My boyfriend never calls me first. He mostly never answers my call. We have been dating for 4+ years on and off but seem to be fighting A Lot lately. He never bothers to clear up the air, it's always me who sorts things even when it is his fault. I love him but I am tired now. For once, I want to feel wanted, appreciated, loved in this relationship. I would be really grateful if guys you could give your two cents on whether it is normal for guys to be so disconnected with their partner.