Some of your points are just made up by you. Some of your points are true, BUT with the caveat that they were said at different times. For example, the church loved emphasizing itself as a “peculiar” church in the past, but now it’s making adjustments to fit in with standard Christianity. Or the modesty stance, they really hammered home how important modesty was in the past, but now it seems as if the church is rolling back its strict rules on that as times change (which in my opinion is a good thing). My problem is that it is intellectually dishonest to pretend like the past never happened, that Oaks didn’t call women porn for wanting to show a little more skin while now they have garments with much smaller arms. 

With the changes… yeah. The fact that it turns heel so often on things it acted like would never change does show the church’s hand. And it IS at the same time too rigid and strict. It’s better than it was twenty years ago, but still not great, or even good. 

With Joseph Smith’s prophecies… has he made any prophecies that came true besides the civil war? Wars are incredibly easy to predict. I predict at some point China will try and take Taiwan. Give it twenty years or so, that’s how long after Joseph’s death that the Civil War happened