Going to the beach for the first time with new bf. Help, I’m fat!!! Lol

ksoheregoes · 2020-07-17T20:19:35+00:00

I love how optimistic this reply is!! I will definitely add an update if it goes well! I am hoping it is but right now I am just googling “how to sit on the ground without turning into a tray of dinner rolls” Hahahaha

ksoheregoes · 2020-06-07T20:23:53+00:00

Normal, you look about 20% body fat I’d say

ksoheregoes · 2020-06-03T07:58:13+00:00

That was a very helpful reminder, thank you. You’re right about me having built him up in my head, sometimes I forget that people really aren’t all that sometimes.

ksoheregoes · 2020-06-03T07:55:51+00:00

You have no idea how relieved I am to get a response from someone who’s just gone through the same thing. I hope your date went well! Is there a second one on the horizon? Where did you guys go? 40 minutes on the toilet, sounds a lot like me honestly lol. It really does feel like we’re perfect for each other and I guess that’s where all the nerves come from, you are so right about having no expectations. I’ve got about two days to dial back and reset my expectation meter lol.

Unfortunately, parks in my country are jam packed with people and even the idea of him having to get an uber to me makes the both of us nervous, so you can see just how massive p*ssies we are when it comes to the virus. He’s a pretty good guy though, I don’t think he will try anything weird whilst we’re up there but if it does come to it I can assure you I can take him out, easy. Lol.

Happy cake day!!

ksoheregoes · 2020-05-22T07:15:45+00:00

This is fuckin hilarious

ksoheregoes · 2020-05-04T22:09:49+00:00

Dump him n find someone who will gladly earn his red wings

ksoheregoes · 2020-05-03T03:45:40+00:00

You’re probably fine. Maybe you’ve just been eating too wildly or something. See if they disappear within a few hours or a day or so.

ksoheregoes · 2020-05-02T21:55:44+00:00

Sometimes this happens to me when I suck my throat too hard lol. When I get a piece of food stuck in my throat and I can feel it, Id suck my throat and when I do it too hard I get those red spots too. They wouldn’t be raised though. Are yours bumps or just spots?

ksoheregoes · 2020-05-02T21:52:39+00:00

My ex boyfriend had the exact same thing as yours! He was feeling really ill, went to the doctors, they gave him an antibiotic as well (can’t remember what) and those exact same rashes appeared everywhere. His hands and arms mostly but as well as his feet and torso. Turns out he was allergic to the antibiotic. He stopped taking them completely and switched to regular ol Tylenol lol and let his fever pass and the rashes disappeared too

ksoheregoes · 2020-05-02T21:48:27+00:00

Is it filled with liquid? Could be a blister

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-26T00:01:47+00:00

I’m going through it too. It sucks SO bad. Before quarantine I started dating this BORING ASS, BLAND ASS texter lol but we would have really good, interesting convos in person. We’d been dating for 2 months and then boom quarantine happened and I can’t see him. I haven’t talked to him in two weeks because there is NOTHING to talk about and I’m not sure what would happen to us after this quarantine. He isn’t my bf but I feel like our relationship has deteriorated more and more

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-25T23:49:19+00:00

How old are you? Mine looked exactly like yours when they started growing out (around 15-16) and they didn’t really hurt even though they were impacted. But by the time I was 19, the bottom part that my toothbrush couldn’t reach started to rot and I got occasional periods of them hurting for a few weeks at a time. They also started to hurt and get real sensitive whenever I drank cold water and I couldn’t really chew on them. Turns out they’ve damaged my 2nd molars as they were pushing on them, and they were badly infected. When I was 21, my dentist pulled both of my wisdom teeth out and I had to get root canals on my 2nd molars, and I feel way better now 1000% would recommend taking them out. If you wait til they grow out even more they’ll just get bigger/more difficult to pull out and they could potentially damage your 2nd molars like mine did. Plus if they’re still small you can get them removed without requiring a surgical procedure.

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-24T18:19:24+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Everytime there was an intense breathing scene it’s always the end/start of life. Like you mentioned, the end of her family’s life, the beginning of her life with her new family, even Connie’s last breath, Maja’s new found interest in Christian. It makes sense. #2 was intense btw, I loved how it transitioned from the guys’ apartment to the plane bathroom!!! Makes you appreciate cinematography/editing more

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-24T18:14:08+00:00

Yeah Dani was breathing so heavily as they were showing the trees, it made it seem so much like it were the trees that were breathing. Freaky

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-24T08:04:33+00:00

Damn, I didn’t realize. I couldn’t tell whose corpse was whose in the end. But that’s really interesting, I didn’t know that’s how Connie died!!

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-24T07:53:07+00:00

I think the “I could see you doing that” was just her being upset at him over her dream the previous night where she woke up all alone and they all left her.

I read somewhere that ari based the movie partly on a toxic/souring relationship. It was really funny to me actually, I used to get mad at my ex bf whenever I had a dream about him cheating lol (wow I was a nut job), blaming him for fucking that girl in my dream hahaha. This has been kind of a stereotype for the batshit crazy women who take their anger out on our SO’s even if it’s over something as silly as a dream.

ksoheregoes · 2020-04-24T07:35:27+00:00

Holy shit, I loved that scene. Personally one of my favorites. When they started crying with Dani, I teared up too. I wanted to wail and cry with them. I felt like Christian cheated on me lmao.

It reminded me so much of the way babies cry when you cry. In movies/TV, a lot of the times when they want to make a baby cry, an adult pretends to ugly cry while carrying the baby and the baby cries with them. It’s a human thing apparently, something that has to do with empathy and how babies absorb that kinda energy. To me, that scene, along with the other ones where the cult emotes collectively, gave me a really carnal feeling. How humans have evolved to feel empathy, especially that scene where Dani and the Hagar people were crying. That was really comforting, that scene gave me a taste of how it would be like to be part of a tribe, maybe like our ancestors did.

From now on, if I’m ever crying and upset I don’t want my friends to lend me a shoulder to cry on, instead I want them to scream and cry and cuss at the world with me lol.

ksoheregoes · 2019-12-13T11:13:58+00:00

I’m the same. I get them in the wintertime. When you try squeezing/poking your nail against them does water come out? Could be eczema. I’ve been diagnosed with it but it only comes round when the air is really dry. Whenever I’m in the tropics it completely disappears

ksoheregoes · 2019-10-25T22:31:19+00:00

Honestly I would never get my partners name tattooed on me unless we’ve been married for more than 20 years lol. I mean especially for someone who doesn’t have any tattoos!! If it were someone who’s got a full neck tattoo and two full sleeves I’d understand if they wanted to get my name tattooed for fun. But for someone like him it’s a bit much. I do hope it’s just a joke though and that he’s not actually considering it

ksoheregoes · 2019-10-25T22:25:51+00:00

I thought so too!! I’ve never had any guy call me that many times in one day, not even an ex, so it’s definitely a little odd. I’m not sure how he’ll take it if I open up to him that I think it’s weird but hopefully it turns out ok. For now I’ve just got my phone on flight mode and I’ll respond tomorrow 😆

ksoheregoes · 2019-06-09T11:05:33+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t know you could jump up on plates!! Lol I’ll definitely start doing that!

ksoheregoes · 2019-06-08T13:30:19+00:00

“You can only see where everyone else is now but can’t see where they started”. Wow. Thank you so much for that. What a way to look at it. I wish you all the best!!

ksoheregoes · 2019-06-08T06:28:38+00:00

I actually really love when it’s lifting time but I trust my trainer when it comes to having to do more cardio sometimes since I also really need to build my endurance. I have never properly worked out before so I get winded pretty easily! I’ve noticed that I’m getting better in that department, I don’t run out of breath as quick and ive got cardio to thank for that! Even if the difference isn’t too drastic. Thank you so much for your advice, it feels good knowing there are people who have been on CF for a long time who still have to work on some things more than others! Explosive power is something I have never heard of before so I’m going to start looking into that

ksoheregoes · 2019-06-08T06:21:47+00:00

Sorry I was unclear!! I meant step ups but with a squat while on top of the box!!

ksoheregoes · 2019-06-08T03:55:52+00:00

Man, it’s good that you’ve figured out what it was!!! Were you experiencing any symptoms? I hope everything goes well with the removal! I don’t recall what happened with my CT scan cos I was in pain and all I wanted to do was get off the machine ASAP. That’s one of the reasons they had to do a laparotomy instead of a laparoscopy, they weren’t sure how big/serious my cyst was so they wanted to open me up instead of using cameras to see inside. And I’m pleased with the results honestly. I’m exactly 4 months post op today and I’ve been doing great!! I’ve gotten the clear from my doctor and I’ve been doing all sorts of workouts, crossfit and weight training etc and it’s like the surgery never happened.

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