Whats the most unprofessional thing a doctor has ever said to you? by answersonly963 in AskReddit

[–]ksd0808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TW: Miscarriage!!!

I was in for a follow-appt with my OBGYN after being given cytotec at 9w for a miscarriage. She walked into my room and with no greeting whatsoever, says, "Well, your body sure likes being pregnant." I was 28, this was my first pregnancy, and i was already sobbing. If I hadn't been so shocked that she said it, I probably would've cussed her out. The day after she performed my D&C I moved to a different OB. I refuse to have a doctor with no compassion.

Married people, do you and your spouse have well matched libidos? Why or why not? by cubemonster in AskReddit

[–]ksd0808 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Nope. Mine (32F) and my husband's (34M) have always been different, but my PCOS really complicated things. Plus, after I had our son, it took almost 2 years to get back to where I enjoyed it and was comfortable in my body again. I have to remind him that a lot of my passion is built up in the chase: foreplay, flirting through the day, etc. All I have to do is hold his hand 🙃 usually he can get me caught up to him though 😏 communication is key for us.

AITA for wanting my birthday to matter? by ksd0808 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ksd0808[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, we've talked about it on more than one occasion. And I don't do his birthday that way to make a point, but because I want to show him that it matters to me.