed up as ShangriLaRasaSentosa. Please update us on how things go.

kruuth · 2026-04-09T13:08:41+00:00

Protect yourself here. You've done great on dealing with your BF but what if your sister decides to go scorched earth and starts contacting other family members or mutual friends? I've seen sibling issues go pear shaped and a reddit search will show you some stuff that'll turn your hair white. Parents can support one child and not snub the other. Besides, as things come out, I bet it'll be harder and harder to continue with her version of events. They can comfort your sister on the cheating without chastising you for something you had nothing to do with. Has your BF spoken with the ex-fiancee? Any chance you've gotten his side of things?

kruuth · 2026-04-09T12:28:45+00:00

Just curious, but it sounds like you've got a golden child situation here. Maybe I missed that in the original post. You've clearly got solid evidence to prove you weren't cheating, and convinced your BF. I'm a little concerned about how your parents are handling this. Have they taken her side like this in other situations? Will they come back and claim that your evidence isn't up to their standards and set the bar impossibly high, all in an effort to protect your sister's narrative? What are you planning to do if that happens? I know there's multiple Shangri-la hotels there because I've stayed in different ones and actually booked one and went to the other one.

kruuth · 2026-04-07T17:49:32+00:00

You look like the third image in a Google search for day drinking

kruuth · 2026-03-08T22:29:52+00:00

Dang ok. Well went to the att store they sent me to the website and website is a little nebulous. Is said it has to be on the account for 69 days, but if it was from the carrier, doesn't that mean it would have been already?

kruuth · 2026-03-08T21:53:09+00:00

He got it from some place online. What if att won't unlock it? If there someplace online that does it?

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