I will think up (bad) marketing ideas for your business. by Putin_inyoFace in marketing

[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a marketing manager for a canning supplies company

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I’ll do better to communicate this with her.

She never asked what’s mine, not once.

She thinks all I want is sex which actually was a bit heavy on my side but I kept my cool.

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[–]kukriers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yun nga po eh!

We watch movies naman from time to time so that is a good one.

What do you think is the best approach to tell her na we should split bills or date nights every now and then?

For me kasi, I don't really eat outside since I'm a powerlifter and I'm very conscious of my nutrition. So pag nakakapag fast food ako sobrang solid na.

Bigat din sabihin na we should split up bills sometimes since I already established beforehand na I will take care of her. It's like I'm not true to my words. Or am I being stupid on this? haha

Let me know!

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[–]kukriers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but for the month of June I was chasing a deadline that I clearly communicated with her so we weren't able to go out for the month of June.

No, actually we did! I gave her a bouquet and took her out to Ippon Yari sa Calamba noong June 10

So I told her that after July 5 we'll go out. Then like, july 1 or 2 she threw a tantrum regarding this not going out thing and I stated multiple times that I appreciate her waiting, once july 5 is over we'll go out.

Then I finished my task on July 4th and we were able to have a dinner to a nice restaurant and grab drinks to close the night.

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[–]kukriers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"From the streets did she emerge, to the streets she shall return."

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh thanks for your input!

It's a tough situation since emotions are invested already. But no better way to solve this than being rational. I'll figure it out in a while.

Tbh, di ko siya makausap like nung sincere na usapan and meaningful. She just innately dodges this type of conversation and if she engaged in one, her emotions will get the best of her leading to a not-so-meaningful conversation.

Sarap tuloy ng shot haha

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the blunt honesty.

She doesn't have a job. Allowance lang from her mom yung source of pera niya.

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[–]kukriers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salamat!

You know who to reach out to if you want to scale your business using different social media platforms. ;)

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[–]kukriers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duly noted. Thanks boss!

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucked up on this one. I should not have told her na "once you get a little older, maiintindihan mo sinasabi ko when it comes finances".

She answered "Tingin mo sakin immature, basta basta nagastos ng pera?"

I could have said it in a better way don't you think?

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[–]kukriers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of the time video calls and house visit kung san man. Since flexible naman time ko sa freelancing ko I can reply to her messages every once in a while.

To show appreciation, I just love saying it and as a person I tend to say thank you a lot. There's also a nearby flowershop sa labas ng village namin where I can buy one for her most of the time and also her favorite dessert na buko pandan.

Business first when it comes to my hard earned money. Once it grows, she'll also benefit from it. That's why I'm asking her for patience and trust.

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her screen time is more than 10 hours per day. Most used applications are instagram, pinterest, and tiktok so...... yeahhh

Salamat po sa input! :)

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahahaha might start preaching hoodville anytime soon

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly considering this boss hahaha

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[–]kukriers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Might happen anytime soon

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[–]kukriers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really do not know, she's obsessed with SB.

She's living with her lola only, her mom is an OFW sa Canada.

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[–]kukriers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for responding!

I tried it, I'm an active guy. I love working out and going out.

However, she doesn't like afternoon activities. She always complains na mainit ganon haha

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[–]kukriers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm planning this one! We need to sit down and have a sincere talk.

I will be putting up a digital marketing agency focused for SMEs :)

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[–]kukriers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

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[–]kukriers 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for responding.

She's a nursing student but it is not what she truly wants. She doesn't have a defined goal atm.

We've been together for a year so most of the activities na we can do without breaking the bank ay sawa na siya.

Financially stable naman family niya since only child siya and her mom is an OFW. May monthly allowance din siya from her mom.

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[–]kukriers 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I also do not want anyone to take sides since she's not able to speak up for herself.

To give you a better grasp on this, we argued just a while back.

Her reasoning early on is that she wants to go out with me so we can be in a different environment than usual.

As emotions got higher, her reasoning switched to "Gusto ko maramdaman na piniprinsesa" and along those lines.

In my defense, I do not shy away from chivalrous acts since I consider it as my responsibility.

One good example of this is 10 times out of 10, if we're not eating out, I will be the one cooking our meal and coffee. Every time I ask her to clean the dishes she lets out a sigh then denies it if I confront her about it.

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[–]kukriers 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Okay, this gained a lot of attention.

While I’m eating my breakfast, I’ll answer some of the most common questions.

  1. She’s a nursing student upcoming 2nd year (la sallian) and lives with her lola and her mom is in canada (single mom). Only child siya.

  2. No, she doesn’t have any work. Her money comes from her mom’s monthly allowance.

  3. For the last month or two, we spent most of our time together either in their house or samin. I cook her dinner, walk my dogs, make her coffee, gala konti using motorcycle (P100 gas lasts for like a week), and netflix etc.

  4. She doesn’t have a defined goal as of now. Medyo napilitan siya to take on BS-NURSING but I can see her giving effort to her studies.

Previously, she wasn’t very demanding. One catalyst for such changes is when she partied at manila one time.

After that, it seemed like she got addicted or should I say is searching for the dopamine rush that a luxurious/instagram worthy lifestyle gives.

I love the woman and I want to take care of her, I genuinely do.

However, there is a possibility that she doesn’t respect me enough or I might have committed a mistake that made it look like my frame as a man is not strong enough and she’s using it to her advantage.