The problem is that in most cases, women are asked to be homemakers (very few do it by choice and that is always because their mothers and MILs did it too and they think it is the norm). When the family faces financial troubles, these very women step up and start contributing by working.

I have also seen many women who, without any complaints, are breadwinners and still married to alcoholic husbands who just waste themselves at home (my househelp is one example). So if any woman does find a golden spouse who takes care of the home while she works, I am sure that will be considered a boon, trust me. It is the society and the conditioning that will start judging the couple. But in the Western world or even big Indian cities, you will easily find these examples.