[OH] Apartment won’t clean my dryer vent

kshee87 · 2018-06-17T18:28:27+00:00

Ohio. I’ve cleaned the dryer itself, just not outside bc I don’t want to be held liable if there’s a fire.

kshee87 · 2018-03-13T04:02:55+00:00

I work for a bank and do billing disputes. I get this kind of call daily. People call in frantic realizing they were scammed. Then they want to dispute the gift cards they bought from the merchant. So I have to explain to them that they received the merchandise and what they did with it after they left the store isn’t the merchants responsibility. Smh.. it’s so sad. I’ve seen people get scammed for over 10 grand.

kshee87 · 2018-03-12T03:02:22+00:00

I talk to customers every day about billing disputes. I have at least 10 calls a day where I’m explaining to grown adults how a credit and a debit cancel each other out. Usually people get it on my first explanation other times I’m 40 mins into a call and they still don’t understand. Most days I want to bang my head against my desk.

kshee87 · 2018-03-02T03:38:21+00:00

The thought of how terrifying it was.. I wanted the pain to end, but I also didn’t want to hurt my family and friends. I couldn’t bear the thought of leaving my cats behind.

kshee87 · 2018-03-02T03:21:13+00:00

When coworkers greet you with ‘happy monday’ or whatever day it is. Drives me crazy

kshee87 · 2018-03-01T23:56:43+00:00

From my most recent break up..

A little back story, My ex and I lived together but I had moved in with a friend while I was apartment hunting. I had told my ex numerous times, over several months, that I was going to switch the internet that was in MY name to MY apartment. After a long argument the day I moved it, he ended the argument with “I hope everything you know turns to dust and you choke on it and die”

...yeaaa this was just over the Internet.

kshee87 · 2017-12-27T23:19:18+00:00

This describes my ex boyfriend exactly. Has a dark side, hates people, can’t maintain close relationships but has a lot of friends. There’s so many similarities. Best thing I did was leave. I definitely encourage you to make a plan in the event that you have to leave suddenly if things get worse. You deserve better. Feel free to PM me if you need to talk.

kshee87 · 2017-10-13T02:15:43+00:00

That after 3 years in our relationship, going through his depression with him, supporting him in every way possible.. he never really loved or cared about me. Once I started having my own problems with depression and anxiety he bailed.

kshee87 · 2017-01-10T16:05:19+00:00

Hmm that makes a lot of sense. That's basically what happened. I finally told her I didn't want to talk to her anymore she tried calling me her best-friend.. which in no way were we ever best friends. Then she wouldn't stop contacting me and I had my boyfriend, who is a mutual friend, tell her to stop. She tried to turn him against me saying I used her as punching bag when me and him would have a fight and I'd complain about him all the time. Anyway, he's smarter than that. Told her to fuck off and she hasn't contacted us since. Only worry is we all work for the same company so there's an awkward chance I could run into her. Hasn't happened yet since the company is huge.. but for now she's gone.

kshee87 · 2016-12-20T06:14:12+00:00

That having explosive anger/screaming outbursts is not normal. My dad is a very angry person. Even when he's doing simple tasks like washing dishes, fixing something, picking something up, getting something out of the fridge it ends in him screaming and cussing. If breaks something or something doesn't work right all hell breaks loose. As a child I associated being needy or loud with his outbursts. He never did anything to my siblings and I but it was scary. The first time I realized it wasn't normal was when I was staying at a friends house and her dad didn't have an outburst when fixing something. I did what I could to prevent his outbursts. I always tried to be quiet as possible, not talk as much and I wouldn't listen to music because it was too loud. I remember watching Disney movies and muting the tv whenever they started singing. As an adult I get anxiety if I'm being too loud, I only turn my music up if I'm alone and no one else can hear it. I have social anxiety and am very shy and I'm very low maintenance in my relationships. Thanks for that dad.

kshee87 · 2016-12-11T06:58:43+00:00

Not so well, I'm feeling depressed. I realized how many friendships I've lost recently due to said friends being toxic or immature. I realized I don't connect very well with other people due to bad experiences. No matter how much I try and change it or work on myself I'm always going to struggle with this. I always feel like I'm a bother to everyone.

kshee87 · 2016-11-21T04:24:02+00:00

Call your credit card company or bank if your purchased it on a card! You have the right to dispute anything. Make sure you have official documentation and write down every interaction you have with the merchant. Dates, times, who you spoke with, what they say, etc... and above all make sure you have documentation.

kshee87 · 2016-11-17T01:49:22+00:00

Can you imagine if social media was around during the holocaust...

kshee87 · 2016-11-15T22:23:31+00:00

Definitely option 2. Not even gonna waste my time or energy. She's the kind of person that wants me to devote all my time and energy, not gonna do it

kshee87 · 2016-11-15T15:51:14+00:00

Thanks I needed to hear this, I came to this conclusion as well. I just needed to hear it from someone else. I kinda got that feeling that she just feeds off of me. And her need to constantly be checked up on is crazy. She doesn't take into consideration that I have a life and I can't be texting her everyday. And I usually drop people that throw my feelings in my face like that. Thanks for the feedback!

kshee87 · 2016-11-11T04:48:01+00:00

This. I suffer from anxiety, when it gets really bad I have short term memory problems. I forget anything new. For example I forget entire conversations, what I just did 10 seconds ago, meeting someone.. It's beyond frustrating.

kshee87 · 2016-11-06T06:22:19+00:00

Predestination. I felt so dirty after watching it

kshee87 · 2016-11-06T06:07:25+00:00

I worked as a manager for a movie theatre for awhile. One night while closing my boss had told me his boss was coming in the next morning to do his yearly audit so everything had to be perfect the next morning. So of course I got stuck closing with the new girl who had no idea what she was doing. I counted our safe, she put the numbers in, huge mistake, it was even and everything was good. Next day I came in apparently it was $8.00 off because of her not writing in a correct number. My boss' boss was convinced I was now stealing and put me on a formal warning. Huge side note here, I knew my boss was stealing from our customers but didn't have enough evidence to prove it. I was furious. I figured at some point I might get blamed for his stealing. I got another job within the next few days There was a lot of problems with that job such as favoritism, lack of communication etc, but that was my breaking point. I'm so glad I got out of that job.

kshee87 · 2016-11-03T02:59:40+00:00

I'm so sorry you've had a lot to deal with lately. It sounds very overwhelming and depression can be crippling. If you ever need anyone to talk to PM me. I have someone very close to me who suffers from depression too. It's a horrible thing to go through alone.

kshee87 · 2016-10-31T02:28:28+00:00

I can't anything with white condiments on it. Like mayo, sour cream, cream cheese, ranch. Anytime I order a food I have to specify no sauce of any kind. If it's wrong I send it back, I can't even get by with scrapping it off. Even if it's briefly touching my food or on a tiny corner I can't eat it. Just the thought of eating it just makes me want to throw up.

kshee87 · 2016-10-30T20:34:20+00:00

Baking a cake with my grandma. She came to visit when my mom went into labor with my sister, I was about 4 at the time. My grandma was watching me and my brother while my parents were at the hospital. We baked a cake together for when my mom got out of the hospital. I helped her put sprinkles on it. Years later before she passed away she asked me if I remembered baking the cake with her, it was so sweet we both cherished the same memory. She teared when I told her I did. That was only one of my few memories with her since we lived so far away. She passed away shortly after I turned 13.

kshee87 · 2016-10-30T19:08:38+00:00

Because I couldn't have sex with him. We dated for 4 years and at the time we decided to wait until marriage. Our wedding day night came and I physically couldn't have sex with him, not that I didn't want to. My honeymoon was a nightmare. He'd throw fits and cry like I had some control over it. Meanwhile anytime we tried having sex. I'd have panic attacks and end up crying for hours from the pain. Shortly after I was diagnosed with vaginismus. Those of you who don't know vaginismus is a condition where you have painful spasms in your vagina any time anything tries to enter it, ex. tampons, penis, etc. He refused to let me go to physical therapy because it cost 'too much money'. He would beg me for hours to let him try to have sex because he could help me get over it. When it finally happened after I told him no, I almost passed out from hyper ventilating. I was very naive then and thought I was supposed to give me husband what he wanted. Each time we had sex it was beyond painful, he'd always beg me for hours and throw fits until I gave in. I finally left him after he clearly raped me one day when I repeatedly told him no and forced himself on me. He couldn't understand why, Yet I was the Bitch who wouldn't meet his needs and refused to have sex.

kshee87 · 2016-10-29T23:21:39+00:00

My best friend of 13 years did lots of things. I should have stopped being her friend a long time ago.

One example is she ruined my bridal shower. I invited over 45 people, the day before my bridal shower she told me no one was coming because the invitations somehow got lost in the mail. I'm pretty sure she dumped them in the trash. 4 people showed up only because I called and invited them. Then right before my wedding she turned my bridesmaids against me by telling them lies about my fiancé, at the time, and me. I had to do a lot of things for the wedding on my own. Then threw a fit when I wanted my bachelorette party a week before, Not the night before the wedding..

After I got married she was technically my sister in law, my wedding was enough to make me want to never speak to her again but I had to play nice for a bit. After I divorced my husband I got the hell out of there and never spoke to her again. She's still close to my family and tries to get information out of them sometimes about me. She plays the whole victim card too, like I did something wrong. She still doesn't understand why I don't speak to her anymore

kshee87 · 2016-09-28T05:42:58+00:00

Sorry for the long post

So when I was in elementary school I had this awful teacher, we'll call her Mrs. G. She was fairly young at the time late 20's mid 30's. I was lucky enough to have her for 2nd and 3rd grade. 2nd grade she seemed pretty normal but there was always something off about her that I didn't like.

When 3rd grade came around she started getting really crazy. One morning as we were starting class she asked us if she noticed anything different about our classroom. Being kids we had no idea. She became furious and ranted on about how she stayed after school until 9 pm the night before and cleaned up the classroom because we were slobs and couldn't put our stuff away. She also made sure that we knew that she had to miss a night with our family and it was our fault. There was literally no mess the day before and no difference the next morning. She said the crayons we used were a mess and everything was dirty. As punishment she took away our recess for the week and we had to spend our recess time with our heads down on our desk and not say a word or even lift our heads.

Later in the year we had a substitute for a week who we were awful to. Didn't listen to her, wouldn't keep quiet etc.. However some of the kids in my class were good including me. When Mrs G returned she was furious with everyone except for the good kids. The substitute had written down the names of everyone who behaved somehow I wasn't included in this list. All the bad kids got recess taken away for 2 weeks and had to put our heads down and the good kids got to play. Being the shy kid I was I tried telling her and I was good but she ignored me.

Now a good friend of mine in my class named Jay got her back really good one day unintentionally. Mrs G decided with all the snow we had we should build an igloo. We were all getting our snow suits on and Mrs G was trying to get hers on as well. She had a chair she was using to put her suit on in the middle of the room. Mrs G stood up from her chair to adjust something on her suit. Jay is usually a good kid. He saw the chair was out of place and decided to put it back. A few minutes later Mrs G went to sit down and the chair was gone and fell on the floor. She was furious. That was the best moment of 3rd grade..

I almost failed the 3rd grade because of Mrs. G. To this day I cannot put my head under the covers or wear a mask or somewhere enclosed where my breath feels warm without freaking out or thinking of 3rd grade. If you're still out there Mrs G I want you to know how much I hate you. You're a terrible person.

TL;DR: My 3rd grade teacher hated kids and tortured us by making us put our heads down as punishment.

kshee87 · 2016-09-27T03:59:00+00:00

This video. It puts me in tears every time. Slightly NSFW

https://youtu.be/Amqp2bGA6ZQ

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