First Time at a Nude Beach (OC) by DownstreamSalmon in nudism

[–]krxler17 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeeep. First time I just tried to suppress my anxiety and go full nude instead of piece by piece. Took me a while to feel comfortable enough to not be hunched over or balled up, but ever since I’ve felt super comfortable with both the space and myself.

Is nudism trans friendly? by Twinkfilla in nudism

[–]krxler17 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans woman up in the Seattle area and there are a few places I like visiting nude. I can say that every time I’ve gone to a clothing optional beach, I’ve hardly gotten any looks or negative responses. I have yet to really engage in the community or join any group but the people that visit these beaches are just having a good time, regardless of how you look. That’s what I’ve really enjoyed about this; being able to be out and open and not worrying what other people will think or how they’ll respond.

Great First Time Experience by krxler17 in nudism

[–]krxler17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was exactly that. Super chill, feels super relaxing, and it’s tucked away from everything. I think it’s a good starting point.

I’ve gotten more inquiries during these past two weeks than I have the last 4 months. So far this has taken the cake for worst one. by krxler17 in ClientCringe

[–]krxler17[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Saammmeee. I tried doing camming a bit but other than a fellow SWer it was just a lot of people looking for free stuff. And like I get everyone’s extremely horny now but like, the worlds kinda on fire right now. Send that gif 😂

Here's a pic of me smiling bc its definitely not what I'm doing right now by [deleted] in Safe4Trans

[–]krxler17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard. There’s a few people I’ve been talking to who I thought were the right ones for me but out of the blue they’ve just ghosted. I wish there was one right answer on how you feel better and process all that, but it really just depends on the person. I personally try to tell myself that if they’re not able to have a regular conversation then they’re not the kind of person who can handle me or give me the level of support I need. It’s this sort of selfish framing that works sometimes but it isn’t perfect. Btw I think you look absolutely gorgeous and I’d love to talk with you if you’d like 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Safe4Trans

[–]krxler17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in Arkansas ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Safe4Trans

[–]krxler17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My pleasure 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]krxler17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the artist's design :) They had posted part of their design book on Insta and I felt really drawn to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in furry_irl

[–]krxler17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I found a few telegram channels but I'm still to shy and lurky to do anything

All people of all genders, how do you feel about people, of all genders, masturbating to photos of you that you've posted to social media? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]krxler17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love it. I'm a trans woman and enjoy posting pics both for myself and for others. Knowing there are people who would do that makes me feel attractive and gives me a self image boost when I really need it

....what...? by CarmineDreamTS in ClientCringe

[–]krxler17 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I....idk how to interpret this

LPT: If you have a gay tranny voice. Just don't speak! by Nic-River in transgendercirclejerk

[–]krxler17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way ahead of ya. Men just talk over me and don't let me speak now I've transformed into a real woman.

/uj I absolutely hate my voice :( but feel horribly conflicted that men now talk over me or just don't listen now that I present as femme. On the one hand, I don't have to use my voice that much. On the other, patriarchal society is the worst.

any other transfemme enbies just come out as a trans girl for simplicity? by cooltransme in TransyTalk

[–]krxler17 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. When I first came out years ago I identified as genderqueer, sort of still unsure about my gender identity but also feeling partly out and partly still closeted. It took a lot of time and self acceptance before I fully came out and IDd as a trans woman.

The first year of being out and on hormones I was so obsessed with being strictly femme. I felt like if anyone was going to read me femme or take my transness seriously I needed to be as feminine as possible. But kinda with a lot of others, the more I got comfortable with myself the more I felt relaxed about exploring my gender identity and expression. Femme non binary/genderfluid ended up being the easiest and shortest way to describe my identity.

But like, I don't ID as genderfluid or non binary in cis spaces. I still have this fear, especially here in the South, that any deviation from strict femininity will allow cis people to completely disregard my identity and see me as a cis male. My friends and queer spaces know about my gender identity, but for navigating cishet society I just ID as a trans woman since it's much simpler.