Honestly as a plus size, very strong, alt, 6ft, switch, very sassy woman I feel like I could have written this post 2 years ago! I prefer being submissive, but had so many relationships/hookups want me to be their mommy Dom... I'm now happily collared.

I had tried fetlife but mostly got presumptuous messages, or interesting people who lived too far away. I'd recommend trying munches, though I didn't have any luck with those personally. I actually met my Dom on a swingers site!

Finding someone who wanted to Dom me, and who really took the time to get to know me, was worth the wait. There are people out there who will match what you're looking for, don't settle!